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  • Between the Pages – April Reading.

    1. This Book Made Me Think Of You – Libby Page

    • Moving
      • 4.5 Stars

    ‘The real magic of books is when turning the final page doesn’t mean an ending but a beginning – a beginning that only you can write’

    I honestly didn’t want this book to end, I enjoyed reading it so much. I was hooked from the moment I started reading.

    ‘The right book in the hands of the right person at exactly the right moment can change their life forever.’

    The story is about Tilly Nightgale’s journey, as she learns to live again after the devastating loss of her husband, Joe. Before he dies, Joe leaves her a deeply personal gift at a local bookstore, Book Lane, owned by Alfie. The gift is twelve carefully-curated books, one for each month, each intended to guide her through the long, aching first year of grief without him. Each book comes with a personal note from Joe explaining why he chose that particular story for her, as if he’s still speaking to her from beyond the page. It completely melted my heart – Libby Page writes with such warmth and insight that it feels almost like a gift in itself.


    For the next twelve months, Tilly goes on an adventure. Even with Joe having passed on, you feel his love and adoration for Lilly through this heartfelt gesture.

    ‘Bookshops aren’t just book shops. They are places for book lovers to come together, like minded souls meeting among the stacks’

    Her monthly visits to the book store lead to a friendship with Alfie. As time passes, feelings develop between Tilly and Alfie.

    ‘I think, maybe we don’t get just one love of our lives. Maybe we all have room in our hearts for more than one story’

    Libby Page did wonders with this book, the book is tender, emotional and pure. I particularly loved the way she tackles grief and the many ways people deal with it. I particular loved the fact that the book had so many book references, some I have read and some that I have added to my reading book list.

    This Book Made Me Think Of You is without a shadow of a doubt on my Top 12 favourite book for 2026.

    2. Kin – Tayari Jones

    • Riveting
      • 4 Stars

    There’s a poignant quote by Dr. Maya Angelou that says ‘Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.’ The quote resonated with me as I was reading Kin and the relationship between Vernice and Annie.

    Set in the 1950s/60s, in the Jim Crow south, Vernice (Niecy) and Annie story begins in Honeysuckle, Louisiana. Both motherless, Niecy mother was killed by her father who then took his life, she is raised by her aunt. Annie was abandoned at birth by her mother and never knew her father, she is raised by her grandmother. The two are raised as ‘cradle friends’ forming an unbreakable bond that has its own complexities.
    As they get older, their paths diverge, Annie escapes Honeysuckle, following an unstable path searching for her mother and Niecy goes to Spelman College where her eyes and her world opens up. The friends maintain their relationship through letters where their different life circumstances and choices are laid bare.

    Tayari Jones does a great job of showing the complexities of being a woman in the American South. The story is centered on women – their choices, sacrifices, and connections. The story also explores race, class, culture, gender and sexuality.

    Not an easy read but Kin is deeply moving, riveting and the story is told beautifully. It raises profound questions about the true meaning of family; ‘Family is not always Blood’, true ‘family’ bonds are defined by love, loyalty, acceptance, and support.

    3. Lost Lambs

    • Outrageous
      • 4 Stars

    The Flynn family are so dysfunctionally entertaining. I loved each and every family member with their outrageous views and take on life.

    A bit about the Flynn family; there’s Catherine and Bud, the parents with marital problems, who are struggling to connect, they decide to have an open marriage. Their three daughters are each dealing with their own personal challenges. The eldest seventeen year old daughter, Abigail is dating an older man nicknamed War Crime Wes; the middle child, Louise has an online friend who influences her into terrorism acts; and then there’s the youngest daughter Harper, smart but a law unto herself. She believes the town is under surveillance and she uncovers her dad’s boss’s shady business dealings.

    The story is as chaotic as the characters – there is some conspiracy and criminality involved and the people in the story are navigating life, some with their own weird and outrageous views on life.
    The ending was stellar, a reminder that even in the midst of what seems like dysfunction, disarray and turmoil, there is love and unity.

    Madeline Cash’s writing is uniquely funny, witty, well-paced and well-written. It had me hooked from the start.

    4. Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow – Gabrielle Zevin

    • Nostalgic
      • 4 Stars

    This book was recommended to me by a good friend, there were raving reviews about it and she thought I would enjoy it. She was not wrong. I loved it. Having grown up in the eighties, playing video games, I relished the journey this book took me on – the gaming / arcade era. I was obsessed with playing Double Dragon, Pac Man, Galaxia, Tekken…the list is endless. 

    The book opens with an encounter at a train station between childhood friends Sam Masur – now studying maths at Harvard – and Sadie Green, who’s at MIT studying video game design. They reunite and before long, they’re are working on creating a video game together.

    ‘It’s more than romantic. it’s better than romance. It’s friendship.’ 

    At the centre of this book is a rare friendship between Sam and Sadie. The story takes us back to their first meeting in hospital, where Sam had become reclusive, dealing with the aftermath of badly injured foot and quietly carrying the weight of loss. Their love for gaming forms the foundation of their friendship. It becomes the thing that binds them, giving them a shared language when words fail. It’s the kind of friendship that feels unbreakable – until it isn’t, until a misunderstanding build up to the point where one of them shuts the other out completely. In todays terms, the one friend blocked the other.  

    Post their reunion, they begin working on the creating the game, this journey brings them together as well as tears them apart. Sam’s roommate, Marx, joins them as a business partner.  The trio experience moments of great success, painful failure, upheaval, heartbreak and loss. I found myself attached to this trio, their journey pulled me in because it shows how complex relationship can get and it also shows how success can bring people closer, but also quietly drive them apart.

    Gabrielle has done a stellar job, in my opinion, of gently weaving together Sam’s struggle with his disability and Sadie’s experience of sexism in the video game industry and in life more broadly in the story. What stayed with me most is how the book offers such a thoughtful glimpse into how friendships evolve over time in ways that feel both subtle and painfully real.

    A nostalgic read and all characters were intriguing and some memorable.

    5. In Her Defence – Phillipa Malicka

    • Anticlimatic
      • 3 Stars

    I had high expectations for this book, given its many recommendations from Reese Witherspoon’s book club, but I was ultimately underwhelmed – for one thing, it did not feel like a thriller to me. There were moments that left me gasping, but not in a way typical of a thriller – there was little suspense and no major plot twists. Instead, it relied more on coincidences, unpredictable questionable characters, and occasional high-stakes moments.

    The book opens at the start of a trial where a beloved TV star and national treasure Anna Finbow has taken her daughter Mary’s therapist, Jean Guest to court. Anna is accusing Jean of brainwashing her daughter for her own financial gain.

    The story is told by Gus (Augusta,) a former employee of Anna, who also has a vested interest in the outcome of the case. As the story unfolds the timeline alternates between the trial and Rome, where Gus, Mary and Jean have a connection and the details of their connection comes to light.

    The premise of the book seemed interesting and sadly it did not deliver. It was still a good read but not one I would rant and rave about.

    TS!


  • Wrapped in Stories: February & March Reads

    ‘Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.’

    4 Stars

    1. The Eights – Joanna Miller

    • Delightful

    A delightful read that follows an unlikely friendship between four women who attend Oxford University in 1920, the first year that women were formally allowed to receive degrees.


    Known as ‘the Eight’ because they occupy four rooms along Corridor Eight at St Hugh’s College, Oxford; Beatrice Sparks, Theodora Greenwood, Marianne Grey and Ottoline Wallace-Kerr hail from different walks of life each shaped by trauma, pressure, and hardship. They carry secrets they find hard to open up about and yet they are united by a shared determination to earn their degrees.
    Over the course of their first year, the four women navigate life at Oxford helping each other in different ways challenging the status quo and fighting for their rights in man’s world where they are not wanted.

    ‘Ubi cordia, ibi victoria, Where there is unity, there is victory.’

    Joan Miller has done a stellar job at bringing in historical details throught the book, I particularly liked how at the beginning of the chapters, she had real newspaper snippets or a set of university rules and regulations which highlighted the different ways male and female students were treated.


    A book like The Eight is a stark reminder that women have had to fight relentlessly just to be treated as equals and that fight is far from over. While meaningful progress has been made and many women today have secured a ‘seat at the table,’ equality remains far from complete. The story resonates not just as a reflection of the past, but as a mirror of the ongoing struggles women navigate in the present day.

    I loved this book and I enjoyed reading it.

    2. The Nightingale – Kristin Hannah

    • Heartwrenching

    I was shattered after reading The Nightingale. A poignantly beautiful novel that tells the story of what it was like to be a woman during World War II, when women’s stories were all too often forgotten or overlooked.

    ‘Men tell stories. Women get on with it. For us it was a shadow war. There were no parades for us when it was over, no medals or mentions in history books. We did what we had to during the war, and when it was over, we picked up the pieces and started our lives over.’

    The story is told from a perspective of two sisters, Isabelle, an impetuous teenager who’s searching for purpose. And Vivian, a wife, mother and teacher who lives a life guided by rules. Both are shaped by the same absence: a mother gone too soon, and a father who left them behind at boarding school, turning childhood into something colder, more contained.
    The sisters have a complex delicate relationship and when the war starts they each embark on their own dangerous paths towards survival. Isabella joins the French Resistance, risking her life to help downed airmen escape Nazi territory. Vivian risks her life helping orphaned jewish children. She endures her own tragedy at the hands of the German officers who stay at with her.

    ‘In love we find out who we want to be. In war we find out who we are.’


    There are love stories woven into the book, but I like that they don’t overshadow the story of these brave women that Kristin Hannah is telling.

    An unforgettable and heartwrenching story that celebrates the incredible strength, the unspoken acts of bravery and resilience of women. This is a modern classic masterpiece, the characters and the story stayed in my heart. I’m so looking forward to the movie adaptation.

    3. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Gail Hofmeyer

    • Magnificent

    I loved seeing the world through Eleanor’s perspective. She’s the type of person I would enjoy spending time with. Her character makes you ponder human behaviour.
    Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is an entertaining read but baked in pain. Eleanor is a thirty year old with no friends, she lives alone and has worked the same job for nine years. She is completely fine with her life.

    ‘Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.’

    Her life changes when she meets Raymond from IT, an easy going colleague with questionable hygiene. Its through this unlikely friendship that we get to see the painful life that Eleanor has lived and how her friendship with Raymond makes her a better understand human interactions.

    ‘Time only blunts the pain of loss. It doesn’t erase it.’

    The book is magnificently funny, entertaining, heartwarming, heartbreaking and tragic. I loved the way Gail Honeyman wrote the story, Eleanor’s character is memorable and witty.

    ‘The past had been hiding from me – or I’d hidden from it – and yet there it was, still, lurking in darkness. It was time to let in a little light.’

    3.5 Stars

    4. Sounds like love – Ashley Poston

    • Dreamy

    I was so looking forward to reading this book after having read Ashley Poston, The Seven Year Slip. But if I’m honest, it didn’t land as brilliantly. I struggled with the premise of the main characters reading each other’s thoughts, I found it distracting but their story still made the book captivating.

    ‘Sometimes the dreams you come with aren’t the dreams you leave with, and sometimes you just don’t leave at all.’


    The story opens at a music concert where we meet Joni Lark, a songwriter who is struggling with writers block and coming to terms with her mother’s illness. She meets Sebestian Fell, a former boy-band star hiding in the shadow of his famous father. The two but heads, Joni thinks Sebestian is full of himself. But when a kiss cam locks onto them, they play along…the kiss leaves them with questions. Joni then leaves the concert unannounced and heads back home to Vienna Shores with the hope of finding some inspiration.

    She reunites with her family and best friend, Gigi. She also has to face some very harsh realities – her mothers illness and the fact that her parents have taken a decision to close their music venue the Revelry that has been in the family for years. While figuring out her life, she starts to hear a melody and a man’s voice in her head.


    The story was told beautifully, I loved how the romance played out and how these two character found each other through music. The cameo appearance of my favourite people from The Seven Year Slip, was nicely done. It took me back to how much I loved their story.

    Even with all the unfortunate life challenges in the book, the one thing that Ashley Poston does is tell a heartwarming story that leaves one feeling completely satisfied.

    ‘We just want to live everyday as full as we can, because the only thing that makes grief worse is regret. And I don’t want anyone to regret anything…’

    5. Some Bright Nowhere – Ann Packer

    • Heartbreaking

    This book is heavy, heartbreaking and complex. Eliot and Claire have been married for nearly four decades, with two two adult children and two grandchildren. Eliot’s wife Claire was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago and has been undergoing chemo. Throughout Claire’s illness, Eliot has selflessly transitioned into the role of caregiver. Claire has reached the stage where she will be stopping treatment and preparing for the inevitable.


    As Eliot plans to spend his last days with Claire, she makes a request that sets his world spinning. My heart broke for Eliot having to endure and support his wife’s unexpected dying wish. What was meant to be a time of processing the inevitable, their marriage is tested. There were moments when I disliked Claire’s character and then I had moments where I put myself in her shoes, one can never comprehend what goes on a person’s mind when death doors are knocking. It’s easy to judge from the outside.


    Some Bright Nowhere explores the emotional reality of someone facing death and the quiet, complicated emotions of those who support someone through it.


    I loved how Ann Packer told the story from Eliot’s perspective. She focuses on his relationship dynamics – his relationship with Claire, his children, Claire’s friends and his friends.


    This book is a heavy but a riveting read.

    3 Stars

    6. Bosadi – Kopano Matlwa

    • Heavy

    A touching story that is told through Naledi’s and Aunty (Naledi’s Zimbabwean domestic worker) perspective. 

    ‘Neither in life nor death is there justice for a woman.’ 

    Bosadi tells the story of Naledi, whose life is confined in an abusive marriage and as to carry the family as the bread winner. Aunty whose privy to the fights carries her own pain – these two women form a complex protective relationship. 

    The book is set during Covid during a time when there was a rise in silent war – the ‘Shadow Pandemic’. (A surge in violence against women and girls, primarily intimate partner violence, that intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic.) Fast forward to November 2025, GBV (Gender Based Violence) is declared a national disaster.

    The book was captivating, the story premise topical and important in the context of South Africa. The book itself was a quick, easy read, I read it in one sitting. Unfortunately the writing style did not work for me. 

    7. Coconut – Kopano Matlwa

    • Intriguing

    Having read her latest novel, Bosadi, I had mixed feelings about her writing style and wanted to read another book of hers before forming an opinion. I decided to get Coconut, her debut novel.

    The premise of the book seemed interesting: a story of two Black girls who grow up in white suburbs and struggle with their identity. There’s Ofilwe, who grows up in a privileged world and is eager to fit in and be accepted in her white society, and Fikile, who comes from a township and is desperate to leave her past behind. Through these two stories, the reader gets a glimpse into the hardships of Black South Africans. The book touches on Blackness, racial identity, and self-worth in South Africa, although at times it feels like it only scratches the surface.

    Kopano’s writing has depth and insight. That said, I had the same issue here as I did with Bosadi. Her storytelling style made it a bit hard for me to fully get into the book.

    Having grown up in the Coconut era, there were moments of nostalgia with the book highlighting the challenges faced by people of colour who had to integrate within a society that made them feel less than and inferior.

    Its an easy read.

     2.5 Stars

    8. Home Bodies – Tembe Denton-Hurst

    • Dreary

    I really wanted to give Home Bodies a higher rating, but I struggled to get into this book. The story follows Mickey, a Black woman working in media, she struggles to connect with her white boss. She’s seen as difficult to work with and is eventually replaced by another Black woman, which leaves her feeling pretty hard done by. While she’s dealing with all of that at work, her relationship at home is also being put to the test.

    The first part of the book, set in New York, is engaging and full of promise. Watching Mickey navigate her life, career, and relationships really pulled me in. But once she moves back home to Maryland, things start to drag. The story loses momentum and becomes quite slow and I found myself losing interest and just wanting to get to the end.

    I also felt like Tembe Denton-Hurst could have gone deeper into Mickey’s work struggles. That aspect felt especially relatable – so many people of colour working in white-dominated industries deal with these kinds of challenges every day and it would’ve been great to see that explored more fully.

    Overall, the book has a really strong premise. It touches on race, identity, and workplace dynamics in a way that could have been incredibly powerful. Unfortunately, the execution didn’t quite live up to that potential, which was a bit disappointing.

    TS!


  • ‘Life is better with a Little Italian’ – Pink Mama’s

    Pink Mama’s is housed within a beautifully restored home, its painted a signature soft pink. The indoor dining area opens onto a terrace overlooking the Padel courts.

    Pink Mama’s has that easy-going Italian charm where you instantly feel at home.

    The menu leans into classic Italian comfort food and us vegetarians have options to choose from. The Truffle & Porcini Arancini was a win. I tried the pistachio pesto & ricotta pasta but that didn’t quite land for me. I had a more pleasurable dining experience by ordering a combination of vegetarian dishes from their antipasti. 

    Overall, Pink Mama’s is the kind of spot you settle into, be it for long, lazy Friday lunches or brunch with friends or family or dinner date night or dinner with friends, it just works.

    Pink Mama’s is the type of place one keeps going back to.


  • January Book Review

    1. Heart the Lover – Lily King
    • 5 Stars

    ‘Love is crushing. Love is something you let yourself feel at your own peril, despite your better sense’… 

    I read this book on a Saturday, and I couldn’t put it down, it was that good. A deeply moving story with an intricate throuple.

    The story follows a young woman nicknamed Daisy, later known as Jordan – a name given to her by Sam and Yash, her classmates in a literature course. The novel follows Jordan’s life from her senior year of college to adulthood, where she is married with children.

    During her college years, Jordan spends most of her time with Sam and Yash, sharing long discussions about literature and bonding over card games. Friendships evolve into romance, introducing emotional complexity and difficult choices. These decisions, deeply influenced by questions of faith and life’s complexities, shape the course of their futures.

    As the story shifts to a married Jordan, the impact of those formative years becomes clear. The choices made in college echo forward, altering their lives in ways that cannot be undone. When long-buried secrets resurface amid a terminal illness, Jordan, Yash and Sam are forced to confront the lasting consequences of their past.

    Heart the Lover ripped my heart in half and left me shattered. This was my first Lily King book, and I loved her writing style; this story is told from a narrator’s perspective. The characters were memorable and the story telling gripped me from the first chapter. I fully understand the hype around this book and why it became a favourite for so many readers in 2025.

    2. Before We Were Strangers – Renee Carlino

    • 5 Stars

    ‘We were victims of bad timing. But here we are again.’

    As I read Matthias and Graceland’s story, my heart ached for them in the best possible way, and I found myself cheering for them. Their bond felt like a once‑in‑a‑million kind of love, destined to endure every challenge and hardship that was thrown their way.

    Matt and Grace meet in college on their first day at Senior College and become ‘Fast Friends’ – they become inseparable. Matt is an aspiring photographer, while Grace is a music major. Their bond is magnetic; they inspire and nurture each other’s creative gifts, and over time their friendship deepens into love, both believing it will last forever.

    But when they’re each offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Matt accepts his without any hesitation, while Grace has her reservations. As they navigate the next phase of their lives, things fall apart – everything begins to unravel, there’s communication breakdown – time passes and life goes on.

    3. Twice – Mitch Albom

    • 4 Stars

    ‘You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.’

    Twice is packed with so many meaningful moments, I could not put it down.

    The book begins with Alfie (Alfred) Logan in Nassau, being interrogated by a detective for allegedly cheating and winning millions at a casino roulette wheel. During the interrogation, he reads from a notebook and relays the intriguing story of his life – spanning his time in Africa and America. We also discover that Alfie has a unique ability to go back and do things a second time, altering the outcome for better or worse. His love story pulls you in; it’s earnest, compelling, and filled with valuable lessons along the way.

    When I was reading this book, I had a few moments of reflection and wondered; if I had the ability to go back, what moments would I choose to do twice? For me, there are two pivotal moments, and both involve using the time I had with people who were once dear to the fullest.

    This is the third Mitch Albom book I’ve read. The first was Tuesdays with Morrie, which I discovered while navigating life with a terminally ill sibling. That book became the therapy I needed. Twice was just as profound for me, and it served as a powerful reminder to cherish the time we have with the people we love- real life has no do-overs.

    4. The First Time I Saw Him – Laura Dave

    • 3.5 Stars

    The First Time I Saw Him is the sequel to The Last Thing He Told Me, it was selected as one of Reese’s Book Club picks for January and the novel generated significant interest, following the release of the Apple TV series trailer which will air on the 20th February 2026.

    The book is a continuation of the story from Last Thing He Told Me. Although I haven’t read the original, I watched the TV series and found it gripping. Naturally, I was intrigued by The First Time I Saw Him and wanted to read it before the start of the TV series.

    The story starts five years after Owen’s disappearance and focuses on Hannah and her stepdaughter Bailey, now living in Southern California. When Owen is spotted, Hannah quickly understands that their safety is at risk, and life begins to unravel for them. Hannah mission is to keep Bailey safe. The story delves into the past, I enjoyed getting to know all the other characters and the intricacies of their connections. The one theme that stood out for me in this book, is family and the lengths people go to protect their loved ones.

    The book is fast paced and easy to get into. I’m still on the fence on whether reading the book before the TV series will have an impact. I guess I’ll have the answer once I’ve watched the TV series.

    5. An Almost Perfect Summer – Jill Mansel

    • 3.5 Stars

    I’m a sucker for books set in small towns, I enjoy the escape and picturing the setting and getting lost in it. This book was fun to read from that perspective but felt the multiple characters that get introduced make it hard to stay engaged.

    The story opens with Nella and Nick bickering over the last bunch of roses at a farm shop. Nick is a charming and attractive man who manages luxury holiday homes in a Cotswolds village, while Nella is a highly organized local whose life is abruptly disrupted when she loses her job due to circumstances beyond her control. From there, the novel unfolds through a series of events that gradually draw the two characters together.

    Following her redundancy, Nick offers Nella a position at the retreat. Although there is an undeniable spark between them, Nella is determined to resist her growing feelings. As she begins working at the retreat, the reader is introduced to a range of intriguing characters, each with their own storyline. These narratives are thoughtfully interwoven, adding depth and variety to Nick and Nella’s developing relationship.

    My only criticism is that I would have liked to see more development in Nick and Nella’s romance. That said, the novel remains thoroughly enjoyable, light-hearted, and entertaining.

    6. The Beginning of Everything – Jackie Frase

    • 3 Stars

    Even though I found the premise of the story in the beginning slightly unrealistic, I enjoyed the unfolding story of Jess and Gethin’s relationship. Jess has escaped a bad relationship and is homeless. She finds shelter and becomes a squatter. Gethin, the owner of the house, a kindhearted man, finds Jess in his home and lets her stay. Jess and Gethin get to know each other, and they become friends who develop feelings for each other.

    I was proud of Jess for her bravery for leaving her abusive relationship. Gethin’s patience and kindness towards Jess was commendable.

    This is a character-driven story, easy to read and get into. The pacing was good. If the premise wasn’t so unrealistic, I would have given the book 4 stars.


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    Exploring Joburg’s Culinary Delights at Mila Restaurant

    Food tells a story that imprints memories.  

    One thing about Joburgers — myself included — is that we truly appreciate the good life, and this was clear the day we headed out for a late lunch at Mila Restaurant at LXX in Sandton. From the moment we arrived, we stepped into an unhurried yet vibrant atmosphere, with patrons enjoying business lunches and others catching up with friends. My friend and I had recently revived our Ladies Who Lunch catch-up, and this outing felt like the perfect way to settle back into it. 

    The restaurant’s aesthetic exudes understated luxury—warm, elegant, refined, and welcoming. 

    As a non‑drinking vegetarian foodie, I’ve learnt to manage my expectations when it comes to mocktails. All too often, they’re served in plain glass tumblers that feel more like an afterthought than a crafted drink. So when my mocktail arrived beautifully presented and photo ready, I was pleasantly surprised. In that moment, I knew we were off to a very good start. 

    The food…shew…where does one even begin? It was that good. I ordered a selection of vegetarian dishes, and honestly, I savoured every single one. The Zucchini Keftedes was without a doubt my favourite meal.   

    The dessert was just as delicious and beautifully presented.

    Left Image – Dakos Burrata; Top Image – Halloumi Ricotta Ravioli; Right Image – Zucchini Keftedes
    Dessert
    Top Image – Hazelnut Tart; Bottom Image – Kafethaki Vanilla Brule

    Out of 10, I would rate our overall experience 9.

    • Food gets a 9.
    • Restaurant aesthetics and ambience gets a 9.
    • Price gets a 7, the food is on the pricey side but on all fairness, eating out has become a tad pricey.


  • 2025 Reading!

    “Something magical can happen when we read a good book.”

    Books have a unique power to take us to places we may never physically go – they offer an escape. The stories allow our imagination to travel freely, introducing us to new ideas, perspectives and igniting our imagination.


    Two years ago, I started being intentional with limiting my screen time. I then set a target to read at least 1 book a month. Fast forward to 2025 and I have managed to read 60 books. Fiction being the books I read most.

    2025 books I read!

    What makes a book great in my view is when the story and the characters stay embedded in my heart and mind long after I have read the book. I will share brief review of the books that gave me that feeling. These books I couldn’t put down. In some instances, I found myself reading through the night.


    I have picked 12 books for the number of months, this was a real daunting task but I managed.
    The book review will focus on 3 things;
    o Is the story enjoyable?
    o Are the characters memorable?
    o Is it a book that I can re-read?
    Each book will be graded out of 5.

    2025 Top 12 Reads!
    1. The Wish – Nicholas Spark
      • 5 stars
      • The story opens in 2019, where we meet Maggie, a renowned New York–based photographer who owns a gallery. Her life takes an unexpected turn when she meets Mark, who soon begins working at the gallery. As Maggie and Mark grow closer, Maggie reflects on her past, taking us on an emotional journey of her past. The story shifts to 1996, when a young Maggie is sent away to live with her aunt. There, she meets Bryce, a warm-hearted boy wise beyond his years. A deep friendship forms between them, and it’s Bryce who introduces Maggie to photography. He becomes a vital source of support during a formative time in her life.
      • The Wish is a complex story that addresses important societal issues and life challenges.
      • Maggie as a character stayed with me for days, weeks and months after reading. I loved the setting and the story. This book, I couldn’t put down.
    2. Cant Get Enough – Kennedy Ryan
      • 5 stars
      • After reading This Could Be Us and Before I Let Go, this book was one of my most anticipated reads for the year and it didn’t disappoint.
      • Hendrix is a successful businesswoman and has phenomenal friends. She’s facing a few life challenges, her toughest being caring for her aging mother. She meets Maverick Bell, a tech billionaire whose chasing the next big thing in his life. Sparks fly. There’s instant attraction but Maverick is in an entanglement, which complicates their instant connection.
      • As destiny would have it, his relationship comes to an amicable ending. This gives Maverick an opportunity to pursue Hendrix. The romance between them is shown beautifully – its smart, its uplifting, its loving wholeheartedly and supportive.
      • What brings them together is a shared experience of having a family member who had or has Alzheimer’s.
      • I love how Kennedy Ryan always builds awareness for a variety of topics in her books. I also enjoyed reading about black love shown in a positive light.
    3. Atmosphere – Taylor Jenkins Reid
      • 5 stars
      • The story follows Joan Goodwood who gets selected for the NASA’s space shuttle programme in the 80ties. In the book, you get to relive Joan’s past and present while in the programme. You also meet the other canditates/ characters who are part of the programme and have an impact in her life in some shape or form.
      • This is a voyage of discovery for Joan, not just in space but also her self-discovery. The story is fast-paced, gripping and heartbreaking.
      • A beautiful tribute to the women who broke boundaries in the 80ties when women were only just being accepted into space programs.
      • The story and the characters stayed with me for a long time after reading this book.
    4. We all want impossible things – Catherine Newman
      • 5 stars
      • A book about two imperfect best friends since childhood, Ashley and Edith, who have been through everything together. As adults they are navigating a difficult time in their lives – Edith has terminal cancer.
      • While the book is heavy and sad in places, it also celebrates friendship, relationships and love.
      • We All Want Impossible Things reminded me of a quote that says ‘The only certainty in life is death.’ As much as the story is about the inevitable, the story is just as much about living. It is a story of full of life and laughter.
    5. Seven days in June – Tia Williams
      • 4.5 stars
      • This story is not a simple love story; its romantic, it’s compelling and layered in past traumas and survival.
      • It follows two writes, Eva, a single mom and Shane, a successful bad boy of the literary world. They have a romantic past. When they reconnect after fifteen years, they have chemistry; it’s steamy, its messy, its complicated as they have to confront their past.
      • I loved this book. I’m a sucker for second-chance romance and Tia Williams delivered with the portrayal of the characters and their flaws in this book.
    6. Love Marry Kill – Zukiswa Wanner
      • 4 stars
      • Two couples, one steamy love affair and a hitman. ‘Till death do us part’ means different things to people. This book is an emotionally layered love story with twist and turns. This book is a page-turner, which dives into the messiness of infidelity and the length people will go to keep what’s theirs.
      • A great read.
    7. Fabrics of love – Lebo Mazibuko
      • 4 stars
      • Fabrics of Love needs to made into a Limited Series – goodness this was such a pleasant read. Growing up in Soweto, the character, the setting was so relatable.
      • The story follows the lives of the Ntoi family, with a particular focus on its women. At the heart of it is Buang, the formidable matriarch who works tirelessly to keep the family together – she’s a fierce protector, she is resilient and sadly has been hardened by her past. Then there’s Prettygirl, the vibrant life of a party – a familiar township character full of charm and energy. Her sister Rosemary is book-smart, focused, and disciplined; she is driven by ambition and purpose. Then there’s their cousin Moipone, a quiet and timid young woman who carries unseen scars from her childhood.
      • Through the eyes of these women, the story explores their journeys as they chase their dreams while confronting culture, family secrets, love, relationships and the weight of past trauma.
      • A multi layered captivating book. I loved how Lebo Mazibuko brought to light the vibrancy of Meadowlands (Soweto).
    8. One Golden Summer – Carley Fortune
      • 4 stars
      • I stumbled upon this on Instagram, there was a lot of hype around it, and my curiosity was immediately sparked. I then had to read the 1st book, Every Summer After.
      • Carley Fortune has a gift for painting the picture of a magical summer. As much as I loved Percy and Sam’s story in Every Summer After, I connected even more deeply with Charlie and Alice’s journey. This is a story steeped in nostalgia – One picture. Three teens. A yellow boat. Its where past summers collide with present-day choices, and a beautiful friendship slowly unfolds into a deeply emotional summer romance.
      • Charlie is charming and self-assured. Alice gives more than she receives, she puts everyone before herself. Charlie helps Alice step out of her shell and Alice helps Charlie deal with his deep regret. They complement each other in so many ways and have the most hilarious banter. Their chemistry felt natural and warm.
      • Overall, this was a fun, emotionally rich read, one that truly captures the magic of the lake. As the story reminds us, ‘Good things happen at the lake.’
    9. Things we left behind – Lucy Score
      • 4 stars
      • This is the third and final book in the Knockemout series. Sloan and Lucian were my most anticipated couple in the series and Lucy Score didn’t disappoint.
      • I absolutely loved Sloan and Lucian’s relationship, especially their sharp, entertaining banter. As adults, they may claim to loathe each other, but neither can deny the sparks between them. Their history adds so much depth to the story – from childhood friends, to sworn enemies after an incident that shattered their bond, and finally to lovers.
      • Sloan is feisty, witty, and warm-hearted, with dreams of a traditional happy ending – a loving husband and children. Lucian, on the other hand, has become powerful and wealthy, capable of making anything happen, except committing to the idea of family, which he firmly resists.
      • I love how Lucian would do anything for Sloane even when he insistent that he didn’t like her. It warmed my heart that they got their happy ending.
      • While I didn’t particularly enjoy the crime subplot, it was expected, as it featured heavily in Things We Never Got Over and Things We Hide from the Light. Still, it was a joy to return to Knockemout. I have a soft spot for small-town settings – even fictional ones, as they stretch the imagination and transport you to places you may never otherwise experience.
    10. Tell me everything – Elizabeth Strout
      • 4 stars
      • It follows a friendship between 90 year old Olive Kitteridge, Bob Burgess whose the central character, a lawyer and acclaimed writer Lucy Barton.
      • Through quiet, intimate conversations, Lucy and Bob reflect on their lives and what might have been, while Olive and Lucy share stories about people they have known.
      • The true allure of this book lies in its richly drawn characters and their complex inner lives—because human beings themselves are deeply complex. Woven through the narrative is a mystery that gradually unfolds, drawing in characters who carry their own layers of history and emotional depth.
      • This book is beautifully written. Although I haven’t read the previous novels in the series, I found it easy to follow and completely captivating from start to finish.
    11. What a way to go – Bella Mackie
      • 3.5 stars
      • A murder mystery with a humour all in one.
        Anthony Wistern is a wealthy, charming, philander with a dysfunctional family set to inherit his fortune. Upon his untimely death, each of them becomes potential suspects.
      • The characters are self absorbed and not really likeable but they make a good story.
    12. The love we found – Jill Santos
      • 3.5 stars
      • A sequel to The Light We Lost, which I would highly recommend reading before starting this book. Ten years have passed, and a great deal of life has unfolded since the end of the first story.
      • This sequel is rich with blended family dynamics, hidden truths, and the challenge of confronting the past while learning how to move forward. It explores the reality that people are imperfect and that life is often complicated and messy. The story continues with Lucy a single mother juggling the needs of her children, her life after Gabe and finding love again.
      • The story is emotional, it’s moving and it’s well written.
        I’m chuffed with what I have been able to accomplish with my reading.

    I’m chuffed with what I was able to achieve this year. The goal has been set and I plan to continue in 2026.


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    ShotLeft to the Vaal

    During our courting years, one of the things that my +1 and I loved doing was taking spontaneous trips and discovering South Africa. We would select a location, take a drive and explore. It was effortless, this was our quality time.

    We particularly loved long weekend, it was a great excuse to take a short getaway or ShotLeft, as its now referred.

    With another long weekend approaching, we found ourselves planning a getaway but then our reality sunk in, we both have hectic work deadlines and unfortunately for us the timing is off.  We spent a few minutes reminiscing about our last trip to the Vaal. It being #TravelTuesday I decided to write a blog post about our recent visit.

    We chose the Vaal primarily because we were looking for a local destination that did not require a long drive or flights. We were both familiar with the area, most of my visit were business related. It was great to visit the area on leisure. A refreshing thing about the Vaal is that the drive is ± an hour away from Johannesburg and offers a tranquil escape from the grind of the city life.

    Due to our last minute travel arrangements, the hotel we wanted to stay at was fully booked.  We did however managed to find a room at the Three Rivers Lodge & Villa Anna Sophia. We were both very reluctant about this place, granted it looked decent online.  We have been to places where they look great online but when you arrive the hotel is old and has not been maintained.

    We arrived at the lodge and were pleasantly surprised, the lodge is well looked after. The garden is impeccable and it’s surrounded by large trees which create a peaceful/calming environment.

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    The lodge is in the heart of the upmarket suburb of Three Rivers in Vereeniging, a few minutes from the business district and within close proximity of golf courses and River Square Shopping Centre. It caters to the business and leisure travellers.

    Three Rivers Lodge has 25 rooms and Villa Anna Sophia offer an additional 16 rooms. We were booked at the Tuscan style villas. The room was as descent size en-suite room with full bathroom, flat screen TV with selected DSTV channels and very good WiFi.

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    A full range of services available include conference venues seating from 10 to 200 delegates, the Bethel Chapel seating 90 guests which is used for weddings.

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    Their fine dining restaurant – Anna’s Kitchen is favourite amongst the locals. We had brunch there and I had the most delicious Egg Benedict – the caramelized onions used added a lovely flavour and the hollandaise sauce was perfect.

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    Our short stay was enjoyable, a real home away from home.

    Things to do at the Vaal:-

    1. Ponte de Vaal
    • Enjoy French countryside cuisine overlooking a tranquil stretch of the Vaal River. Relax for the afternoon at one of their handcrafted dining tables or drinks lounges, either inside the restaurant building, outside on the deck, at a terrace or Privé Booth.
    • Take a 30m river cruise.
    • Book a stay-over or get pampered at the BELLE FOI SPA
      • Tel: 016 004 0019
      • Address: 212 Boundary Rd, Vanderbijlpark, 9585
    1. Play Golf
    • I’m not much of a golfer but have hosted some golf day events at the Vaal. Below is a list of some of the places

    a. Vaal de Grace

    • ‘Vaal de Gráce offers an 18-hole championship golf course situated on an island of incomparable quiet and beauty in the middle of the tranquil waters of the Vaal River.’

    b. Maccauvlei Golf Club

    • ‘Situated adjacent to the Vaal River, a mere 45 minute drive from bustling Johannesburg, it’s essentially a world apart from the industrialized hub of Vereeniging.’

    c. Riviera on Vaal Country Club

    • The premium Gauteng golf course is located on the banks of the Vaal River, boasting an immaculate 18-hole Gauteng golf course.
    1. Vaal Adventure
    • If you are more of an adventure traveller, you can contact Vaal Adventures. They have many activities to choose from such as white water river rafting, paintball, quadbiking, kayaking, snorkelling, raft fishing safaris and lots more.

    On our Sunday drive exploring, we stumbled upon Castle Marina in a town called  Deneysville.

    ‘The Castle was built in the early 1960’s by an Englishman, Lord Sumner, who fell in love with the area, the vast body of water and the rich history of Deneysville.

    In the early 2000’s the Castle experienced a new restoration – and became a venue for Engagements, Weddings, and other Celebrations.’

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    The possibilities at the Vaal are vast and it caters to a wide range of travellers.  A must visit for anyone in the Jozi region looking for a simple getaway.

    I loved taking walks in the morning along the river. The air is fresh and I have a deep love for being out in nature.

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    This truly was another Splendid Experience and we continue to travel and make lasting memories.

    TS!


  • A vegetarian haven: Aurelie’s – the home of the natural foodie.

    Finding a food place that caters to my vegetarian lifestyle is a challenge, especially when looking for a place that offers more than just pasta, pizza, butternut salad or a toasted cheese sandwich.

    It was such a wonderful treat to have lunch at a 100% vegetarian restaurant that has wide selection of food to choose from.

    Situated in Kyalami’s Waterfall Estate area, country estate drive Aurelie’s Health & Lifestyle Café is a vegetarian haven that shows that vegetarian food does not have to be bland.

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    The menu offerings includes a comprehensive breakfast menu, wraps, burgers, salads, smoothies, veggie juices & coffee. There are vegan, gluten free and banting-friendly versions available for many dishes.

    I had the Eastern Soul – a falafel patty burger with grilled halloumi, peppadews, stir-fried mushrooms & tzatziki.

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    In addition to being able to enjoy a vegetarian meal, you are able to shop for health supplements, home accessories, consumable and they even offer Liquid Detox Packages.

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    The focus of this place is holistic, health & wellness and it’s an ideal place for individuals who do meatless Monday’s and individuals embarking on a healthy lifestyle. It’s a great place to try a vegetarian meal.

    Address: Waterfall Country Estate
    Corner R55 & Maxwell Drive,
    Kyalami, 
    Waterval Est, Johannesburg
    Gauteng

     Tel: 010 596 8900
    Email:
    Website: http://www.aureliescafe.co.za/

    Another Splendid Experience.

    TS!


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    The final #TravelTuesday post for 2016!

    As I write my final blog post for 2016, I take this moment and reflect on the year that was…what a tough year. I am grateful that through all the curve balls that life threw, I still managed to do some travelling and will forever be grateful for the memories created along the way.

    Our final trip for the year was Seychelles, Mahe Island. We landed in the evening and were booked to stay at Banyan Tree. When we arrived at our hotel we were unaware of the beauty that was surrounding us. We could smell the warm sea breeze and the sound of the crashing waves.

    Banyan Tree is right on the beach front, surrounded by palm trees and nature – a true tropical sanctuary. The resort is nestled in Intendance Bay along the southern western coastline of Mahe. It’s a perfect hotel if you are looking for a quiet stay in-house but less ideal for those who are looking to tour and be in the hustle and bustle of things.

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    Accommodation

    • The hotel has 60 one or two bedroom air-conditioned guest rooms which features a king bed, a pool, jetpool, open air dining, outdoor shower, WiFi, telephone, tea & coffee-making facilities, TV, DVD/CD player.

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    Facilities & Activities

    • Infinity pool, Tennis Court, Gym and Yoga.
    • Complimentary snorkeling.
    • Diving and Fishing are offsite and can be arranged at a fee.
    • Fishing also has a charge.
    • Banyan Tree Spa – is on my top 5 spas, the attention to details and the service at the spa were phenomenal. One of the best massages, in the most tranquil setting surrounded by palm trees with amazing sea views.

     

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    Dining & Restaurants

    The resort’s restaurants offer a variety of local and international dishes.

    1. Au Jardin d’Epices is a buffet restaurant which does breakfast, light lunches and International cuisine for dinner.
    2. Saffron restaurant offers Thai and South East Asian cuisine.
    3. Chez Lamar offers Creole cuisine and I had a delicious vegetarian stew, the veges were cooked to perfection, the sauce well-seasoned.

    Other dining experience is the In Room Dining and La Varangue lounge bar which serve burgers, sandwiches, pizzas…

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    The staff were extremely helpful and friendly, we were looked after by Sam who ensured that all our requirements were met with a smile, the service at the resort is top-notch.

    The break came at a good time, I was mentally and physically exhausted. A fantastic location to recharge my body, soul and spirit. I took walks along the beach, swam and ran in the resort and made the most of the tranquil resort.

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    I could not have asked for a better way to end the year.

    Another Splendid Experience!

    TS!


  • Road Trip to Mpumalanga

    Its Travel Tuesday and this post is to encourage us to take more road trip.

    When I was growing up, I recall how my parents loved taking road trips. Their philosophy was, if you have a good working car, money for petrol and can afford a decent hotel, there’s really no excuse to take a road trip.

    Fast-forward to my adult life, I’m fortunate that my +1 had a similar childhood and his family went on road trips.

    When I think about it, the foundation of our relationship and getting to know each other came from the road trips we took. We are that couple that chose to drive 18h24 min (1773,5 km) – Johannesburg to Namibia for one of our travel adventures. That’s one of the the many remarkable, breath-taking adventures we took.

    So when he suggested a road trip to Mpumalanga, I loved the idea. Road trips are not about the destination, they are about the company and most importantly the things you do and get to see along the way.

    Our check list for road trip:-

    • Good working Car, Tyres in good condition, iPod, Camera, Snacks, Books and Sunnies.

    The day we left, the weather was perfect – cloudy with spots of rain in certain areas.

    What we did?

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    When we arrived in Mbobela (Nelspruit) the weather was not great, it was raining. Fortunately for us, it was not our 1st visit to Mpumalanga, we had previously visited most of the scenic landmarks.

    We did still manage to do a self-drive past Sabie – Pilgrims Rest – Graskop – The Pinnacle – Gods Window – Wonder view.  When the rain eased in some areas, we managed to stop at Mac Mac Falls, visited Pilgrim Rest and had pancakes in Graskop.

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    Anyone travelling to Mpumalanga for the 1st time, I highly recommend you spend at least 1 full day exploring the Panorama route, and do visit God’s Window, Wonder view, the Three Rondavels and Bourke’s Luck Potholes.

    Where we at?

    When I travel with my +1, we really do keep it simple from a food perspective, he is not a big fan of dining, he does it for me.

    1. Kuzuri Restaurant & Venue

    We had lunch at Kuzuri, a gorgeous restaurant surrounded by the natural beauty of the Lowveld bush in a tranquil setting at the Botanical Gardens.  The inside dining area is quite formal and the outside is perfect for a relaxed breakfast, lunch, supper or sundowner.

    The staff were warm, welcoming and friendly. The service was good but not very attentive, I ordered a vegetarian spring rolls and was given chicken spring rolls, my +1 ordered a cola tonic and lemonade and he was given a passion fruit and lemonade.

    The menu has something for everyone and great to see a selection for vegetarians. I created a vegetarian tapas which was great except the halloumi was extra salty. My +1 enjoyed his vegetarian wrap.

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    2. Harrie’s Pancakes Pannekoek

    While in Graskop, we decided to have dessert at Harrie’s Pancakes Pannekoek. As the name suggest, this place is all about pancakes – savoury and sweet but they do have other food items on the menu.

    The place is pumping with tourist coming in and out. Timing at this place is everything, we arrived just after a big group of tourist had left and managed to get a table.

    The pancakes are fresh and taste really good.  The service was ok, and the pricing of the food is decent. This is one of those places that you have to stop at when in Graskop.

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    Where we stayed?

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    We were based in a lovely Tuscan style hotel in Nelspruit, La Villa Vita.

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    Nestled in a in a quiet residential area in picturesque setting, the hotel is ideal for guests travelling for leisure and business. The hotel has meeting facilities, wedding venues and comfortable accommodation.

    Accommodation

    La Villa Vita has 21 rooms all offer a flat-screen TV with selected DSTV channels, air-conditioning, minibar, tea-and-coffee facilities and private bathrooms.

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    Facilities

    Free Wi-Fi, a gorgeous pool, gym, spa, restaurant, Bar/Lounge, private Jacuzzi.

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    The hotel is surrounded by nature reserve and it’s extremely peaceful. We enjoyed our walks in the garden and just lounging by the pool with a pool. A perfect place for some R&R.

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    Wrong turns that lead to hidden gems – Milk Bar Rosebank

    Love it when I take a wrong turn and stumble across hidden gems. In this instance, I stumbled across a place called Milk Bar an African-retro styled café located on Keyes Avenue in Rosebank. I decided to grab a bite to eat and catch up on my emails.

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    I’m an adventurous eater but having adopted a vegetarian lifestyle, I’m constantly disappointed at the limited selection one finds at restaurants. When I saw the menu at Milk Bar I was impressed to see that they have a nice selection of vegetarian options and a wide range of food that caters to a wide range of taste buds.

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    I opted for the vegetarian bunny chow, so I asked the waiter how big it was, he told me that it was a Rosebank size bunny chow and not Durban size or the type you find in the hood:-) He was not kidding!!

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    Rosebank size vegetarian bunny chow

    To drink, I opted for the Iced lemonade and mint drink which was extremely refreshing. Milk Bar is lovely place to unwind, I like the fact that it’s different in a very awesome way.

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    Milk Bar also has other locations:-

    • Pritchard Street in downtown Joburg,
    • Kramerville design district in Sandton – 6 Desmond St, Kramerville

    Another Splendid Experience!

    TS!

     


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My love for travelling was ignited by my parents, they opened our eyes to the world of travel and encouraged us to explore the world.

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