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  • Between the Pages – April Reading.

    1. This Book Made Me Think Of You – Libby Page

    • Moving
      • 4.5 Stars

    ‘The real magic of books is when turning the final page doesn’t mean an ending but a beginning – a beginning that only you can write’

    I honestly didn’t want this book to end, I enjoyed reading it so much. I was hooked from the moment I started reading.

    ‘The right book in the hands of the right person at exactly the right moment can change their life forever.’

    The story is about Tilly Nightgale’s journey, as she learns to live again after the devastating loss of her husband, Joe. Before he dies, Joe leaves her a deeply personal gift at a local bookstore, Book Lane, owned by Alfie. The gift is twelve carefully-curated books, one for each month, each intended to guide her through the long, aching first year of grief without him. Each book comes with a personal note from Joe explaining why he chose that particular story for her, as if he’s still speaking to her from beyond the page. It completely melted my heart – Libby Page writes with such warmth and insight that it feels almost like a gift in itself.


    For the next twelve months, Tilly goes on an adventure. Even with Joe having passed on, you feel his love and adoration for Lilly through this heartfelt gesture.

    ‘Bookshops aren’t just book shops. They are places for book lovers to come together, like minded souls meeting among the stacks’

    Her monthly visits to the book store lead to a friendship with Alfie. As time passes, feelings develop between Tilly and Alfie.

    ‘I think, maybe we don’t get just one love of our lives. Maybe we all have room in our hearts for more than one story’

    Libby Page did wonders with this book, the book is tender, emotional and pure. I particularly loved the way she tackles grief and the many ways people deal with it. I particular loved the fact that the book had so many book references, some I have read and some that I have added to my reading book list.

    This Book Made Me Think Of You is without a shadow of a doubt on my Top 12 favourite book for 2026.

    2. Kin – Tayari Jones

    • Riveting
      • 4 Stars

    There’s a poignant quote by Dr. Maya Angelou that says ‘Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.’ The quote resonated with me as I was reading Kin and the relationship between Vernice and Annie.

    Set in the 1950s/60s, in the Jim Crow south, Vernice (Niecy) and Annie story begins in Honeysuckle, Louisiana. Both motherless, Niecy mother was killed by her father who then took his life, she is raised by her aunt. Annie was abandoned at birth by her mother and never knew her father, she is raised by her grandmother. The two are raised as ‘cradle friends’ forming an unbreakable bond that has its own complexities.
    As they get older, their paths diverge, Annie escapes Honeysuckle, following an unstable path searching for her mother and Niecy goes to Spelman College where her eyes and her world opens up. The friends maintain their relationship through letters where their different life circumstances and choices are laid bare.

    Tayari Jones does a great job of showing the complexities of being a woman in the American South. The story is centered on women – their choices, sacrifices, and connections. The story also explores race, class, culture, gender and sexuality.

    Not an easy read but Kin is deeply moving, riveting and the story is told beautifully. It raises profound questions about the true meaning of family; ‘Family is not always Blood’, true ‘family’ bonds are defined by love, loyalty, acceptance, and support.

    3. Lost Lambs

    • Outrageous
      • 4 Stars

    The Flynn family are so dysfunctionally entertaining. I loved each and every family member with their outrageous views and take on life.

    A bit about the Flynn family; there’s Catherine and Bud, the parents with marital problems, who are struggling to connect, they decide to have an open marriage. Their three daughters are each dealing with their own personal challenges. The eldest seventeen year old daughter, Abigail is dating an older man nicknamed War Crime Wes; the middle child, Louise has an online friend who influences her into terrorism acts; and then there’s the youngest daughter Harper, smart but a law unto herself. She believes the town is under surveillance and she uncovers her dad’s boss’s shady business dealings.

    The story is as chaotic as the characters – there is some conspiracy and criminality involved and the people in the story are navigating life, some with their own weird and outrageous views on life.
    The ending was stellar, a reminder that even in the midst of what seems like dysfunction, disarray and turmoil, there is love and unity.

    Madeline Cash’s writing is uniquely funny, witty, well-paced and well-written. It had me hooked from the start.

    4. Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow – Gabrielle Zevin

    • Nostalgic
      • 4 Stars

    This book was recommended to me by a good friend, there were raving reviews about it and she thought I would enjoy it. She was not wrong. I loved it. Having grown up in the eighties, playing video games, I relished the journey this book took me on – the gaming / arcade era. I was obsessed with playing Double Dragon, Pac Man, Galaxia, Tekken…the list is endless. 

    The book opens with an encounter at a train station between childhood friends Sam Masur – now studying maths at Harvard – and Sadie Green, who’s at MIT studying video game design. They reunite and before long, they’re are working on creating a video game together.

    ‘It’s more than romantic. it’s better than romance. It’s friendship.’ 

    At the centre of this book is a rare friendship between Sam and Sadie. The story takes us back to their first meeting in hospital, where Sam had become reclusive, dealing with the aftermath of badly injured foot and quietly carrying the weight of loss. Their love for gaming forms the foundation of their friendship. It becomes the thing that binds them, giving them a shared language when words fail. It’s the kind of friendship that feels unbreakable – until it isn’t, until a misunderstanding build up to the point where one of them shuts the other out completely. In todays terms, the one friend blocked the other.  

    Post their reunion, they begin working on the creating the game, this journey brings them together as well as tears them apart. Sam’s roommate, Marx, joins them as a business partner.  The trio experience moments of great success, painful failure, upheaval, heartbreak and loss. I found myself attached to this trio, their journey pulled me in because it shows how complex relationship can get and it also shows how success can bring people closer, but also quietly drive them apart.

    Gabrielle has done a stellar job, in my opinion, of gently weaving together Sam’s struggle with his disability and Sadie’s experience of sexism in the video game industry and in life more broadly in the story. What stayed with me most is how the book offers such a thoughtful glimpse into how friendships evolve over time in ways that feel both subtle and painfully real.

    A nostalgic read and all characters were intriguing and some memorable.

    5. In Her Defence – Phillipa Malicka

    • Anticlimatic
      • 3 Stars

    I had high expectations for this book, given its many recommendations from Reese Witherspoon’s book club, but I was ultimately underwhelmed – for one thing, it did not feel like a thriller to me. There were moments that left me gasping, but not in a way typical of a thriller – there was little suspense and no major plot twists. Instead, it relied more on coincidences, unpredictable questionable characters, and occasional high-stakes moments.

    The book opens at the start of a trial where a beloved TV star and national treasure Anna Finbow has taken her daughter Mary’s therapist, Jean Guest to court. Anna is accusing Jean of brainwashing her daughter for her own financial gain.

    The story is told by Gus (Augusta,) a former employee of Anna, who also has a vested interest in the outcome of the case. As the story unfolds the timeline alternates between the trial and Rome, where Gus, Mary and Jean have a connection and the details of their connection comes to light.

    The premise of the book seemed interesting and sadly it did not deliver. It was still a good read but not one I would rant and rave about.

    TS!


  • Wrapped in Stories: February & March Reads

    ‘Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.’

    4 Stars

    1. The Eights – Joanna Miller

    • Delightful

    A delightful read that follows an unlikely friendship between four women who attend Oxford University in 1920, the first year that women were formally allowed to receive degrees.


    Known as ‘the Eight’ because they occupy four rooms along Corridor Eight at St Hugh’s College, Oxford; Beatrice Sparks, Theodora Greenwood, Marianne Grey and Ottoline Wallace-Kerr hail from different walks of life each shaped by trauma, pressure, and hardship. They carry secrets they find hard to open up about and yet they are united by a shared determination to earn their degrees.
    Over the course of their first year, the four women navigate life at Oxford helping each other in different ways challenging the status quo and fighting for their rights in man’s world where they are not wanted.

    ‘Ubi cordia, ibi victoria, Where there is unity, there is victory.’

    Joan Miller has done a stellar job at bringing in historical details throught the book, I particularly liked how at the beginning of the chapters, she had real newspaper snippets or a set of university rules and regulations which highlighted the different ways male and female students were treated.


    A book like The Eight is a stark reminder that women have had to fight relentlessly just to be treated as equals and that fight is far from over. While meaningful progress has been made and many women today have secured a ‘seat at the table,’ equality remains far from complete. The story resonates not just as a reflection of the past, but as a mirror of the ongoing struggles women navigate in the present day.

    I loved this book and I enjoyed reading it.

    2. The Nightingale – Kristin Hannah

    • Heartwrenching

    I was shattered after reading The Nightingale. A poignantly beautiful novel that tells the story of what it was like to be a woman during World War II, when women’s stories were all too often forgotten or overlooked.

    ‘Men tell stories. Women get on with it. For us it was a shadow war. There were no parades for us when it was over, no medals or mentions in history books. We did what we had to during the war, and when it was over, we picked up the pieces and started our lives over.’

    The story is told from a perspective of two sisters, Isabelle, an impetuous teenager who’s searching for purpose. And Vivian, a wife, mother and teacher who lives a life guided by rules. Both are shaped by the same absence: a mother gone too soon, and a father who left them behind at boarding school, turning childhood into something colder, more contained.
    The sisters have a complex delicate relationship and when the war starts they each embark on their own dangerous paths towards survival. Isabella joins the French Resistance, risking her life to help downed airmen escape Nazi territory. Vivian risks her life helping orphaned jewish children. She endures her own tragedy at the hands of the German officers who stay at with her.

    ‘In love we find out who we want to be. In war we find out who we are.’


    There are love stories woven into the book, but I like that they don’t overshadow the story of these brave women that Kristin Hannah is telling.

    An unforgettable and heartwrenching story that celebrates the incredible strength, the unspoken acts of bravery and resilience of women. This is a modern classic masterpiece, the characters and the story stayed in my heart. I’m so looking forward to the movie adaptation.

    3. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Gail Hofmeyer

    • Magnificent

    I loved seeing the world through Eleanor’s perspective. She’s the type of person I would enjoy spending time with. Her character makes you ponder human behaviour.
    Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is an entertaining read but baked in pain. Eleanor is a thirty year old with no friends, she lives alone and has worked the same job for nine years. She is completely fine with her life.

    ‘Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.’

    Her life changes when she meets Raymond from IT, an easy going colleague with questionable hygiene. Its through this unlikely friendship that we get to see the painful life that Eleanor has lived and how her friendship with Raymond makes her a better understand human interactions.

    ‘Time only blunts the pain of loss. It doesn’t erase it.’

    The book is magnificently funny, entertaining, heartwarming, heartbreaking and tragic. I loved the way Gail Honeyman wrote the story, Eleanor’s character is memorable and witty.

    ‘The past had been hiding from me – or I’d hidden from it – and yet there it was, still, lurking in darkness. It was time to let in a little light.’

    3.5 Stars

    4. Sounds like love – Ashley Poston

    • Dreamy

    I was so looking forward to reading this book after having read Ashley Poston, The Seven Year Slip. But if I’m honest, it didn’t land as brilliantly. I struggled with the premise of the main characters reading each other’s thoughts, I found it distracting but their story still made the book captivating.

    ‘Sometimes the dreams you come with aren’t the dreams you leave with, and sometimes you just don’t leave at all.’


    The story opens at a music concert where we meet Joni Lark, a songwriter who is struggling with writers block and coming to terms with her mother’s illness. She meets Sebestian Fell, a former boy-band star hiding in the shadow of his famous father. The two but heads, Joni thinks Sebestian is full of himself. But when a kiss cam locks onto them, they play along…the kiss leaves them with questions. Joni then leaves the concert unannounced and heads back home to Vienna Shores with the hope of finding some inspiration.

    She reunites with her family and best friend, Gigi. She also has to face some very harsh realities – her mothers illness and the fact that her parents have taken a decision to close their music venue the Revelry that has been in the family for years. While figuring out her life, she starts to hear a melody and a man’s voice in her head.


    The story was told beautifully, I loved how the romance played out and how these two character found each other through music. The cameo appearance of my favourite people from The Seven Year Slip, was nicely done. It took me back to how much I loved their story.

    Even with all the unfortunate life challenges in the book, the one thing that Ashley Poston does is tell a heartwarming story that leaves one feeling completely satisfied.

    ‘We just want to live everyday as full as we can, because the only thing that makes grief worse is regret. And I don’t want anyone to regret anything…’

    5. Some Bright Nowhere – Ann Packer

    • Heartbreaking

    This book is heavy, heartbreaking and complex. Eliot and Claire have been married for nearly four decades, with two two adult children and two grandchildren. Eliot’s wife Claire was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago and has been undergoing chemo. Throughout Claire’s illness, Eliot has selflessly transitioned into the role of caregiver. Claire has reached the stage where she will be stopping treatment and preparing for the inevitable.


    As Eliot plans to spend his last days with Claire, she makes a request that sets his world spinning. My heart broke for Eliot having to endure and support his wife’s unexpected dying wish. What was meant to be a time of processing the inevitable, their marriage is tested. There were moments when I disliked Claire’s character and then I had moments where I put myself in her shoes, one can never comprehend what goes on a person’s mind when death doors are knocking. It’s easy to judge from the outside.


    Some Bright Nowhere explores the emotional reality of someone facing death and the quiet, complicated emotions of those who support someone through it.


    I loved how Ann Packer told the story from Eliot’s perspective. She focuses on his relationship dynamics – his relationship with Claire, his children, Claire’s friends and his friends.


    This book is a heavy but a riveting read.

    3 Stars

    6. Bosadi – Kopano Matlwa

    • Heavy

    A touching story that is told through Naledi’s and Aunty (Naledi’s Zimbabwean domestic worker) perspective. 

    ‘Neither in life nor death is there justice for a woman.’ 

    Bosadi tells the story of Naledi, whose life is confined in an abusive marriage and as to carry the family as the bread winner. Aunty whose privy to the fights carries her own pain – these two women form a complex protective relationship. 

    The book is set during Covid during a time when there was a rise in silent war – the ‘Shadow Pandemic’. (A surge in violence against women and girls, primarily intimate partner violence, that intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic.) Fast forward to November 2025, GBV (Gender Based Violence) is declared a national disaster.

    The book was captivating, the story premise topical and important in the context of South Africa. The book itself was a quick, easy read, I read it in one sitting. Unfortunately the writing style did not work for me. 

    7. Coconut – Kopano Matlwa

    • Intriguing

    Having read her latest novel, Bosadi, I had mixed feelings about her writing style and wanted to read another book of hers before forming an opinion. I decided to get Coconut, her debut novel.

    The premise of the book seemed interesting: a story of two Black girls who grow up in white suburbs and struggle with their identity. There’s Ofilwe, who grows up in a privileged world and is eager to fit in and be accepted in her white society, and Fikile, who comes from a township and is desperate to leave her past behind. Through these two stories, the reader gets a glimpse into the hardships of Black South Africans. The book touches on Blackness, racial identity, and self-worth in South Africa, although at times it feels like it only scratches the surface.

    Kopano’s writing has depth and insight. That said, I had the same issue here as I did with Bosadi. Her storytelling style made it a bit hard for me to fully get into the book.

    Having grown up in the Coconut era, there were moments of nostalgia with the book highlighting the challenges faced by people of colour who had to integrate within a society that made them feel less than and inferior.

    Its an easy read.

     2.5 Stars

    8. Home Bodies – Tembe Denton-Hurst

    • Dreary

    I really wanted to give Home Bodies a higher rating, but I struggled to get into this book. The story follows Mickey, a Black woman working in media, she struggles to connect with her white boss. She’s seen as difficult to work with and is eventually replaced by another Black woman, which leaves her feeling pretty hard done by. While she’s dealing with all of that at work, her relationship at home is also being put to the test.

    The first part of the book, set in New York, is engaging and full of promise. Watching Mickey navigate her life, career, and relationships really pulled me in. But once she moves back home to Maryland, things start to drag. The story loses momentum and becomes quite slow and I found myself losing interest and just wanting to get to the end.

    I also felt like Tembe Denton-Hurst could have gone deeper into Mickey’s work struggles. That aspect felt especially relatable – so many people of colour working in white-dominated industries deal with these kinds of challenges every day and it would’ve been great to see that explored more fully.

    Overall, the book has a really strong premise. It touches on race, identity, and workplace dynamics in a way that could have been incredibly powerful. Unfortunately, the execution didn’t quite live up to that potential, which was a bit disappointing.

    TS!


  • ‘Life is better with a Little Italian’ – Pink Mama’s

    Pink Mama’s is housed within a beautifully restored home, its painted a signature soft pink. The indoor dining area opens onto a terrace overlooking the Padel courts.

    Pink Mama’s has that easy-going Italian charm where you instantly feel at home.

    The menu leans into classic Italian comfort food and us vegetarians have options to choose from. The Truffle & Porcini Arancini was a win. I tried the pistachio pesto & ricotta pasta but that didn’t quite land for me. I had a more pleasurable dining experience by ordering a combination of vegetarian dishes from their antipasti. 

    Overall, Pink Mama’s is the kind of spot you settle into, be it for long, lazy Friday lunches or brunch with friends or family or dinner date night or dinner with friends, it just works.

    Pink Mama’s is the type of place one keeps going back to.


  • January Book Review

    1. Heart the Lover – Lily King
    • 5 Stars

    ‘Love is crushing. Love is something you let yourself feel at your own peril, despite your better sense’… 

    I read this book on a Saturday, and I couldn’t put it down, it was that good. A deeply moving story with an intricate throuple.

    The story follows a young woman nicknamed Daisy, later known as Jordan – a name given to her by Sam and Yash, her classmates in a literature course. The novel follows Jordan’s life from her senior year of college to adulthood, where she is married with children.

    During her college years, Jordan spends most of her time with Sam and Yash, sharing long discussions about literature and bonding over card games. Friendships evolve into romance, introducing emotional complexity and difficult choices. These decisions, deeply influenced by questions of faith and life’s complexities, shape the course of their futures.

    As the story shifts to a married Jordan, the impact of those formative years becomes clear. The choices made in college echo forward, altering their lives in ways that cannot be undone. When long-buried secrets resurface amid a terminal illness, Jordan, Yash and Sam are forced to confront the lasting consequences of their past.

    Heart the Lover ripped my heart in half and left me shattered. This was my first Lily King book, and I loved her writing style; this story is told from a narrator’s perspective. The characters were memorable and the story telling gripped me from the first chapter. I fully understand the hype around this book and why it became a favourite for so many readers in 2025.

    2. Before We Were Strangers – Renee Carlino

    • 5 Stars

    ‘We were victims of bad timing. But here we are again.’

    As I read Matthias and Graceland’s story, my heart ached for them in the best possible way, and I found myself cheering for them. Their bond felt like a once‑in‑a‑million kind of love, destined to endure every challenge and hardship that was thrown their way.

    Matt and Grace meet in college on their first day at Senior College and become ‘Fast Friends’ – they become inseparable. Matt is an aspiring photographer, while Grace is a music major. Their bond is magnetic; they inspire and nurture each other’s creative gifts, and over time their friendship deepens into love, both believing it will last forever.

    But when they’re each offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Matt accepts his without any hesitation, while Grace has her reservations. As they navigate the next phase of their lives, things fall apart – everything begins to unravel, there’s communication breakdown – time passes and life goes on.

    3. Twice – Mitch Albom

    • 4 Stars

    ‘You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.’

    Twice is packed with so many meaningful moments, I could not put it down.

    The book begins with Alfie (Alfred) Logan in Nassau, being interrogated by a detective for allegedly cheating and winning millions at a casino roulette wheel. During the interrogation, he reads from a notebook and relays the intriguing story of his life – spanning his time in Africa and America. We also discover that Alfie has a unique ability to go back and do things a second time, altering the outcome for better or worse. His love story pulls you in; it’s earnest, compelling, and filled with valuable lessons along the way.

    When I was reading this book, I had a few moments of reflection and wondered; if I had the ability to go back, what moments would I choose to do twice? For me, there are two pivotal moments, and both involve using the time I had with people who were once dear to the fullest.

    This is the third Mitch Albom book I’ve read. The first was Tuesdays with Morrie, which I discovered while navigating life with a terminally ill sibling. That book became the therapy I needed. Twice was just as profound for me, and it served as a powerful reminder to cherish the time we have with the people we love- real life has no do-overs.

    4. The First Time I Saw Him – Laura Dave

    • 3.5 Stars

    The First Time I Saw Him is the sequel to The Last Thing He Told Me, it was selected as one of Reese’s Book Club picks for January and the novel generated significant interest, following the release of the Apple TV series trailer which will air on the 20th February 2026.

    The book is a continuation of the story from Last Thing He Told Me. Although I haven’t read the original, I watched the TV series and found it gripping. Naturally, I was intrigued by The First Time I Saw Him and wanted to read it before the start of the TV series.

    The story starts five years after Owen’s disappearance and focuses on Hannah and her stepdaughter Bailey, now living in Southern California. When Owen is spotted, Hannah quickly understands that their safety is at risk, and life begins to unravel for them. Hannah mission is to keep Bailey safe. The story delves into the past, I enjoyed getting to know all the other characters and the intricacies of their connections. The one theme that stood out for me in this book, is family and the lengths people go to protect their loved ones.

    The book is fast paced and easy to get into. I’m still on the fence on whether reading the book before the TV series will have an impact. I guess I’ll have the answer once I’ve watched the TV series.

    5. An Almost Perfect Summer – Jill Mansel

    • 3.5 Stars

    I’m a sucker for books set in small towns, I enjoy the escape and picturing the setting and getting lost in it. This book was fun to read from that perspective but felt the multiple characters that get introduced make it hard to stay engaged.

    The story opens with Nella and Nick bickering over the last bunch of roses at a farm shop. Nick is a charming and attractive man who manages luxury holiday homes in a Cotswolds village, while Nella is a highly organized local whose life is abruptly disrupted when she loses her job due to circumstances beyond her control. From there, the novel unfolds through a series of events that gradually draw the two characters together.

    Following her redundancy, Nick offers Nella a position at the retreat. Although there is an undeniable spark between them, Nella is determined to resist her growing feelings. As she begins working at the retreat, the reader is introduced to a range of intriguing characters, each with their own storyline. These narratives are thoughtfully interwoven, adding depth and variety to Nick and Nella’s developing relationship.

    My only criticism is that I would have liked to see more development in Nick and Nella’s romance. That said, the novel remains thoroughly enjoyable, light-hearted, and entertaining.

    6. The Beginning of Everything – Jackie Frase

    • 3 Stars

    Even though I found the premise of the story in the beginning slightly unrealistic, I enjoyed the unfolding story of Jess and Gethin’s relationship. Jess has escaped a bad relationship and is homeless. She finds shelter and becomes a squatter. Gethin, the owner of the house, a kindhearted man, finds Jess in his home and lets her stay. Jess and Gethin get to know each other, and they become friends who develop feelings for each other.

    I was proud of Jess for her bravery for leaving her abusive relationship. Gethin’s patience and kindness towards Jess was commendable.

    This is a character-driven story, easy to read and get into. The pacing was good. If the premise wasn’t so unrealistic, I would have given the book 4 stars.


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    Exploring Joburg’s Culinary Delights at Mila Restaurant

    Food tells a story that imprints memories.  

    One thing about Joburgers — myself included — is that we truly appreciate the good life, and this was clear the day we headed out for a late lunch at Mila Restaurant at LXX in Sandton. From the moment we arrived, we stepped into an unhurried yet vibrant atmosphere, with patrons enjoying business lunches and others catching up with friends. My friend and I had recently revived our Ladies Who Lunch catch-up, and this outing felt like the perfect way to settle back into it. 

    The restaurant’s aesthetic exudes understated luxury—warm, elegant, refined, and welcoming. 

    As a non‑drinking vegetarian foodie, I’ve learnt to manage my expectations when it comes to mocktails. All too often, they’re served in plain glass tumblers that feel more like an afterthought than a crafted drink. So when my mocktail arrived beautifully presented and photo ready, I was pleasantly surprised. In that moment, I knew we were off to a very good start. 

    The food…shew…where does one even begin? It was that good. I ordered a selection of vegetarian dishes, and honestly, I savoured every single one. The Zucchini Keftedes was without a doubt my favourite meal.   

    The dessert was just as delicious and beautifully presented.

    Left Image – Dakos Burrata; Top Image – Halloumi Ricotta Ravioli; Right Image – Zucchini Keftedes
    Dessert
    Top Image – Hazelnut Tart; Bottom Image – Kafethaki Vanilla Brule

    Out of 10, I would rate our overall experience 9.

    • Food gets a 9.
    • Restaurant aesthetics and ambience gets a 9.
    • Price gets a 7, the food is on the pricey side but on all fairness, eating out has become a tad pricey.


  • 2025 Reading!

    “Something magical can happen when we read a good book.”

    Books have a unique power to take us to places we may never physically go – they offer an escape. The stories allow our imagination to travel freely, introducing us to new ideas, perspectives and igniting our imagination.


    Two years ago, I started being intentional with limiting my screen time. I then set a target to read at least 1 book a month. Fast forward to 2025 and I have managed to read 60 books. Fiction being the books I read most.

    2025 books I read!

    What makes a book great in my view is when the story and the characters stay embedded in my heart and mind long after I have read the book. I will share brief review of the books that gave me that feeling. These books I couldn’t put down. In some instances, I found myself reading through the night.


    I have picked 12 books for the number of months, this was a real daunting task but I managed.
    The book review will focus on 3 things;
    o Is the story enjoyable?
    o Are the characters memorable?
    o Is it a book that I can re-read?
    Each book will be graded out of 5.

    2025 Top 12 Reads!
    1. The Wish – Nicholas Spark
      • 5 stars
      • The story opens in 2019, where we meet Maggie, a renowned New York–based photographer who owns a gallery. Her life takes an unexpected turn when she meets Mark, who soon begins working at the gallery. As Maggie and Mark grow closer, Maggie reflects on her past, taking us on an emotional journey of her past. The story shifts to 1996, when a young Maggie is sent away to live with her aunt. There, she meets Bryce, a warm-hearted boy wise beyond his years. A deep friendship forms between them, and it’s Bryce who introduces Maggie to photography. He becomes a vital source of support during a formative time in her life.
      • The Wish is a complex story that addresses important societal issues and life challenges.
      • Maggie as a character stayed with me for days, weeks and months after reading. I loved the setting and the story. This book, I couldn’t put down.
    2. Cant Get Enough – Kennedy Ryan
      • 5 stars
      • After reading This Could Be Us and Before I Let Go, this book was one of my most anticipated reads for the year and it didn’t disappoint.
      • Hendrix is a successful businesswoman and has phenomenal friends. She’s facing a few life challenges, her toughest being caring for her aging mother. She meets Maverick Bell, a tech billionaire whose chasing the next big thing in his life. Sparks fly. There’s instant attraction but Maverick is in an entanglement, which complicates their instant connection.
      • As destiny would have it, his relationship comes to an amicable ending. This gives Maverick an opportunity to pursue Hendrix. The romance between them is shown beautifully – its smart, its uplifting, its loving wholeheartedly and supportive.
      • What brings them together is a shared experience of having a family member who had or has Alzheimer’s.
      • I love how Kennedy Ryan always builds awareness for a variety of topics in her books. I also enjoyed reading about black love shown in a positive light.
    3. Atmosphere – Taylor Jenkins Reid
      • 5 stars
      • The story follows Joan Goodwood who gets selected for the NASA’s space shuttle programme in the 80ties. In the book, you get to relive Joan’s past and present while in the programme. You also meet the other canditates/ characters who are part of the programme and have an impact in her life in some shape or form.
      • This is a voyage of discovery for Joan, not just in space but also her self-discovery. The story is fast-paced, gripping and heartbreaking.
      • A beautiful tribute to the women who broke boundaries in the 80ties when women were only just being accepted into space programs.
      • The story and the characters stayed with me for a long time after reading this book.
    4. We all want impossible things – Catherine Newman
      • 5 stars
      • A book about two imperfect best friends since childhood, Ashley and Edith, who have been through everything together. As adults they are navigating a difficult time in their lives – Edith has terminal cancer.
      • While the book is heavy and sad in places, it also celebrates friendship, relationships and love.
      • We All Want Impossible Things reminded me of a quote that says ‘The only certainty in life is death.’ As much as the story is about the inevitable, the story is just as much about living. It is a story of full of life and laughter.
    5. Seven days in June – Tia Williams
      • 4.5 stars
      • This story is not a simple love story; its romantic, it’s compelling and layered in past traumas and survival.
      • It follows two writes, Eva, a single mom and Shane, a successful bad boy of the literary world. They have a romantic past. When they reconnect after fifteen years, they have chemistry; it’s steamy, its messy, its complicated as they have to confront their past.
      • I loved this book. I’m a sucker for second-chance romance and Tia Williams delivered with the portrayal of the characters and their flaws in this book.
    6. Love Marry Kill – Zukiswa Wanner
      • 4 stars
      • Two couples, one steamy love affair and a hitman. ‘Till death do us part’ means different things to people. This book is an emotionally layered love story with twist and turns. This book is a page-turner, which dives into the messiness of infidelity and the length people will go to keep what’s theirs.
      • A great read.
    7. Fabrics of love – Lebo Mazibuko
      • 4 stars
      • Fabrics of Love needs to made into a Limited Series – goodness this was such a pleasant read. Growing up in Soweto, the character, the setting was so relatable.
      • The story follows the lives of the Ntoi family, with a particular focus on its women. At the heart of it is Buang, the formidable matriarch who works tirelessly to keep the family together – she’s a fierce protector, she is resilient and sadly has been hardened by her past. Then there’s Prettygirl, the vibrant life of a party – a familiar township character full of charm and energy. Her sister Rosemary is book-smart, focused, and disciplined; she is driven by ambition and purpose. Then there’s their cousin Moipone, a quiet and timid young woman who carries unseen scars from her childhood.
      • Through the eyes of these women, the story explores their journeys as they chase their dreams while confronting culture, family secrets, love, relationships and the weight of past trauma.
      • A multi layered captivating book. I loved how Lebo Mazibuko brought to light the vibrancy of Meadowlands (Soweto).
    8. One Golden Summer – Carley Fortune
      • 4 stars
      • I stumbled upon this on Instagram, there was a lot of hype around it, and my curiosity was immediately sparked. I then had to read the 1st book, Every Summer After.
      • Carley Fortune has a gift for painting the picture of a magical summer. As much as I loved Percy and Sam’s story in Every Summer After, I connected even more deeply with Charlie and Alice’s journey. This is a story steeped in nostalgia – One picture. Three teens. A yellow boat. Its where past summers collide with present-day choices, and a beautiful friendship slowly unfolds into a deeply emotional summer romance.
      • Charlie is charming and self-assured. Alice gives more than she receives, she puts everyone before herself. Charlie helps Alice step out of her shell and Alice helps Charlie deal with his deep regret. They complement each other in so many ways and have the most hilarious banter. Their chemistry felt natural and warm.
      • Overall, this was a fun, emotionally rich read, one that truly captures the magic of the lake. As the story reminds us, ‘Good things happen at the lake.’
    9. Things we left behind – Lucy Score
      • 4 stars
      • This is the third and final book in the Knockemout series. Sloan and Lucian were my most anticipated couple in the series and Lucy Score didn’t disappoint.
      • I absolutely loved Sloan and Lucian’s relationship, especially their sharp, entertaining banter. As adults, they may claim to loathe each other, but neither can deny the sparks between them. Their history adds so much depth to the story – from childhood friends, to sworn enemies after an incident that shattered their bond, and finally to lovers.
      • Sloan is feisty, witty, and warm-hearted, with dreams of a traditional happy ending – a loving husband and children. Lucian, on the other hand, has become powerful and wealthy, capable of making anything happen, except committing to the idea of family, which he firmly resists.
      • I love how Lucian would do anything for Sloane even when he insistent that he didn’t like her. It warmed my heart that they got their happy ending.
      • While I didn’t particularly enjoy the crime subplot, it was expected, as it featured heavily in Things We Never Got Over and Things We Hide from the Light. Still, it was a joy to return to Knockemout. I have a soft spot for small-town settings – even fictional ones, as they stretch the imagination and transport you to places you may never otherwise experience.
    10. Tell me everything – Elizabeth Strout
      • 4 stars
      • It follows a friendship between 90 year old Olive Kitteridge, Bob Burgess whose the central character, a lawyer and acclaimed writer Lucy Barton.
      • Through quiet, intimate conversations, Lucy and Bob reflect on their lives and what might have been, while Olive and Lucy share stories about people they have known.
      • The true allure of this book lies in its richly drawn characters and their complex inner lives—because human beings themselves are deeply complex. Woven through the narrative is a mystery that gradually unfolds, drawing in characters who carry their own layers of history and emotional depth.
      • This book is beautifully written. Although I haven’t read the previous novels in the series, I found it easy to follow and completely captivating from start to finish.
    11. What a way to go – Bella Mackie
      • 3.5 stars
      • A murder mystery with a humour all in one.
        Anthony Wistern is a wealthy, charming, philander with a dysfunctional family set to inherit his fortune. Upon his untimely death, each of them becomes potential suspects.
      • The characters are self absorbed and not really likeable but they make a good story.
    12. The love we found – Jill Santos
      • 3.5 stars
      • A sequel to The Light We Lost, which I would highly recommend reading before starting this book. Ten years have passed, and a great deal of life has unfolded since the end of the first story.
      • This sequel is rich with blended family dynamics, hidden truths, and the challenge of confronting the past while learning how to move forward. It explores the reality that people are imperfect and that life is often complicated and messy. The story continues with Lucy a single mother juggling the needs of her children, her life after Gabe and finding love again.
      • The story is emotional, it’s moving and it’s well written.
        I’m chuffed with what I have been able to accomplish with my reading.

    I’m chuffed with what I was able to achieve this year. The goal has been set and I plan to continue in 2026.


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    Splendid Cape Town

    I’ve been fortunate that my line of work has afforded me the opportunity to see a bit of Cape Town (CT). Being a person that loves to experience new things, I always make time to explore and visit different parts of this beautiful city.

    CT runs pretty well and is geared for tourism, however there are often those uncomfortable dynamics that one becomes privy to – the lack of exposure for the ‘People’ of CT and the apparent gap between the haves & the have not’s. Granted these problems are Universal in other Countries/Cities, it still does make one feel somewhat uneasy when you speak or interact with the locals.

    Having said that, CT is always a splendid experience and has what I call indescribable natural beauty. My last trip was extra special, spent time with family and got to revisit some of the tourist attractions.

    What we did

    Like most people who visit CT for the 1st time, we started at Robben Island – A World Heritage Site, described “as a unique symbol of the triumph of the human spirit, of freedom, and of democracy over oppression.”

    We were fortunate to meet Christo Brand, a former prison guard who was one of several that were responsible for guarding Nelson Mandela and he is the author of ‘Doing life with Mandela: My prisoner, my friend.’ He spoke briefly on his relationship with Nelson Mandela and focused more on promoting his book.

    The tours on the island are run by former political prisoners whom have extensive knowledge and history of the island – a great history lesson.

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    Our next stop was Table Mountain – the iconic symbol of CT and recently named as one of the 7wonders of Nature. Our timing was perfect – late afternoon, no queues.

    When you get to the top of the mountain, you can actually view the splendor that is Cape Town.

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    On top of Table Mountain

    We took a sunset drive up Signal Hill, a fantastic place to enjoy the view of the sun setting over the Atlantic, perfect sundowner location.

    The kids got to visit the Aquarium and took a ride on the Cape Wheel at the Waterfront.

    Where we ate

    What I LOVE about CT is an abundance of places one can grab a bite to eat, you really are spoilt for choice.

    1. The Grand Café & Beach

    • The restaurant is part of Cape Town’s V&A Waterfront and is located on a private beach in Grander Bay. I battled to find something to eat as some of the Vegetarian sides were not available. I opted for their margarita Pizza, which was very LARGE with a thin base and tasted really good, I thoroughly enjoyed it.
    • The restaurant has a great atmosphere and vibe.

    2. The Bungalow Restaurant

    • Located of the Glen Beach Country Club in Clifton, the outside area of Bungalow reminds me of some of the restaurant in Santorini (Greece) – endless sea views, soft colour tones in a classy yet relaxing setting. I opted for the Tricolore, a perfect light meal.
    • Overall the restaurant has a great vibe and fantastic views of the sea that stretched from horizon to horizon and not forgetting the mountain.

    3.  Tokara Restaurant

    • Three words best describeTokara ‘Memorable Dinning Experience.’ The restaurant is situated on the wine estate with views over Stellenbosch and False Bay.From the outside one might think that the restaurant is a bit ‘STUFFY’ however the overall ambience is relaxed.The menu is substantial, I had all three courses and all three were a splendid experience. The drive from CT was worth it,Tokara is a must and I highly recommend it.

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    Where we had dessert

    1.  Charly’s Bakery

    • Charly’s Bakery!! The kids were indessert heaven with all the designer cup-cakes and cookies available to buy. I have been a fan of this bakery for years and I don’t leave CT without a visit toCharly’s.

    2.  Tashas Waffle House – Constantia

    • This place is dessert heaven…it has an array of sweet treats, frozen yogurt, shakes, waffles and ice-cream. I don’t usually like taking pictures of food but I could not resist when I saw the size of our waffles.

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    • I had the Red velvet cheese cake waffle which I did not enjoy as much as the Choc Chip Waffle.

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    Where we stayed

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    Verdict:-

    Awesome trip, a perfect combination of places we went, ate and chilled.

    TS

    **Images of the Bungalow are from http://www.thebungalow.co.za

     


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    Jozini Tiger Lodge and Spa

    Jozini Tiger Lodge and Spa is situated along the banks of Lake Jozini, the hotel is well positioned overlooking the Jozini Dam with views of the Lebombo Mountains.

    The Lodge is ideal for a weekend getaway, corporate offsite events and weddings. Some of the leisure activities available include fishing, game viewing, boat cruises, kayaking, hiking and birding trails – perfect for the outdoor enthusiast.

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    Hotel Facilities

    The lodge has a restaurant that offers – breakfast, lunch, supper. A lounge, bar, Boma, conference and wedding venue, pool, children’s playroom, Mangwanani spa, gymnasium and not so great WiFi – this seems to be a universal problem for most hotels.

    Accommodation

    The lodge has 70 Rooms

    • 44 Classic Rooms, 21 Family Lofts, 3 Deluxe Rooms and 2 Executive Suites.
      • All rooms at the lodge are fully air-conditioned and are en-suite, with both bath and shower facilities.

    We stayed in the Executive Suite, which has a kitchen, a mini lounge and a large balcony. The room has ample space and extremely private.

    The only negative thing about this room is the open plan bathroom/bedroom layout, I’m not a fan of a toilet that does not have a door. An element of privacy for the toilet is a must.

    Hotel Rates start from R825-00 Per Person Sharing

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    Conference

    The iSilo Conference Centre is capable of accommodating up to 250 delegates and can be split into three smaller conference rooms.

    The Lodge also has three smaller boardrooms – Nyawo, Gumede & Myeni, located above the Conference Centre. I later learned that the boardrooms are named after the tribal families governing the local area.

    VERDICT:-

    Great value for money, a great place to be at when you want to get away from the hectic hustle and bustle of urban living.

    The hotel location is ideal for people wanting to explore the Elephant Coast (Zululand – KZN),it is surrounded by a host of World Heritage Sites and Nature Reserves.

      • If you travel south you will reach Isimangaliso Wetland Park (previously known as the Greater St. Lucia Wetland Park ) and Hluhluwe-Imfolozi Game Reserve.
      • Travel North to Ndume Game Reserve, home to the last wild elephants of Southern Africa or view traditional fish kraals at Kosi Bay.
      • Travel East to Sodwana Bay, famous for diving and fishing – a nature lover’s paradise..

    A 4×4 is a MUST especially if you want to fully explore the area.

    www.jozinitigerlodge.co.za

    www.threecities.co.za/hotel/jozinitigerlodge/

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  • Vacay – London

    INCREDIBLE’ – pretty much sums up our mini vacay to London early in the year.

    We kicked off our vacay with a tour of London using the London Black Taxi Cab Tour Service. What I like about this tour is that it offers you the opportunity to visit and explore the sights of London from the comfort and convenience of an iconic London Black Taxi.  Our driver, Dave was excellent with extensive knowledge of the city.

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    Accommodation

    Our home was the Radisson Blu Edwardian New Providence Wharf Hotel, overlooking the Thames, directly opposite the O2 Arena.

    • With 169 spacious bedrooms and suites, including the 7th floor Penthouse the hotel rooms are well equipped meeting both the business and leisure traveller.

    We had a spacious room with magnificent views of the River Thames and the O2. The breakfast buffet had a great selection and LOVED the fact that they had Soya milk and I could order my Soya Cappuccino. The staff at the hotel were great and extremely helpful.

    Hotel Facilities and Amenities include:

    A Restaurant, Bar, Fitness centre, Spa, FREE Wi-Fi, Room service, Meeting/banquet facilities, Business centre, Concierge

    Great hotel for business and leisure.

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    Dining

    I’m no foodie but I do enjoy a good meal, with great company at a restaurant with a great vibe and service.Our overall dining experience was way better than our very 1st visit  to London – no Mc Donalds, Burger King or Pizza Hut.

    1. Le Pain Quotidien

    My bestie came across a bakery/deli/restaurant called ‘Le Pain Quotidien’ which means ‘our daily bread’. As one enters the deli, there’s a distinct aroma of freshly baked bread. The deli had such a pleasant vibe to it – very homely and welcoming.

    The menu is quite substantial and they do cater to vegetarian. I opted for the Tartine – AVOCADO & OMEGA-3, very delicious sandwich.

    I absolutely love these small Deli/Bakeries, it was a nice break from the norm of always going to Starbucks.

    1. Zuma

    We had the privilege being invited for lunch at Zuma, this restaurant is the crème de la crème of Asian fusion cuisine.

    I tried every single vegetarian dish that was available, the veges were cooked to perfection even the meat eaters were digging into my veges.

    Pure sophistication – Amazing Food – Great Company – Fantastic Atmosphere – Friendly and Professional Staff.

    1. Union Street

    This place was a complete let down, we chose to have dinner at Union because of its affiliation with Gordon Ramsay.  The food was blend, limited vegetarian but they did try to accommodate me. The vibe and atmosphere were great however one does not eat the vibe at a  restaurant.

    Will I go back? No, I will need a lot of convincing to go back. Very disappointing indeed.

    1. High Tea at the Dorchester

    After failing to get a booking for High Tea as most places were fully booked, we were lucky that ‘we knew a someone, that knows someone ‘ that got us a booking at the Dorchester. This hotel is where the ‘OTHER HALF’ stay – the hotel is a symbol of luxury, opulence, the epitome of timeless glamour.

    The high tea is served in the Promenade, a lobby on the ground floor of the hotel with huge throne-like chairs to sink into and a pianist gently tinkling away.

    We went with the High Tea menu – Savoury finger sandwiches, Warm scones served with glistening strawberry jam and cream, a platter of cakes and tartlets and a very large selection of teas. The service and overall experience was Splendid.

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    CONCERT

    Mrs Carter – O2 Arena

    One word to sum up this concert – PRICELESS

    From the moment she enters the stage, Beyonce commands nothing but attention from her audience and right from the outset she brings such an incredible wave of energy to her performance.

    She kicked off the show with ‘Run the World (Girls)’ a perfect way to set the scene for her show.

    The Mrs Carter Show is a beating of ultra-slick showstoppers – Baby Boy, Diva, Crazy in Love, HALO, Love on Top, Flawless, XO…

    The other highlight of the Mrs Carter show was when she performed ‘Drunk in Love’ and called on stage her husband…amazing chemistry, the Carter are a winning combination.

    I also loved her rendition of ‘I will always Love you’ a nice touch to this high energy show.

    The dancing is fierce, their wardrobe selection is captivating – the dozen glitzy couture costume changes,  Beyonce is truly an exceptional performer, everything about this show was PHENOMENAL.

    I have a newfound respect for MRS CARTER.

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    Great holiday, good company, an overall  Splendid Experience.

    xoxo

    TS


  • Premier Hotel EL ICC

    I stayed at the Premier Hotel in East London (EL) and I was extremely impressed by this hotel, even thou my stay was brief, the hotel staff made it a Splendid Experience.

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    Situated on the Esplanade with ocean views to die for, the Premier Hotel EL ICC is the ultimate venue of choice for the discerning business or leisure traveller.

    The hotel is adjacent to the East London International Convention Centre and a mere 15 minute’s drive from the East London Airport.

    Hotel Facilities

    A Restaurant, Bar, Wi-Fi, 24 hour reception service, Limited room service, laundry, ironing, Spa, Business centre.

    Accommodation

    The hotel has 260 Rooms – 2 Penthouses/2 Ambassador Suites/90 Suites/166 Deluxe Rooms.

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    Conference

    Conferences can be hosted at either the Premier Hotel Regent or the East London International Convention Centre.

    Dining

    The Salmon Restaurant located on the 3rd floor, offers the diner with a discerning palette, an array of dishes from their a la carte menu.

    The hotel also has Room Service that’s available till 10pm daily.

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    VERDICT:-

    Great hotel, perfect location, staff are friendly and professional. Highly recommend the hotel and will definitely return there if in EL for business or leisure.

    TS


  • It’s a GIRL – Baby Shower Event

    Had such a blast hosting this baby shower for my childhood Bestie, this is one of my delayed blogs, my friend had her baby already;-)

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“Fill your life with experiences, not things. Have stories to tell, not stuff to show.

My love for travelling was ignited by my parents, they opened our eyes to the world of travel and encouraged us to explore the world.

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