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    Osaka: Where the City’s Heart Is in Its Food

    Chapter 2: Osaka

    The vibrant culinary capital of Japan – The nation’s kitchen – bright, loud, appetite-first.’

    Osaka is globally celebrated for its relaxed vibe, vibrant nightlife, and immersive street food culture centered around the philosophy of kuidaore (‘eat until you drop’)

    What we did

    Where we ate

    I can officially conclude that I had the best vegetarian dining experience in Osaka. It makes perfect sense why Osaka is known as the ‘Kitchen of the Nation’. Every restaurants we ate at made an extra effort to accommodate me and they didn’t disappoint. 

    1. La Veduta  

    I low key think my family were Italians in their past lives. Gosh do we love a good Italian meal and this restaurant didn’t disappoint. The food ethos is rooted in Italian tradition with Japanese seasonality. It truly was a memorable dining experience. 

    La Veduta is located at the St Regis Hotel in Osaka. 

    1. Jiang Nan Chun 

    Jiang Nan Chun is a signature Chinese restaurant serving Cantonese cuisine. The  restaurant on the 37th floor of Four Seasons Hotel Osaka.  The food was great.

    1. Teppanyaki WAJO

    Teppanyaki WAJO offers innovative and distinctive teppanyaki cuisine. The Chef blends high-end French culinary techniques with premium Japanese ingredients. 

    The dining experience centres on high-end curated set menus where seasonal ingredients from the Kansai region are prepared directly on an iron griddle. 

    This was splendid and the vegetarian menu was flavoursome. 

    1. Splendido

    Splendido is an Italian restaurant located at the Ritz Carlton in Osaka. It offers traditional regional dishes with a modern twist – they have pastas, charcuterie, and wood-fired pizzas. Dinner was a splendid experience. 

    Where we stayed 

    Four Seasons Osaka

    I loved this hotel. Its modern understated elegance with a dedicated modern ryokan experience featuring traditional tatami mats and shoji screens within a contemporary layout.

    What sold this hotel for me was the coffee shop in the lobby, convenience is everything when you are travelling. 

    Key Hotel Highlights

    Location: 

    • Located in the historic Dojima neighborhood near the scenic river, a few minutes from Umeda Station, it provides easy access to premier commercial, shopping, dining and entertainment places, as well as nearby cities like Kyoto and Nara.

    Dining: 

    • Jiang Nan Chun, a signature Chinese restaurant that served Cantonese cuisine. 
    • Sushi L’Abysse, a contemporary sushi restaurant blending French and Japanese techniques. 
    • Jardin, a French bistro that has all day dining.
    • Farine, the coffee shop in the lobby that has serves fresh baked goods. 
    • Bar Bota a cocktail bar on the 37th floor with beautiful city views. 

    Wellness & Gym: 

    • A dedicated spa floor with a 16-metre indoor pool,

    traditional Japanese ofuro baths, saunas, and a 24-hour fitness center.

    The overall verdict

    Osaka was a city that surprised me in the best possible way. It felt more relaxed and playful than Tokyo, but still had that unmistakable energy that makes Japan so captivating.

    And then there was the food. Osaka certainly lived up to its reputation as ‘Japan’s Kitchen.’ As a vegetarian, I had some of my best dining experiences here. Restaurants went out of their way to accommodate me, and unlike some destinations where vegetarian options can feel like an afterthought, the meals were memorable in their own right.

    Beyond the food, Osaka had a warmth and vibrancy that I loved.


  • August Reads: Love, Drama & Everything In Between!

    1. Wisani and the Bafokeng Brothers – Thandi Moagi

    • Cliffhanger  
      • 4 Stars  

    “You don’t love him – you love the danger.”

    Wisani and the Bafokeng Brother follows Wisani, a struggling Wits sociology student from Soweto who carries a burden that resonates with so many people who come from the township – having to be responsible for the family’s income. 

    She crosses paths with a dangerous underworld family while doing research for her degree. She meets Mohapi and falls deeply, even with the red flags she picked up. 

    Someone needs to do a study on why a woman will see red flags in a man and still go all in and fall deeply.

    “…a beautiful mistake, I’m willing to make.”

    Thandi did a brilliant job at making one understand why girls fall for bad boys. The way Mohapi shows up for Wisani, I even melted. Thandi did the most with the Bafokeng brothers characters.

    The storytelling is gripping. I was transported and got lost in Wisani and Bafokengs Brothers world. The writing is rich, I felt the tension and emotion between Wisani and Mohapi and the brothers. 

    Thandi Moagi reminded me why I love reading South African romantic fiction – the settings feel familiar, the characters are relatable, and there’s something special about seeing our stories come to life on the page.

    I can’t wait to get my hands on the next book!

    2. Yesteryear – Caro Claire Burke

    • Twisted  
      • 4 Stars 

    “What did I just read?!?” was my initial reaction after I finished reading Yesteryear

    • Did I enjoy reading the books? YES!
    • Did I think the premise of the book was crazy? YES!

    Natalie is a social media influencer who promotes traditional gender roles, Christian teachings, and farm life. She lives on Yesteryear Ranch with her husband and children. 

    One day, Natalie wakes up in what seems like the year 1855, where she recognizes no one and must learn to live without modern society.

    This book…its witty, its thought provoking, it left me in wonder…

    What I want to ask Caro Claire Burke is how she even thought of bringing to life Natalie Heller Mills character – Natalie is not normal, she’s unhinged.  

    “My name is Natalie Heller Mills, and I was perfect at being alive.”

    3. Our Perfect Storm – Carley Fortune

    • Ordinary
      • 3.5 Stars 

    I was so looking forward to reading Our Perfect Storm but sadly, this book did not land with me, it was just ordinary. 

    A friends-to-lovers story trope with all the misunderstandings, unresolved feelings, missed opportunities between Frankie and George. 

    As I was reading the 1st chapter, I already knew that Frankie’s relationship with George was a problem. The girl is getting married to Nate but is more concerned about George showing up, she acts like a petulant child and her closest friends have to keep reminding her to smile. Granted she has a special childhood bond with George but her behaviour just put me off. 

    There were some good moments in the book, George was a likeable character. However the overall direction of the plot felt disjointed at times. It was missing the Carley Fortune depth to how one connects with the characters. 

    Carley still does a stellar job at making you fall in love with a place without being there. Tofino seems like a magical place one must visit. 

    One Golden Summer and Every Summer After are still my favourite Carley Fortune books. 

    4. Divine Arrangements – Takalani M 

    • Pleasant 
      • 3 Stars 

    Divine Arrangements was a pleasant read. I started it on Friday afternoon and was done by Sunday morning. The story was simple and easy to follow with moments of drama – relationship and family drama. 

    The story opens the day before Rendani’s and Aaron’s wedding, and already there’s chaos. Aaron, her fiance, wants to call off the wedding. On the day of the wedding, Aaron seems tense at the altar and pulls a runaway bride stunt on Rendani. 

    Rendani moves back home to Venda for a fresh start. She ends up living with her grandmother – by far my favourite character in the book. I loved her way of life and the knowledge she imparted to Rendani. 

    “Waking up everyday and knowing you can live off your own land? That is wealth.”

    As Rendani starts building her life, she meets Fhumulani Makungo, he’s divorced and has questionable views about marriage.

    The two fall in love. As they are about to embark on their new journey, Rendani’s fathers business takes a terrible turn which unfortunately is linked to Rendani. She is then forced to choose family over love. 

    With all the twists, turns, drama…love eventually wins.

    5. A Love That Heals – Catherine Phiri

    • Easygoing
      • 2.5 Stars 

    I read it and finished it. The style didn’t quite resonate with me, though I can see its appeal. 

    A Love That Heals is a love story about healing, faith, trust and forgiveness. The story follows Thandaza, a girl from Polokwane who moves to Johannesburg looking for greener pastures for her and her adoptive Gogo who she loves dearly.

    She meets Steven, a restaurateur who falls in love at first sight and adores her. 

    As the two start spending time together, they grow together in love with Thandaza playing an important role in helping Steven deal and heal with his family dynamics. 

    A well-meaning South African romance with a wholesome message. It just lacked the emotional depth between the characters that I usually look for in romance novels.

    There’s nothing quite like getting lost in a good story and August gave me a few worth remembering.


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    Japan – A Wonder!

    As much as I would like to take credit for some of my splendid travel adventures, my sister is the ideas person and the planner of all our trips with the kids (two who are now adults and the laat lammetjie is a teenager now). They grow so quickly. 

    How I ended up travelling to Japan for 21 days in a moon boot after being home bound for almost 8 weeks from a raptured achilles injury that needed surgery and had me in a cast for 6 weeks, was never on my bingo cards. And then the WhatsApp came on one of the days I was feeling sorry for myself.  (Thank you Universe!)

    And thats how I ended up travelling to Japan as an assistant passenger in Moon Boot with a crutch. I guess there’s a first time for everything!

    My sister, the ever so organised, created a Japan Travel Look Book and we got a glimpse of what was in store for us. The itinerary was well curated – 21 days, 4 cities, 30 landmarks. Each city was a chapter in the look book.

    For the next four weeks, I will use the Japan Travel Look Book as my creative inspiration to blog about the trip – 4 Cities, 4 Chapters. 

    Four Cities. Endless neon, ancient shrines, mountain shrines wrapped in cedar, and quiet gardens between it all. 

    From Tokyo’s kinetic sprawl to Miyajima’s floating torii, this is a slow reading of Japan in high summer.

    Chapter 1: Tokyo 

    Neon, shrines, and the pulse of a megacity.

    What we Did

    Tokyo is a vibrant populous city of Japan, blending ultra-modern neon skyscrapers with ancient, peaceful temples.

    Where we Ate

    The above picture summed up my dining experience in Japan. 

    We tried most of Japan’s culinary experiences – from street food to restaurants to Michelin star dining. The carnivores in my family had an enjoyable culinary experience.

    Wagyu beef is big in Japan, hotel restaurants, standard restaurants and street food, all specialise in wagyu. A dream food destination for meat eaters. They also eat a lot of fish. Like some of my fellow SAns, they too think chicken and fish are vegetarian. I had to double check all my meals that they don’t add any fish or chicken broth.

    In most places they tried to accommodate my dietary requirements but unfortunately the food was bland. (Imagine eating 2 minute noodles without any seasoning.) 

    1. Paris Yugao

    • This was amongst the best vegetarian meals I had in Tokyo. The meal itself was a simple meat free pattie but the star of the meal had to be the vegetables. The asparagus and potatoes were delectable. The garlic fried rice was just as delicious.
    • The entire experience of watching the chef cook a meal in an intimate setting was by far a Splendid Experience.

    2. Hirozen

    • According to google translate the signage translates to to high-end Japanese restaurant specialising in in traditional Japanese cuisine ( Kōkyū Washokudokoro). There was nothing high-end about this restaurant in my opinion. The main selling point is the experience of eating in a traditional Japanese setting.
    • Again, my meal was lacking in flavour. Even though the noodles were drowning in sauce, they tasted bland. The tempura vegetables also lacked flavour, and I had to dip them in soy sauce just to get the taste right.

    3. Kaitan Sushi – Ginza

    • After an early start site seeing, Kaitan Sushi was a perfect place for a late lunch break. 
    • They had the standard vegetarian sushi –  avo & cucumber maki and the vegetarian fashion sandwich. They did have something called the tamago nigiri sushi, now that was delicious, one of the best sushi’s I’ve had. I also had a Beancurd nigiri roll. Again, I had to make sure they dont use and fish stock to season the tofu.
    • The ginger ale was refreshingly tasty.

    4. Vegan Izikaya Masaka

    • The excitement in my life when I discovered a Vegan Izikaya at a basement of Parco in Shibuya on our last day in Tokyo.
    • I decided to sample a few dishes. I tried – Broccoli tempura, Gyoza, Masaka Fried Maitake and The mushroom liver sashimi
      • The brocolli tempura and the Masaka fried maitake were by far my favourite dishes. Both had rich flavours and tasted really good.
      • The gyoza tasted ok and the worst dish was the mushroom liver sashimi, its tasted awful.

    Where we Stayed

    Our holiday started in Tokyo and ended in Tokyo. We stayed at the Shangri-La and the Four Seasons – Otemachi.

    1. Shangri-La

    The Shangri La is conveniently located right next to Tokyo Station in Chiyoda, making the location ideal as we would be taking a train to Osaka. The hotel blends traditional Asian hospitality with ultra-modern design, surrounded by skyscrapers and offering views of Tokyo Imperial Palace and the Tokyo Skytree.  

    The chandeliers are simply magnificent.

    Spacious rooms with floor-to-ceiling windows offering majestic views of the city.

    Key Hotel Highlights

    • Located right beside Tokyo Station 
      • They offer a complimentary meet-and-greet platform escort service. 
    • Signature Dining
      • There’s an Italian restaurant called Piacere and a Japanese restaurant called Nadaman – the food and service at the Japanese restaurant were not the best. 
    • SPA and Fitness Centre  

    2. Four Seasons – Otemachi

    Image Cred @The Luxury Traveller

    The Four Seasons is location adjacent to the Imperial Palace, in the Otemachi district. Its a modern hotel with understated elegance that focuses on minimalist design incorporating traditional elements of nature with sweeping skyline views.

     Comfortable spacious rooms, spa-style bathrooms and premium amenities.

    Key Hotel Highlights

    • The hotel has four restaurants 
      • EST
        • Is a Michelin-starred French restaurant. 
      • Pigneto 
        • Is an Italian restaurant. I had one of the best Pizza’s here.  
      • The Lounge 
        • Is where the hotel’s afternoon tea is served. I had the tea, cake and read my book at the Lounge. This was my #MomentInBetween
      •  Virtù 
        • A  cocktail bar with French-Japanese fusion cocktails, luscious wine and bar snacks. 
    • SPA and Fitness Centre 

    The overall verdict

    Tokyo is a beautiful and sometimes overwhelming contrast of high-speed energy and deep cultural tranquillity – one moment, you’re caught in the organised chaos of Shibuya Crossing and the next, you’re walking along the quiet, forested paths of Meiji Jingu Shrine.

    Still, that contrast is part of what makes Tokyo so fascinating. It’s a city that never stops moving, yet somehow always remembers where it came from.

    Tokyo markets its experiences incredibly well and sets high expectations. At times, though, I found that the reality didn’t quite live up to the hype and there were moments that left us underwhelmed.

    It was still a splendid experience and a city I see myself visiting in transit thou and not as a main location.


  • Unforgettable Stories, Unexpected Twists and a Few New Favourites – July Reads!

    1. The Correspondent – Virginia Evans

      • Cathartic
        • 5 Stars

      A lot has been written and said about The Correspondent, and yes, it’s worth all the hype – I couldn’t put it down.

      The story centers around Sybil Van Antwerp, she’s in her 70s, divorced, and living alone. The story unfolds beautifully through letters she writes to her family, friends, and even strangers. These letters are filled with humor, regret, guilt, love, and forgiveness, but they also contain moments that leave you with a lingering sense of melancholy.

      Virginia Evans has written a modern classic. Reading the letters filled me with nostalgia, taking me back to my boarding school days when we used to write letters ourselves. I also loved the way books are shared between Sybil and some of the other characters. Needless to say, my TBR list continues to grow.

      I’m already looking forward to the movie adaptation, with Jane Fonda cast as Sybil. They couldn’t have chosen a better person for the role.

      2. Into The Blue – Emma Brodie

      • Tumultuous
        • 4.5 Stars

        A beautiful, messy, emotional love story.

        “Your scene partner is your life.”

        That quote perfectly sums up the relationship between AJ and Noah, who meet by chance while working at a video rental store in Massachusetts.

        AJ Graves is ambitious and determined. She dreams of becoming a writer for Saturday Night Live (SNL). Noah Drew comes from a famous acting family. He’s charming, talented, and complicated. They are initially drawn to each other by their shared love of sci-fi shows and theatre. What begins as an unlikely friendship grows into a tumultuous relationship that spans decades.

        “Time is of the essence, so you should never waste it!”

        Emma Brodie truly made the most of this story. I felt every emotion, every moment of tension, and every ounce of yearning between AJ and Noah. She also masterfully explores their complex family relationships, adding even more depth to their journey.

        The writing is beautiful, and the story is deeply heartfelt. This is one of those books I simply couldn’t put down. 

        Even after I turned the final page, AJ and Noah stayed with me long after I had finished the book.

        3. The Midnight Library – Matt Haig

        • Illuminating
          • 4 Stars

        In The Midnight Library, we meet Nora Seed, who is going through an incredibly difficult time. Besides being deeply unhappy, she’s estranged from her family, and just when she thinks things can’t get any worse, she loses her job. Feeling that she has nothing left to live for, Nora decides to end her life.

        But life has other plans. She doesn’t die. Instead, she finds herself in the Midnight Library, where she meets Mrs. Elm, her former school librarian. Mrs. Elm explains why Nora is there and reveals that each book in the library represents an alternate life she could have lived based on the choices she might have made.

        “Every life contains many millions of decisions. Some big, some small. But every time one decision is taken over another, the outcomes differ. An irreversible variation occurs, which in turn leads to further variations.”

        The Midnight Library is filled with thought-provoking moments and valuable lessons about life, choices, regret, and learning to truly live. Another great read.

        4. The Missed Connections – Tia Williams

        • Melodramatic
          • 3.5 Stars 

        This is my third Tia Williams book. I’ve read A Love Song for Ricki Wilde and Seven Days in June. After reading The Missed Connection, Seven Days in June is still my favourite.

        I started reading The Missed Connection on a plane. There wasn’t a hot Italian man sitting next to me, but the book kept me great company throughout the flight.

        In The Missed Connection, we meet Sasha Cruz, a casting director who is flying to Paris for a work assignment. On the flight, she meets a handsome Italian man in Seat F. They share an undeniable connection, and Sasha can’t help but wonder if she’s just met the love of her life.

        When the plane lands, they don’t exchange numbers. Instead, Sasha is left trying to track down the mysterious Seat F – her missed connection.

        To help with the search, Sasha hires her former private investigator, Wesley Dane – the two share a complicated past. As they work together to find Seat F, long-buried feelings and new feelings begin to resurface.

        I was Team Wes from the moment he appeared. I found the Italian man a little too smooth for my liking. (That guy was a walking red flag)

        The Missed Connection was thoroughly entertaining – a delightful read if you’re looking for a light, feel-good rom-com with a bit of drama. This would make for a good rom com movie.

        5. It’s Complicated – Nivashni Nair Sukdhev

        • Lighthearted
          • 3.5 Stars 

        It’s Complicated is the second book in the Rally Series and you can read it as a stand alone. The fact that I read Pillow Talk it made it such a delight when characters from Pillow Talk became part of the story. 

        Kaavi Archary, a former international model settles for a simple life in Rally – she’s made friends and has acclimatised to an easy life. The only problem is that Kaavi’s ‘simple life’ is far from simple, it’s actually ‘complicated’ – she is estranged from husband Neel who has now tracked her down to finally end things. The only other problem is that he still feels they have unresolved issues. The other complication in Kaavi’s life is her relationship with her parents which she can no longer run away from. 

        It’s Complicated is an easy, light, heartfelt and at times heartbreaking read. It delivers on the second-chance romance trope. I did find the cat and mouse game that Kaavi and Neel were playing about the divorce towards the end of the book a little frustrating. Even in fiction books, it grates my carrot when people who love each other, never say how they feel. Nivashni writes beautifully and I loved getting to imagine Rally again.


      1. June Reading Wrap-Up

        1. The Names – Florence Knapp

        • Heartwrenching
          • 4 Stars

        Do our names affect the person we become and shape who we are? A question to ponder and the overarching concept of The Names.  

        The book is profoundly thought-provoking, beautifully written, and deeply engaging. I found myself pausing several times to process some of its most intense moments.

        The story follows Cora – a wife and mother who’s facing a conundrum on a name she should give her newborn son. Cora has three names; her daughters favourite, her favourite and her husband’s favorite. Three names, three versions of a life told over a 7 years interval, all with poignant moments. 

        ‘Because some people – like Gordon’s father – travel through life believing themselves so far beyond improvement, they come to think their children, and their children’s children, should all be made in their name. Because sometimes their need to please previous generations is greater than their need to love future ones.

        Cora’s life is not all rosy, she’s in an abusive marriage and Florence Knapp takes us on  a whirlwind journey where we see how each chosen name shapes the future of their son and the impact it has on his close relationships. Cora and her children bring a fascinating dynamic to each version of the story. My heart ached for them. 

        The Names is without doubt worth the hype and on my list of favourite reads for the year.

        2. Go Gentle – Maria Semple

        • Disjointed 
          • 3.5 stars

        The book felt a bit disjointed for me but surprisingly I couldn’t put it down. 

        There are three plots in the story – the first plot, Adora, who’s a philosopher working for a wealthy family in New York and has a fragile relationship with her daughter. Adora  trying to create a “coven” of older women living on the same floor of an apartment building and supporting each other as they grow older together, the second plot, delves into Adora past and what she endured while trying to make a life in LA and the NDA that silenced her and the third plot the book becomes a thriller with arms deal and international terrorists. 

        This book is wild in so many ways. It being on Oprah’s Book Club List pick for April, it got a lot of press but the book is not for everyone. 

        I still haven’t decided what I think of the author. I read a few review that her book, Where Did You Go Bernadette, was adapted into a movie, which I haven’t seen. The book is on my TBR list. Ill make a decision on whether or not to keep the author on my list. 

        3. Pillow Talk – Nivashni Nair Sukdhev 

        • Light-hearted
          • 3.5 Stars

        I needed to read a light-hearted rom-com after reading The Names which sent me on a tailspin. 

        Pillow Talk is exactly what you expect in a rom-com where childhood friends who’ve always liked each other but never spoke of it, decide to embark on a no-string attached relationship. 

        The story follows Shona, a bridal designer who has been working for family’s tailor business decided to break away and do her own thing. Then there’s Sen, Shona’s childhood friend who’s a lawyer and her friend with benefits.

        Their relationship is tender. Their no strings attached situationship gets complicated when unresolved issues from the past come to light. We witness them navigating life, Shona dealing with her broken relationship with her family and feeling some kind of way for Sen. 

        ‘Shona felt her heart sink but quickly remembered that they couldn’t have moments like this. They were in a no-strings relationship. They shouldn’t be flirting with each other in what was perhaps the most romantic setting she had ever been to.’

        Sen is trying to be more of an available friend to Shona, who is completely closed off leaving Sen frustrated at times. 

        Their no string attached relationship is tested but they eventually find their way around the life challenged they face. 

        I thoroughly enjoyed and cant wait to read, Its Complicated a follow up to Pillow Talk.

        4. Good Things Keep Happening to Me – Puseletso Tsotetsi

        • Fluffy
          • 3 Stars

        I really enjoyed reading this book. I especially loved the South Africanisms throughout—it made the story feel authentic and totally relatable.

        Didi, a single mother with a messy past with complicated entanglements, meets Thato, a doctor, carrying his own emotional baggage, which he keeps locked in his heart. They fall for each other – hard. But as their relationship deepens, things slowly begin to unravel.

        ‘People tend to keep information away from their new partners intentionally, whether to protect themselves or because they’re afraid of being judged for the poor choices they made when they were younger.’

        There are plenty of make-or-break moments throughout their relationship. At times, I found Didi’s reasoning and decision-making a little immature and frustrating. Thato, on the other hand, approached situations with a much calmer, more level-headed perspective.

        There’s a saying, ‘With age comes wisdom,’ and you really see that play out in this book. Didi is 28, while Thato is 42, and the difference in their life experience is reflected in how they handle challenges.

        This is the perfect book to pick up when you’re looking for an easy, light read with relatable characters and a distinctly South African feel.

        5. Strangers – Belle Burden 

        • Compelling
          • 3 Stars

        I was really looking forward to reading this book after all the hype, but sadly, it fell flat for me.

        Belle’s story is compelling, and what her husband puts her through is horrendous. I can see why the book did well – the story will be relatable for many women. One moment you’re happily married, living your best life, and then, seemingly overnight, everything changes.

        One thing the book highlights is the difference between how some men and some women approach relationships. Many women give so much of themselves when they fall in love and get married. Belle signs a prenup, stops working, and hands over control of the finances – choices that many women make out of trust and commitment. Meanwhile, James ultimately puts his own needs first, abandoning both Belle and their marriage. Leaving her with so many unanswered questions.

        Overall, it was an okay read. A compelling read and flowed well. It kept me turning the pages, but it never really wowed me. It’s not a book I would recommend outright.


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        Experience ‘La Dolce Vita’ at Babylonstoren: An Italian Feast

        We’ve all heard the Italian phrase ‘La Dolce Vita,’ which translates to ‘the Sweet Life.’ The phrase represents a philosophy of savouring everyday pleasures, embracing a lifestyle of leisure,  and enjoying the finer things in life.

        What a treat it was discovering the Italian-inspired feast of La Dolce Vita at the Old Bakery at Babylonstoren.

        The four-course set menu starts with a selection of antipasti and salad offering, followed by homemade pasta then moreish wood-fired pizza. The meal is then rounded off with a delicious dolce.

        The food was unbelievably tasty. Each course was beautifully prepared and full of authentic Italian flavour.

        The atmosphere was electric and lively.

        The staff were professional and friendly making me feel right at home.

        It was a truly splendid dining experience that captures the essence of La Dolce Vita.

        The Italian evenings are held on Monday, Tuesdays, and Fridays. Dinner is served from 6pm and Booking is essential.

        Email enquiries@babylonstoren.com 

        Book online at www.babylonstoren.com/bakery 

        Phone +27 (0)21 863 3852.


      3. Beyond My TBR: The Books That Defined My May

        I started May with a list of books from my TBR that I wanted to read, but that all changed after attending the Franschhoek Literary Festival and the Kingsmead Book Fair, where I was introduced to some incredible authors whose books have just been included on TBR list.

        1. The Dogs of Vivo – Sven Axelrad

        • Mystical 
          • 4 stars

        Goodness, this book had me reading past my 10pm bedtime and I read it in two days on a week night with month end deadlines. That should tell you just how much I enjoyed reading it. The story is hearty, witty, nostalgic and mystical. 

        The story takes place in a fictional town called Vivo where three friends, all artists, dream of becoming famous. Artuto (Art) is an inspiring writer, Maggie wants to become a singer and Felix an artist. They spend nights at the local bar talking about their aspirations and other things that people in their twenties get up to. 

        ‘Success requires sacrifice’ 

        ‘People who “make it” always say that these years, where we are now, are the good years’ 

        Against the backdrop of Vivo’s enchanting streets, hope resonates through every corner as its characters balance the uncertainties of adulthood with the enduring spirit of youth. Then one day, a mysterious stranger arrives in town who changes the town’s dynamic. Maggie, Art and Felix find themselves making decisions that ultimately impact their friendship. 

        The supporting characters (dogs included) all play a pivotal role in how the story unfolds with some characters leaving a special place in my heart. 

        This is a story about friendship, love, choices and death. It examines the level one will take to achieve their dreams.

        Svens style of writing and story telling is quirky and delightful. The Dogs of Vivo is without a doubt on my Top 12 list of books for 2026. 

        2. Start with yourself – Emma Grede

        • Informative 
          • 4 stars 

        I had given this book 3.5 stars then upgraded it to 4 stars because I absolutely admire Emma and what she has been able to accomplish. 

        In her words, Start With Yourself ‘is a no-BS guide for anyone who wants to create meaningful success on their own terms.’ It provides a practical framework for unlocking success and achieving success by reframing thoughts, challenging the status quo and taking control of your life, both personal and professional. 

        The chapters that stood out to me were Chapter 2: Money and Chapter 5: Building a Brand & Business. In the money chapter, she writes about being comfortable and able to talk about money. It also encourages readers to be brave to say what you want and go after it – unashamedly. 

        ‘As women, we have to put money at the centre of our plans.’ 

        ‘You can do deeply meaningful and impactful work and care about money. You can talk a lot about money and other things two.

        “The purpose of creating a business is to make money. When you make money, you can pay people well, give good bonuses, you can do community work, you can give back to NPOs.” 

        As an entrepreneur, I’ve always found conversations about money challenging. I often hesitate to charge my rate because I get worried that clients will think I’m expensive. I always add a ‘Negotiable’ disclaimer.

        In the Building A Brand & Business chapter, I loved reading about the behind the scenes details she shares about building her empire and becoming the woman that she is today. 

        What struck a cord is when she writes about how Passion alone is no longer enough and goes deeper in what other traits are needed to succeed – Endurance, Resilience, Consistency, Focus and the Desire to listen and learn. 

        ‘Passion is something, but it won’t take you that far. You can’t manifest your way to a great business. You need to have a business case. You need a customer. And a massive amount of grit.

        I liked that she talks about failure and quotes Henry Ford, ‘Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.’

        Failing is part of the process and failure should be used as a teachable moment. 

        ‘Use failure as an opportunity to grow and get bigger, better, stronger and smarter.’

        While seasoned entrepreneurs and business leaders may find this book to be a reaffirmation of lessons already learned, it’s still a great read. For aspiring entrepreneurs, however, it’s an invaluable roadmap filled with honest lessons and practical wisdom. Emma anecdotes are bold, candid, and unapologetically authentic. 

        3. Because I love you – Joy Watson

        • Heartfelt
          • 3.5 Stars 

        Although this book wasn’t originally on my list of must-reads, hearing Joy Watson speak at a panel discussion during the Kingsmead Book Fair changed that. 

        In Because I Love You, Joy tells the story of three strong, independent women – Zara, Mira, and Thuli – who find themselves in relationships that initially seem ideal. Their partners are charming, attentive, and appear to say and do all the right things. However, as time passes, cracks begin to appear and subtle red flags emerge. Despite the warning signs, the women remain committed to making their relationships work, even when doing so comes at the expense of their emotional well-being.

        Through the experiences of these three women, Joy shines a light on what happens when ‘love begins to harm more than it nourishes and sustains.’ The novel encourages readers to recognise the patterns and behaviours that can cause women to lose themselves in relationships, while highlighting the importance of acknowledging red flags before they become impossible to ignore. 

        Her honest reflections on writing the book and the personal journey that followed the end of her marriage made me eager to read it. What I appreciated most about the book was thou the stories are real and lightly fictionalised to protect the identity of these women, Joy portrays the gradual nature of emotional harm, showing how easy it can be to overlook red flags when love and hope are involved. 

        ‘Perhaps this was hope refusing to die. Perhaps it was the end, plain and final. Or perhaps it was only the beginning of the end – that long unravelling where you can’t yet see the finish but already know its coming.’

        4. We inherit the fire – Kagiso Lesego Molope

        • Compelling
          • 3 Stars 

        I really really really wanted to love this book but it was a struggle to get into it. I found it hard to establish which character were narrating, but once I found the rhythm of the storytelling, it was a compelling read. 

        We Inherit the Fire is set during the final years of apartheid and is told through the perspectives of Kelelo, a young girl trying to find her place in a changing South Africa, and her mother, Kewame, a former freedom fighter. At the heart of the novel is the complex and often challenging relationship between mother and daughter.

        Beautifully interwoven throughout the story are the relationships Kelelo and Kewame have with their extended family, with four generations of women playing roles in the narrative. The novel also explores the strained relationship between Kewame and her husband, adding further depth to the family’s dynamics.

        We seldom encounter stories that focus on those who fought against apartheid from within the country, the trauma they endured at the hands of the regime, and the lasting impact that trauma has on their lives and relationships. We Inherit the Fire ultimately tells that story with nuance and compassion.

        What stayed with me after I finished the book was its exploration of intergenerational trauma and the way political struggles continue to shape family relationships decades later.

        May books took me on very different journey – from fiction that explored the complexities of family, love, and belonging to nonfiction that challenged me to rethink my own approach to work and self-worth, each book left a lasting impression in its own way.

        TS!


      4. ,

        Three days of literature, dialogue and discovery – Franschhoek Literacy Festival (FLF)

        “We come together not simply to celebrate books, but to celebrate what makes them possible; conversation, challenge, curiosity, and the courage to see the world differently.”

        This past weekend, I attended the Franschhoek Literacy Festival (FLF). Leading to the festival, I knew I wanted to make the most of my weekend at FLF and Franschhoek. Once I booked the sessions I wanted to attend, I carefully curated my itinerary – what a treat it was being in Franschoek.

        As a first-timer at the festival, I wanted a good balance between the sessions and soaking up the atmosphere of Franschhoek. As a coffeeholic, I found some gems to hang out at between my sessions – #TheMomentsInBetween.

        The Sessions

        My itinerary for the 3 Days:-
        Day 1:
        Morning Session: Breaking the Form: Experimental Fiction with Rémy Ngamije and Dawn Garissch, facilitated by Letlhogonolo Mokgoroane.

        • MomentsInBetween: Coffee and Croissant at Smitten@ The Yard

        Afternoon Session: Hot Type: Romance Writing Workshop with Sarah Bullen.
        Dinner: The Bakery – Babylonstoren

        Day 2:
        Morning Coffee: Get Lost Coffee
        Morning Session: Pitch Perfect Workshop with Anjali Singh.

        • MomentInBetween: Lunch at La Cotte Restaurant

        Afternoon Session: Booktok 101 – TikTok Workshop with Afsana Khan.

        Day 3:
        Morning Coffee: @ Motherdough Morning Session: Becoming Nozipho Tshabala

        #TheMomentsInBetween

        My Take away from FLF
        The sessions were informative and educational with some nuggets and important information to ponder.
        The sessions I attended, the authors and facilitators were engaging and well versed. There were some deep, enlightening conversations that left one with some Food for Thought.

        My overall experience
        The trip from Johannesburg to Franschhoek was worth it and FLF is now on my list of events to attend. It’s a good excuse for a Sho’t Left to Franschhoek.

        I left the festival feeling inspired, stimulated and motivated to continue to pursue this writing journey I have embarked on. In good time, it will all come to light.

        @thulisibeko_books


      5. Between the Pages – April Reading.

        1. This Book Made Me Think Of You – Libby Page

        • Moving
          • 4.5 Stars

        ‘The real magic of books is when turning the final page doesn’t mean an ending but a beginning – a beginning that only you can write’

        I honestly didn’t want this book to end, I enjoyed reading it so much. I was hooked from the moment I started reading.

        ‘The right book in the hands of the right person at exactly the right moment can change their life forever.’

        The story is about Tilly Nightgale’s journey, as she learns to live again after the devastating loss of her husband, Joe. Before he dies, Joe leaves her a deeply personal gift at a local bookstore, Book Lane, owned by Alfie. The gift is twelve carefully-curated books, one for each month, each intended to guide her through the long, aching first year of grief without him. Each book comes with a personal note from Joe explaining why he chose that particular story for her, as if he’s still speaking to her from beyond the page. It completely melted my heart – Libby Page writes with such warmth and insight that it feels almost like a gift in itself.


        For the next twelve months, Tilly goes on an adventure. Even with Joe having passed on, you feel his love and adoration for Lilly through this heartfelt gesture.

        ‘Bookshops aren’t just book shops. They are places for book lovers to come together, like minded souls meeting among the stacks’

        Her monthly visits to the book store lead to a friendship with Alfie. As time passes, feelings develop between Tilly and Alfie.

        ‘I think, maybe we don’t get just one love of our lives. Maybe we all have room in our hearts for more than one story’

        Libby Page did wonders with this book, the book is tender, emotional and pure. I particularly loved the way she tackles grief and the many ways people deal with it. I particular loved the fact that the book had so many book references, some I have read and some that I have added to my reading book list.

        This Book Made Me Think Of You is without a shadow of a doubt on my Top 12 favourite book for 2026.

        2. Kin – Tayari Jones

        • Riveting
          • 4 Stars

        There’s a poignant quote by Dr. Maya Angelou that says ‘Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.’ The quote resonated with me as I was reading Kin and the relationship between Vernice and Annie.

        Set in the 1950s/60s, in the Jim Crow south, Vernice (Niecy) and Annie story begins in Honeysuckle, Louisiana. Both motherless, Niecy mother was killed by her father who then took his life, she is raised by her aunt. Annie was abandoned at birth by her mother and never knew her father, she is raised by her grandmother. The two are raised as ‘cradle friends’ forming an unbreakable bond that has its own complexities.
        As they get older, their paths diverge, Annie escapes Honeysuckle, following an unstable path searching for her mother and Niecy goes to Spelman College where her eyes and her world opens up. The friends maintain their relationship through letters where their different life circumstances and choices are laid bare.

        Tayari Jones does a great job of showing the complexities of being a woman in the American South. The story is centered on women – their choices, sacrifices, and connections. The story also explores race, class, culture, gender and sexuality.

        Not an easy read but Kin is deeply moving, riveting and the story is told beautifully. It raises profound questions about the true meaning of family; ‘Family is not always Blood’, true ‘family’ bonds are defined by love, loyalty, acceptance, and support.

        3. Lost Lambs

        • Outrageous
          • 4 Stars

        The Flynn family are so dysfunctionally entertaining. I loved each and every family member with their outrageous views and take on life.

        A bit about the Flynn family; there’s Catherine and Bud, the parents with marital problems, who are struggling to connect, they decide to have an open marriage. Their three daughters are each dealing with their own personal challenges. The eldest seventeen year old daughter, Abigail is dating an older man nicknamed War Crime Wes; the middle child, Louise has an online friend who influences her into terrorism acts; and then there’s the youngest daughter Harper, smart but a law unto herself. She believes the town is under surveillance and she uncovers her dad’s boss’s shady business dealings.

        The story is as chaotic as the characters – there is some conspiracy and criminality involved and the people in the story are navigating life, some with their own weird and outrageous views on life.
        The ending was stellar, a reminder that even in the midst of what seems like dysfunction, disarray and turmoil, there is love and unity.

        Madeline Cash’s writing is uniquely funny, witty, well-paced and well-written. It had me hooked from the start.

        4. Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow – Gabrielle Zevin

        • Nostalgic
          • 4 Stars

        This book was recommended to me by a good friend, there were raving reviews about it and she thought I would enjoy it. She was not wrong. I loved it. Having grown up in the eighties, playing video games, I relished the journey this book took me on – the gaming / arcade era. I was obsessed with playing Double Dragon, Pac Man, Galaxia, Tekken…the list is endless. 

        The book opens with an encounter at a train station between childhood friends Sam Masur – now studying maths at Harvard – and Sadie Green, who’s at MIT studying video game design. They reunite and before long, they’re are working on creating a video game together.

        ‘It’s more than romantic. it’s better than romance. It’s friendship.’ 

        At the centre of this book is a rare friendship between Sam and Sadie. The story takes us back to their first meeting in hospital, where Sam had become reclusive, dealing with the aftermath of badly injured foot and quietly carrying the weight of loss. Their love for gaming forms the foundation of their friendship. It becomes the thing that binds them, giving them a shared language when words fail. It’s the kind of friendship that feels unbreakable – until it isn’t, until a misunderstanding build up to the point where one of them shuts the other out completely. In todays terms, the one friend blocked the other.  

        Post their reunion, they begin working on the creating the game, this journey brings them together as well as tears them apart. Sam’s roommate, Marx, joins them as a business partner.  The trio experience moments of great success, painful failure, upheaval, heartbreak and loss. I found myself attached to this trio, their journey pulled me in because it shows how complex relationship can get and it also shows how success can bring people closer, but also quietly drive them apart.

        Gabrielle has done a stellar job, in my opinion, of gently weaving together Sam’s struggle with his disability and Sadie’s experience of sexism in the video game industry and in life more broadly in the story. What stayed with me most is how the book offers such a thoughtful glimpse into how friendships evolve over time in ways that feel both subtle and painfully real.

        A nostalgic read and all characters were intriguing and some memorable.

        5. In Her Defence – Phillipa Malicka

        • Anticlimatic
          • 3 Stars

        I had high expectations for this book, given its many recommendations from Reese Witherspoon’s book club, but I was ultimately underwhelmed – for one thing, it did not feel like a thriller to me. There were moments that left me gasping, but not in a way typical of a thriller – there was little suspense and no major plot twists. Instead, it relied more on coincidences, unpredictable questionable characters, and occasional high-stakes moments.

        The book opens at the start of a trial where a beloved TV star and national treasure Anna Finbow has taken her daughter Mary’s therapist, Jean Guest to court. Anna is accusing Jean of brainwashing her daughter for her own financial gain.

        The story is told by Gus (Augusta,) a former employee of Anna, who also has a vested interest in the outcome of the case. As the story unfolds the timeline alternates between the trial and Rome, where Gus, Mary and Jean have a connection and the details of their connection comes to light.

        The premise of the book seemed interesting and sadly it did not deliver. It was still a good read but not one I would rant and rave about.

        TS!


      6. Wrapped in Stories: February & March Reads

        ‘Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.’

        4 Stars

        1. The Eights – Joanna Miller

        • Delightful

        A delightful read that follows an unlikely friendship between four women who attend Oxford University in 1920, the first year that women were formally allowed to receive degrees.


        Known as ‘the Eight’ because they occupy four rooms along Corridor Eight at St Hugh’s College, Oxford; Beatrice Sparks, Theodora Greenwood, Marianne Grey and Ottoline Wallace-Kerr hail from different walks of life each shaped by trauma, pressure, and hardship. They carry secrets they find hard to open up about and yet they are united by a shared determination to earn their degrees.
        Over the course of their first year, the four women navigate life at Oxford helping each other in different ways challenging the status quo and fighting for their rights in man’s world where they are not wanted.

        ‘Ubi cordia, ibi victoria, Where there is unity, there is victory.’

        Joan Miller has done a stellar job at bringing in historical details throught the book, I particularly liked how at the beginning of the chapters, she had real newspaper snippets or a set of university rules and regulations which highlighted the different ways male and female students were treated.


        A book like The Eight is a stark reminder that women have had to fight relentlessly just to be treated as equals and that fight is far from over. While meaningful progress has been made and many women today have secured a ‘seat at the table,’ equality remains far from complete. The story resonates not just as a reflection of the past, but as a mirror of the ongoing struggles women navigate in the present day.

        I loved this book and I enjoyed reading it.

        2. The Nightingale – Kristin Hannah

        • Heartwrenching

        I was shattered after reading The Nightingale. A poignantly beautiful novel that tells the story of what it was like to be a woman during World War II, when women’s stories were all too often forgotten or overlooked.

        ‘Men tell stories. Women get on with it. For us it was a shadow war. There were no parades for us when it was over, no medals or mentions in history books. We did what we had to during the war, and when it was over, we picked up the pieces and started our lives over.’

        The story is told from a perspective of two sisters, Isabelle, an impetuous teenager who’s searching for purpose. And Vivian, a wife, mother and teacher who lives a life guided by rules. Both are shaped by the same absence: a mother gone too soon, and a father who left them behind at boarding school, turning childhood into something colder, more contained.
        The sisters have a complex delicate relationship and when the war starts they each embark on their own dangerous paths towards survival. Isabella joins the French Resistance, risking her life to help downed airmen escape Nazi territory. Vivian risks her life helping orphaned jewish children. She endures her own tragedy at the hands of the German officers who stay at with her.

        ‘In love we find out who we want to be. In war we find out who we are.’


        There are love stories woven into the book, but I like that they don’t overshadow the story of these brave women that Kristin Hannah is telling.

        An unforgettable and heartwrenching story that celebrates the incredible strength, the unspoken acts of bravery and resilience of women. This is a modern classic masterpiece, the characters and the story stayed in my heart. I’m so looking forward to the movie adaptation.

        3. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Gail Hofmeyer

        • Magnificent

        I loved seeing the world through Eleanor’s perspective. She’s the type of person I would enjoy spending time with. Her character makes you ponder human behaviour.
        Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is an entertaining read but baked in pain. Eleanor is a thirty year old with no friends, she lives alone and has worked the same job for nine years. She is completely fine with her life.

        ‘Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.’

        Her life changes when she meets Raymond from IT, an easy going colleague with questionable hygiene. Its through this unlikely friendship that we get to see the painful life that Eleanor has lived and how her friendship with Raymond makes her a better understand human interactions.

        ‘Time only blunts the pain of loss. It doesn’t erase it.’

        The book is magnificently funny, entertaining, heartwarming, heartbreaking and tragic. I loved the way Gail Honeyman wrote the story, Eleanor’s character is memorable and witty.

        ‘The past had been hiding from me – or I’d hidden from it – and yet there it was, still, lurking in darkness. It was time to let in a little light.’

        3.5 Stars

        4. Sounds like love – Ashley Poston

        • Dreamy

        I was so looking forward to reading this book after having read Ashley Poston, The Seven Year Slip. But if I’m honest, it didn’t land as brilliantly. I struggled with the premise of the main characters reading each other’s thoughts, I found it distracting but their story still made the book captivating.

        ‘Sometimes the dreams you come with aren’t the dreams you leave with, and sometimes you just don’t leave at all.’


        The story opens at a music concert where we meet Joni Lark, a songwriter who is struggling with writers block and coming to terms with her mother’s illness. She meets Sebestian Fell, a former boy-band star hiding in the shadow of his famous father. The two but heads, Joni thinks Sebestian is full of himself. But when a kiss cam locks onto them, they play along…the kiss leaves them with questions. Joni then leaves the concert unannounced and heads back home to Vienna Shores with the hope of finding some inspiration.

        She reunites with her family and best friend, Gigi. She also has to face some very harsh realities – her mothers illness and the fact that her parents have taken a decision to close their music venue the Revelry that has been in the family for years. While figuring out her life, she starts to hear a melody and a man’s voice in her head.


        The story was told beautifully, I loved how the romance played out and how these two character found each other through music. The cameo appearance of my favourite people from The Seven Year Slip, was nicely done. It took me back to how much I loved their story.

        Even with all the unfortunate life challenges in the book, the one thing that Ashley Poston does is tell a heartwarming story that leaves one feeling completely satisfied.

        ‘We just want to live everyday as full as we can, because the only thing that makes grief worse is regret. And I don’t want anyone to regret anything…’

        5. Some Bright Nowhere – Ann Packer

        • Heartbreaking

        This book is heavy, heartbreaking and complex. Eliot and Claire have been married for nearly four decades, with two two adult children and two grandchildren. Eliot’s wife Claire was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago and has been undergoing chemo. Throughout Claire’s illness, Eliot has selflessly transitioned into the role of caregiver. Claire has reached the stage where she will be stopping treatment and preparing for the inevitable.


        As Eliot plans to spend his last days with Claire, she makes a request that sets his world spinning. My heart broke for Eliot having to endure and support his wife’s unexpected dying wish. What was meant to be a time of processing the inevitable, their marriage is tested. There were moments when I disliked Claire’s character and then I had moments where I put myself in her shoes, one can never comprehend what goes on a person’s mind when death doors are knocking. It’s easy to judge from the outside.


        Some Bright Nowhere explores the emotional reality of someone facing death and the quiet, complicated emotions of those who support someone through it.


        I loved how Ann Packer told the story from Eliot’s perspective. She focuses on his relationship dynamics – his relationship with Claire, his children, Claire’s friends and his friends.


        This book is a heavy but a riveting read.

        3 Stars

        6. Bosadi – Kopano Matlwa

        • Heavy

        A touching story that is told through Naledi’s and Aunty (Naledi’s Zimbabwean domestic worker) perspective. 

        ‘Neither in life nor death is there justice for a woman.’ 

        Bosadi tells the story of Naledi, whose life is confined in an abusive marriage and as to carry the family as the bread winner. Aunty whose privy to the fights carries her own pain – these two women form a complex protective relationship. 

        The book is set during Covid during a time when there was a rise in silent war – the ‘Shadow Pandemic’. (A surge in violence against women and girls, primarily intimate partner violence, that intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic.) Fast forward to November 2025, GBV (Gender Based Violence) is declared a national disaster.

        The book was captivating, the story premise topical and important in the context of South Africa. The book itself was a quick, easy read, I read it in one sitting. Unfortunately the writing style did not work for me. 

        7. Coconut – Kopano Matlwa

        • Intriguing

        Having read her latest novel, Bosadi, I had mixed feelings about her writing style and wanted to read another book of hers before forming an opinion. I decided to get Coconut, her debut novel.

        The premise of the book seemed interesting: a story of two Black girls who grow up in white suburbs and struggle with their identity. There’s Ofilwe, who grows up in a privileged world and is eager to fit in and be accepted in her white society, and Fikile, who comes from a township and is desperate to leave her past behind. Through these two stories, the reader gets a glimpse into the hardships of Black South Africans. The book touches on Blackness, racial identity, and self-worth in South Africa, although at times it feels like it only scratches the surface.

        Kopano’s writing has depth and insight. That said, I had the same issue here as I did with Bosadi. Her storytelling style made it a bit hard for me to fully get into the book.

        Having grown up in the Coconut era, there were moments of nostalgia with the book highlighting the challenges faced by people of colour who had to integrate within a society that made them feel less than and inferior.

        Its an easy read.

         2.5 Stars

        8. Home Bodies – Tembe Denton-Hurst

        • Dreary

        I really wanted to give Home Bodies a higher rating, but I struggled to get into this book. The story follows Mickey, a Black woman working in media, she struggles to connect with her white boss. She’s seen as difficult to work with and is eventually replaced by another Black woman, which leaves her feeling pretty hard done by. While she’s dealing with all of that at work, her relationship at home is also being put to the test.

        The first part of the book, set in New York, is engaging and full of promise. Watching Mickey navigate her life, career, and relationships really pulled me in. But once she moves back home to Maryland, things start to drag. The story loses momentum and becomes quite slow and I found myself losing interest and just wanting to get to the end.

        I also felt like Tembe Denton-Hurst could have gone deeper into Mickey’s work struggles. That aspect felt especially relatable – so many people of colour working in white-dominated industries deal with these kinds of challenges every day and it would’ve been great to see that explored more fully.

        Overall, the book has a really strong premise. It touches on race, identity, and workplace dynamics in a way that could have been incredibly powerful. Unfortunately, the execution didn’t quite live up to that potential, which was a bit disappointing.

        TS!


      7. ‘Life is better with a Little Italian’ – Pink Mama’s

        Pink Mama’s is housed within a beautifully restored home, its painted a signature soft pink. The indoor dining area opens onto a terrace overlooking the Padel courts.

        Pink Mama’s has that easy-going Italian charm where you instantly feel at home.

        The menu leans into classic Italian comfort food and us vegetarians have options to choose from. The Truffle & Porcini Arancini was a win. I tried the pistachio pesto & ricotta pasta but that didn’t quite land for me. I had a more pleasurable dining experience by ordering a combination of vegetarian dishes from their antipasti. 

        Overall, Pink Mama’s is the kind of spot you settle into, be it for long, lazy Friday lunches or brunch with friends or family or dinner date night or dinner with friends, it just works.

        Pink Mama’s is the type of place one keeps going back to.


      8. January Book Review

        1. Heart the Lover – Lily King
        • 5 Stars

        ‘Love is crushing. Love is something you let yourself feel at your own peril, despite your better sense’… 

        I read this book on a Saturday, and I couldn’t put it down, it was that good. A deeply moving story with an intricate throuple.

        The story follows a young woman nicknamed Daisy, later known as Jordan – a name given to her by Sam and Yash, her classmates in a literature course. The novel follows Jordan’s life from her senior year of college to adulthood, where she is married with children.

        During her college years, Jordan spends most of her time with Sam and Yash, sharing long discussions about literature and bonding over card games. Friendships evolve into romance, introducing emotional complexity and difficult choices. These decisions, deeply influenced by questions of faith and life’s complexities, shape the course of their futures.

        As the story shifts to a married Jordan, the impact of those formative years becomes clear. The choices made in college echo forward, altering their lives in ways that cannot be undone. When long-buried secrets resurface amid a terminal illness, Jordan, Yash and Sam are forced to confront the lasting consequences of their past.

        Heart the Lover ripped my heart in half and left me shattered. This was my first Lily King book, and I loved her writing style; this story is told from a narrator’s perspective. The characters were memorable and the story telling gripped me from the first chapter. I fully understand the hype around this book and why it became a favourite for so many readers in 2025.

        2. Before We Were Strangers – Renee Carlino

        • 5 Stars

        ‘We were victims of bad timing. But here we are again.’

        As I read Matthias and Graceland’s story, my heart ached for them in the best possible way, and I found myself cheering for them. Their bond felt like a once‑in‑a‑million kind of love, destined to endure every challenge and hardship that was thrown their way.

        Matt and Grace meet in college on their first day at Senior College and become ‘Fast Friends’ – they become inseparable. Matt is an aspiring photographer, while Grace is a music major. Their bond is magnetic; they inspire and nurture each other’s creative gifts, and over time their friendship deepens into love, both believing it will last forever.

        But when they’re each offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Matt accepts his without any hesitation, while Grace has her reservations. As they navigate the next phase of their lives, things fall apart – everything begins to unravel, there’s communication breakdown – time passes and life goes on.

        3. Twice – Mitch Albom

        • 4 Stars

        ‘You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.’

        Twice is packed with so many meaningful moments, I could not put it down.

        The book begins with Alfie (Alfred) Logan in Nassau, being interrogated by a detective for allegedly cheating and winning millions at a casino roulette wheel. During the interrogation, he reads from a notebook and relays the intriguing story of his life – spanning his time in Africa and America. We also discover that Alfie has a unique ability to go back and do things a second time, altering the outcome for better or worse. His love story pulls you in; it’s earnest, compelling, and filled with valuable lessons along the way.

        When I was reading this book, I had a few moments of reflection and wondered; if I had the ability to go back, what moments would I choose to do twice? For me, there are two pivotal moments, and both involve using the time I had with people who were once dear to the fullest.

        This is the third Mitch Albom book I’ve read. The first was Tuesdays with Morrie, which I discovered while navigating life with a terminally ill sibling. That book became the therapy I needed. Twice was just as profound for me, and it served as a powerful reminder to cherish the time we have with the people we love- real life has no do-overs.

        4. The First Time I Saw Him – Laura Dave

        • 3.5 Stars

        The First Time I Saw Him is the sequel to The Last Thing He Told Me, it was selected as one of Reese’s Book Club picks for January and the novel generated significant interest, following the release of the Apple TV series trailer which will air on the 20th February 2026.

        The book is a continuation of the story from Last Thing He Told Me. Although I haven’t read the original, I watched the TV series and found it gripping. Naturally, I was intrigued by The First Time I Saw Him and wanted to read it before the start of the TV series.

        The story starts five years after Owen’s disappearance and focuses on Hannah and her stepdaughter Bailey, now living in Southern California. When Owen is spotted, Hannah quickly understands that their safety is at risk, and life begins to unravel for them. Hannah mission is to keep Bailey safe. The story delves into the past, I enjoyed getting to know all the other characters and the intricacies of their connections. The one theme that stood out for me in this book, is family and the lengths people go to protect their loved ones.

        The book is fast paced and easy to get into. I’m still on the fence on whether reading the book before the TV series will have an impact. I guess I’ll have the answer once I’ve watched the TV series.

        5. An Almost Perfect Summer – Jill Mansel

        • 3.5 Stars

        I’m a sucker for books set in small towns, I enjoy the escape and picturing the setting and getting lost in it. This book was fun to read from that perspective but felt the multiple characters that get introduced make it hard to stay engaged.

        The story opens with Nella and Nick bickering over the last bunch of roses at a farm shop. Nick is a charming and attractive man who manages luxury holiday homes in a Cotswolds village, while Nella is a highly organized local whose life is abruptly disrupted when she loses her job due to circumstances beyond her control. From there, the novel unfolds through a series of events that gradually draw the two characters together.

        Following her redundancy, Nick offers Nella a position at the retreat. Although there is an undeniable spark between them, Nella is determined to resist her growing feelings. As she begins working at the retreat, the reader is introduced to a range of intriguing characters, each with their own storyline. These narratives are thoughtfully interwoven, adding depth and variety to Nick and Nella’s developing relationship.

        My only criticism is that I would have liked to see more development in Nick and Nella’s romance. That said, the novel remains thoroughly enjoyable, light-hearted, and entertaining.

        6. The Beginning of Everything – Jackie Frase

        • 3 Stars

        Even though I found the premise of the story in the beginning slightly unrealistic, I enjoyed the unfolding story of Jess and Gethin’s relationship. Jess has escaped a bad relationship and is homeless. She finds shelter and becomes a squatter. Gethin, the owner of the house, a kindhearted man, finds Jess in his home and lets her stay. Jess and Gethin get to know each other, and they become friends who develop feelings for each other.

        I was proud of Jess for her bravery for leaving her abusive relationship. Gethin’s patience and kindness towards Jess was commendable.

        This is a character-driven story, easy to read and get into. The pacing was good. If the premise wasn’t so unrealistic, I would have given the book 4 stars.


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        Exploring Joburg’s Culinary Delights at Mila Restaurant

        Food tells a story that imprints memories.  

        One thing about Joburgers — myself included — is that we truly appreciate the good life, and this was clear the day we headed out for a late lunch at Mila Restaurant at LXX in Sandton. From the moment we arrived, we stepped into an unhurried yet vibrant atmosphere, with patrons enjoying business lunches and others catching up with friends. My friend and I had recently revived our Ladies Who Lunch catch-up, and this outing felt like the perfect way to settle back into it. 

        The restaurant’s aesthetic exudes understated luxury—warm, elegant, refined, and welcoming. 

        As a non‑drinking vegetarian foodie, I’ve learnt to manage my expectations when it comes to mocktails. All too often, they’re served in plain glass tumblers that feel more like an afterthought than a crafted drink. So when my mocktail arrived beautifully presented and photo ready, I was pleasantly surprised. In that moment, I knew we were off to a very good start. 

        The food…shew…where does one even begin? It was that good. I ordered a selection of vegetarian dishes, and honestly, I savoured every single one. The Zucchini Keftedes was without a doubt my favourite meal.   

        The dessert was just as delicious and beautifully presented.

        Left Image – Dakos Burrata; Top Image – Halloumi Ricotta Ravioli; Right Image – Zucchini Keftedes
        Dessert
        Top Image – Hazelnut Tart; Bottom Image – Kafethaki Vanilla Brule

        Out of 10, I would rate our overall experience 9.

        • Food gets a 9.
        • Restaurant aesthetics and ambience gets a 9.
        • Price gets a 7, the food is on the pricey side but on all fairness, eating out has become a tad pricey.


      10. 2025 Reading!

        “Something magical can happen when we read a good book.”

        Books have a unique power to take us to places we may never physically go – they offer an escape. The stories allow our imagination to travel freely, introducing us to new ideas, perspectives and igniting our imagination.


        Two years ago, I started being intentional with limiting my screen time. I then set a target to read at least 1 book a month. Fast forward to 2025 and I have managed to read 60 books. Fiction being the books I read most.

        2025 books I read!

        What makes a book great in my view is when the story and the characters stay embedded in my heart and mind long after I have read the book. I will share brief review of the books that gave me that feeling. These books I couldn’t put down. In some instances, I found myself reading through the night.


        I have picked 12 books for the number of months, this was a real daunting task but I managed.
        The book review will focus on 3 things;
        o Is the story enjoyable?
        o Are the characters memorable?
        o Is it a book that I can re-read?
        Each book will be graded out of 5.

        2025 Top 12 Reads!
        1. The Wish – Nicholas Spark
          • 5 stars
          • The story opens in 2019, where we meet Maggie, a renowned New York–based photographer who owns a gallery. Her life takes an unexpected turn when she meets Mark, who soon begins working at the gallery. As Maggie and Mark grow closer, Maggie reflects on her past, taking us on an emotional journey of her past. The story shifts to 1996, when a young Maggie is sent away to live with her aunt. There, she meets Bryce, a warm-hearted boy wise beyond his years. A deep friendship forms between them, and it’s Bryce who introduces Maggie to photography. He becomes a vital source of support during a formative time in her life.
          • The Wish is a complex story that addresses important societal issues and life challenges.
          • Maggie as a character stayed with me for days, weeks and months after reading. I loved the setting and the story. This book, I couldn’t put down.
        2. Cant Get Enough – Kennedy Ryan
          • 5 stars
          • After reading This Could Be Us and Before I Let Go, this book was one of my most anticipated reads for the year and it didn’t disappoint.
          • Hendrix is a successful businesswoman and has phenomenal friends. She’s facing a few life challenges, her toughest being caring for her aging mother. She meets Maverick Bell, a tech billionaire whose chasing the next big thing in his life. Sparks fly. There’s instant attraction but Maverick is in an entanglement, which complicates their instant connection.
          • As destiny would have it, his relationship comes to an amicable ending. This gives Maverick an opportunity to pursue Hendrix. The romance between them is shown beautifully – its smart, its uplifting, its loving wholeheartedly and supportive.
          • What brings them together is a shared experience of having a family member who had or has Alzheimer’s.
          • I love how Kennedy Ryan always builds awareness for a variety of topics in her books. I also enjoyed reading about black love shown in a positive light.
        3. Atmosphere – Taylor Jenkins Reid
          • 5 stars
          • The story follows Joan Goodwood who gets selected for the NASA’s space shuttle programme in the 80ties. In the book, you get to relive Joan’s past and present while in the programme. You also meet the other canditates/ characters who are part of the programme and have an impact in her life in some shape or form.
          • This is a voyage of discovery for Joan, not just in space but also her self-discovery. The story is fast-paced, gripping and heartbreaking.
          • A beautiful tribute to the women who broke boundaries in the 80ties when women were only just being accepted into space programs.
          • The story and the characters stayed with me for a long time after reading this book.
        4. We all want impossible things – Catherine Newman
          • 5 stars
          • A book about two imperfect best friends since childhood, Ashley and Edith, who have been through everything together. As adults they are navigating a difficult time in their lives – Edith has terminal cancer.
          • While the book is heavy and sad in places, it also celebrates friendship, relationships and love.
          • We All Want Impossible Things reminded me of a quote that says ‘The only certainty in life is death.’ As much as the story is about the inevitable, the story is just as much about living. It is a story of full of life and laughter.
        5. Seven days in June – Tia Williams
          • 4.5 stars
          • This story is not a simple love story; its romantic, it’s compelling and layered in past traumas and survival.
          • It follows two writes, Eva, a single mom and Shane, a successful bad boy of the literary world. They have a romantic past. When they reconnect after fifteen years, they have chemistry; it’s steamy, its messy, its complicated as they have to confront their past.
          • I loved this book. I’m a sucker for second-chance romance and Tia Williams delivered with the portrayal of the characters and their flaws in this book.
        6. Love Marry Kill – Zukiswa Wanner
          • 4 stars
          • Two couples, one steamy love affair and a hitman. ‘Till death do us part’ means different things to people. This book is an emotionally layered love story with twist and turns. This book is a page-turner, which dives into the messiness of infidelity and the length people will go to keep what’s theirs.
          • A great read.
        7. Fabrics of love – Lebo Mazibuko
          • 4 stars
          • Fabrics of Love needs to made into a Limited Series – goodness this was such a pleasant read. Growing up in Soweto, the character, the setting was so relatable.
          • The story follows the lives of the Ntoi family, with a particular focus on its women. At the heart of it is Buang, the formidable matriarch who works tirelessly to keep the family together – she’s a fierce protector, she is resilient and sadly has been hardened by her past. Then there’s Prettygirl, the vibrant life of a party – a familiar township character full of charm and energy. Her sister Rosemary is book-smart, focused, and disciplined; she is driven by ambition and purpose. Then there’s their cousin Moipone, a quiet and timid young woman who carries unseen scars from her childhood.
          • Through the eyes of these women, the story explores their journeys as they chase their dreams while confronting culture, family secrets, love, relationships and the weight of past trauma.
          • A multi layered captivating book. I loved how Lebo Mazibuko brought to light the vibrancy of Meadowlands (Soweto).
        8. One Golden Summer – Carley Fortune
          • 4 stars
          • I stumbled upon this on Instagram, there was a lot of hype around it, and my curiosity was immediately sparked. I then had to read the 1st book, Every Summer After.
          • Carley Fortune has a gift for painting the picture of a magical summer. As much as I loved Percy and Sam’s story in Every Summer After, I connected even more deeply with Charlie and Alice’s journey. This is a story steeped in nostalgia – One picture. Three teens. A yellow boat. Its where past summers collide with present-day choices, and a beautiful friendship slowly unfolds into a deeply emotional summer romance.
          • Charlie is charming and self-assured. Alice gives more than she receives, she puts everyone before herself. Charlie helps Alice step out of her shell and Alice helps Charlie deal with his deep regret. They complement each other in so many ways and have the most hilarious banter. Their chemistry felt natural and warm.
          • Overall, this was a fun, emotionally rich read, one that truly captures the magic of the lake. As the story reminds us, ‘Good things happen at the lake.’
        9. Things we left behind – Lucy Score
          • 4 stars
          • This is the third and final book in the Knockemout series. Sloan and Lucian were my most anticipated couple in the series and Lucy Score didn’t disappoint.
          • I absolutely loved Sloan and Lucian’s relationship, especially their sharp, entertaining banter. As adults, they may claim to loathe each other, but neither can deny the sparks between them. Their history adds so much depth to the story – from childhood friends, to sworn enemies after an incident that shattered their bond, and finally to lovers.
          • Sloan is feisty, witty, and warm-hearted, with dreams of a traditional happy ending – a loving husband and children. Lucian, on the other hand, has become powerful and wealthy, capable of making anything happen, except committing to the idea of family, which he firmly resists.
          • I love how Lucian would do anything for Sloane even when he insistent that he didn’t like her. It warmed my heart that they got their happy ending.
          • While I didn’t particularly enjoy the crime subplot, it was expected, as it featured heavily in Things We Never Got Over and Things We Hide from the Light. Still, it was a joy to return to Knockemout. I have a soft spot for small-town settings – even fictional ones, as they stretch the imagination and transport you to places you may never otherwise experience.
        10. Tell me everything – Elizabeth Strout
          • 4 stars
          • It follows a friendship between 90 year old Olive Kitteridge, Bob Burgess whose the central character, a lawyer and acclaimed writer Lucy Barton.
          • Through quiet, intimate conversations, Lucy and Bob reflect on their lives and what might have been, while Olive and Lucy share stories about people they have known.
          • The true allure of this book lies in its richly drawn characters and their complex inner lives—because human beings themselves are deeply complex. Woven through the narrative is a mystery that gradually unfolds, drawing in characters who carry their own layers of history and emotional depth.
          • This book is beautifully written. Although I haven’t read the previous novels in the series, I found it easy to follow and completely captivating from start to finish.
        11. What a way to go – Bella Mackie
          • 3.5 stars
          • A murder mystery with a humour all in one.
            Anthony Wistern is a wealthy, charming, philander with a dysfunctional family set to inherit his fortune. Upon his untimely death, each of them becomes potential suspects.
          • The characters are self absorbed and not really likeable but they make a good story.
        12. The love we found – Jill Santos
          • 3.5 stars
          • A sequel to The Light We Lost, which I would highly recommend reading before starting this book. Ten years have passed, and a great deal of life has unfolded since the end of the first story.
          • This sequel is rich with blended family dynamics, hidden truths, and the challenge of confronting the past while learning how to move forward. It explores the reality that people are imperfect and that life is often complicated and messy. The story continues with Lucy a single mother juggling the needs of her children, her life after Gabe and finding love again.
          • The story is emotional, it’s moving and it’s well written.
            I’m chuffed with what I have been able to accomplish with my reading.

        I’m chuffed with what I was able to achieve this year. The goal has been set and I plan to continue in 2026.


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        Layover – Santa Margherita Ligure and Portofino #Wanderlust Wednesday

        “Blessed are the curious, for they shall have adventures”

        On route to Florence from Milan, I decided to add a layover in Portofino. I had stumbled upon some beautiful pictures of Portofino on Instagram, I just had to include it on my itinerary. I took a train from Como to Santa Margherita Ligure.

        Santa Margherita Ligure is a great base and I found this town extremely charming with its brightly coloured house, harbour, beach and eateries.

        Portofino

        Arriving in Portofino was surreal, I had read about why the town is loved and frequented by ‘VIP’s around the world. I understand why that is, Portofino is the “quintessential fishing village on the Italian Riviera”

        It has a small habour, colourfully painted buildings and the ‘Piazzetta’ (small square) overlooking the sea.

        Exploring the Italian Riviera was another Splendid Experience!


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        Milano and Como – La Triola Italy (The Italy Trilogy) – Part 2

        I had the best intentions to be more consistent with my blogging in 2020 but then life just kept happening. Adjusting to the ‘new normal’ has become somewhat of an extreme sports. We really are living in unprecedent times.

        I must say, I do miss being inside a plane and travelling to a destination unknown. Travelling afforded us the opportunity to explore, experience and create memories in different parts of the world. As they say “Memories are timeless treasure of the heart”

        While we still navigating the 2nd wave of the pandemic, I will be using the blog to re-live some of my travel memories. I had started what was meant to be a Trilogy from our trips to Italy, so it only makes sense for me to continue where I left off.

        Part 1 was a trip to Venice. Part 2 we explore Milano – Italy’s fashion and design capital of the world, home to the second largest catholic cathedral in the world and the fourth largest in the world.

        What we got up to?

        I travelled to Milan with one of my Bestie. Milan had been on our bucket list for years now. So when we eventually made it happen it exceeded our expectations. With 5 days to spare in Milan, my bestie and I wanted to strike a balance between exploring the rich artistic cultural heritage, indulging in a bit of shopping and “lunching”

        Day 1:

        With rain forecast for the entire day, our hotel concierge recommended we start at the Grand Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II, Italy’s oldest shopping mall, a landmark for Milan and named after the Victor Emanuel II, the first king of the Kingdom of Italy. The galleria houses some of the most luxurious boutiques and numerous restaurants.

        The Grand Galleria is nicknamed “il salotto di Milano” (Milan’s drawing room) and connects two of Milan’s other most famous landmarks – The Duomo and the Teatro Alla Scala.

        Duomo Di Milano (The Cathedral)

        Known as the heart of the city, the Duomo is an architectural masterpiece, the largest Cathedral in Italy and the second largest Catholic Cathedral in the world. Construction to this place took five centuries to complete.

        The Duomo is a striking blend of Gothic and neo-Gothic styles. With its beautiful marble façade, with the statues standing guard over the city and the famous Madonnina, the gold-colored statue of Mary that stands on the cathedral’s highest spire.

        Inside you find many more statues, marble columns, paintings scattered throughout, the stunning floor, with its design in black, pink, and white marble and stained glass windows.

        The Duomo is at the centre of Milan in Piazza del Duomo, and at walking distance from many of the town’s other tourist attractions. Great place to navigate the city.

        Day 2:

        Santa Maria delle Grazie and “The Last Supper” by Leonardo da Vinci

        Santa Maria delle Grazie is a church and a convent in Milan, world-known for housing The Last Supper painting by Leonardo da Vinci.

        The painting can be found on north wall of the refectory of the convent which forms an integral part of the architectural complex. Painted between 1495 and 1497, this is undoubtedly one of the most important works of art of all times. “A timeless and unique artistic achievement of outstanding universal value.”

        Interesting Facts:

        During World War II, this Dominican monastery was almost completely destroyed by bombing. Three walls of the refectory that houses “Il Cenacolo” or “The Last Supper” were miraculously spared. Over time, in a desperate effort to save it, the painting was repeatedly restored, consequently altered and completed in 1999.

        Besides Leonardo’s painting, the complex also accommodates other artworks, including a remarkable Crucifixion by Donato Montorfano (1495), and various 16th-century fresco paintings by Gaudenzio Ferrari.

        Castello Sforzesco (Sforza Castle)

        Built as a fortress in the 14th century, currently it houses one of the best museums in the city.  The castle is an iconic landmark in Milan, an oasis of history, architecture and art.

        I’m not a big shopper but I was travelling with the shopping queen who can spot a bargain a mile away. She also somehow manages to find classic pieces that the rest of us somehow miss.

        Day 3

        We decided to spend time at Serravalle Designer Outlet (McArthurGlen Designer Outlet). This designer outlet offers an array of shopping options from designer brands such a Gucci, Moncler, Celine,  to well know street wear shops like Diesel, Desigual and sporting brands like Nike, Adidas.

        Weekend in Como

        We spent the weekend in Como to wrap up our stay in Milan. The city of Como sits at the edge of the famous Lake Como (Lago di Como) – the most beautiful lake in the world.

        Como has an array of historical buildings, fine restaurants, important museums and its relatively easy to navigate. We spent Friday roaming the streets and indulging in food. There was a vibe in the town as they were hosting the 38th ACI Como Rally Trophy.

        On Saturday we took a boat trip and explored the majestic Lake Como. We had so many surreal moments, words simply cannot describe the sheer beauty of the lake and the breath-taking views studded with studded with charming towns, enchanting villas and unspoilt nature.

        We stopped at the Pearl of Lake Como – the Bellagio. We strolled the streets, lunched, visited the famous Villa Melzi and explored its majestic gardens. A true dream destination worthy of lots more visits.

        Sadly the adventure for my bestie ended on Sunday due to work commitments but for me the adventure continued.

        Next stop was Florence with a layover in Portofino. This will be Part 2 – The Extended Journey. Being in Portofino was breath-taking, the town deserves a mention.

        Till the next post, Stay Splendid!


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        La trilogia Italy (The Italy Trilogy) – Part 1 – Venice

        “Italy is a dream that keeps returning for the rest of your life.”

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        Italy is one of the most iconic places for one to travel. Its diverse natural landscapes, cultural heritage, authentic Italian food and lifestyle will always be a dream like no other.

        Before the world went to lock-down, I got to wander through the streets of three iconic cities, admiring the architecture, churches, visiting museums, indulging in a meal and completing it with a Gelato. Always grateful that I get to relive, reminisce and share on my blog.

        Thinking of making this Italy content a Trilogy, that way I can do justice to all three cities. Part 1 of the trilogy (La trilogia) will be a feature on Venice – a masterpiece of architectural beauty.

        When we landed at Marco Polo Airport, our transfer was waiting to take us to the water taxi dock. The drive to the water taxi dock was short but I could not contain my excitement being picked up in a Tesla Model X. I LOVE Tesla’s especially the Model X.

        Tesla Model X

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        Venice, sometimes referred as ‘The City of Water’ relies on a series of waterways and canals. It’s quiet a unique experience watching the entire water taxi system work so effortlessly.

        The city is situated on 118 small islands that are separated by canals and linked by more than 400 bridges, earning the city one of its nicknames – “The City of Bridges.”

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        What we did?

        Venice is filled with things to do, from the standard tourist attractions, to visiting a gallery or taking a water taxi to the neighbouring islands.

        Our hotel was a mere 500m from St Marks Square also called Piazza San Marco. This is the city’s main public square, the heartbeat of Venice. Its a great place to start as you can explore some famous landmarks.

        1.St Marks Basilica – Basilica di San Marco

        • The most famous and most recognisable of all the churches in the city of Venice. Its architecture, a mixture of Byzantine, Roman and Venetian. The exterior of the basilica is quite ornate, and one cannot help but admire its gleaming, golden byzantine mosaics.

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        2.St Mark’s Campanile – The bell tower of St Mark’s Basilica

        • One of the most recognisable structure in Venice and sits across from the iconic St Marks Basilica.
        • The bell tower is the tallest structure in the city, visitors can climb to the top and enjoy panoramic views over Venice.
        • The bell tower has been restored many times due to fires caused by lightning. It collapsed in 1902 and it was decided tower had to be reconstructed exactly as it was. In 1912, it was finally inaugurated on St. Mark’s Day.

        St Marks Square

        3. The bridge of sighs – Ponte dei Sospiri

        • The Bridge of Sighs was built to connect the old prison in the Doges Palace with the new prison across the river. Its arched profile that suspended over the water of the Palazzo Rio, is one of the most famous scenes in Venice.

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        4. Rialto Bridge – Ponte Di Rialto

        • The Rialto Bridge is the oldest and most famous of the four bridges straddling the Grand Canal.

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        5. The Grand Canal

        • This monumental canal is more like a river and it passes from one side of Venice to the other meandering through the city in a zigzag way from Saint Mark’s Basilica to the Church of Santa Chiara. A ride along the Grand Canal is a must.

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        6. Visiting the neighbouring island 

        • Murano, Burano and Torcello are the three most famous islands near Venice, you can tour all three in one day or choose to explore the islands in depth.
          • Murano is famous for its beautiful glass.
          • Burano for its lace.
          • Torcello for its cathedral.

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        In terms of artistic expressions and influence, Venice is one of Italy’s most important cities. Art is as essential to characterising Venice and can be experienced first-hand in any of the City’s many museums. We visited three of the museums. Peggy Guggenheim Collection, the Leonardo Da Vinci Museum and Doge’s Palace.

        1.Peggy Guggenheim Collection

        “I dedicated myself to my collection. I made it my life’s work. I am not an art collector. I am a museum”

        • Peggy Guggenheim was, and still is, one of the important women who left a mark on Venice. She introduced the American modern art to the European art scene supporting the careers of some of modern art’s biggest names such as Picasso, Miro and Pollock.
        • The Peggy Guggenheim Collection, is one of Europe’s premier museum devoted to modern art is located in Palazzo Venier dei Leoni, Guggenheim’s former home on the Grand Canal.
        • The museum presents Peggy Guggenheim’s personal collection, masterpieces from the Hannelore B. and Rudolph B. Schulhof collection, a sculpture garden as well as temporary exhibitions.

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        2. Leonardo Da Vinci Museum

        ‘The life, the works, the secrets of the greatest genius in history. In the museum you will find Leonardo’s most important inventions.’

        Da Vinci was a multifaceted man and the museum is a great place to learn and explore his world. We got to learn about his paintings and anatomical drawings, and saw working replicas of his creative machines.

        • The first floor of the museum contains several replicas of da Vinci’s most famous works of art with descriptions and information about their significance.
        • The whole second floor (or first in European terms) is full of wooden reconstructions of da Vinci’s designs.

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        3. Doges’ Palace – Palazzo Ducale

        • Once residence of the Doge and house of the political body of the State, the palace can be seen from the lagoon.
        • Its a masterpiece of Gothic architecture combining use of the Gothic lancet arch with Byzantine and Moorish influences. It’s now the most important museum in Venice.

        Doge Palace

        Where we ate?

        Eating in Italy is a serious deal, food is an essential part of the countries culture with pasta and pizza generally being the stable food option. Turned out, pasta is not a staple in the region of Veneto. The most popular carbohydrates are polenta and rice. The places that stood out for me were:-

        1. Conca D’oro

        • Lovely Italian restaurant, famous for their Pizza and we were not disappointed. Lovely restaurant with a great atmosphere.

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        2. Restaurant Terrazza Danieli

        • For our last supper, we had dinner at the Restaurant Terrazza Danieli, which is located on the top floor of the Hotel Danieli and has magnificent views of the Lagoon. We thoroughly enjoyed our dinner.

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        Where we stayed?
        Hotel Danieli dominates the Venetian lagoon with spectacular views of the Grand Canal and islands.  My room had gorgeous views of the lagoon.

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        The hotel has great dining options – Restaurant Terrazza Danieli, the rooftop restaurant, Bar Dandolo, in the main hotel lobby and the Danieli Bistro an informal venue serving the finest Venetian cicchetti.

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        Venice is truly remarkable, a dream destination and was a true Splendid Experience!


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        Fondation Louis Vuitton – Architecture + Art + Food

        “I dream of designing a magnificent vessel for Paris that symbolizes France’s profound culture vocation” – Frank Gehry

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        ARCHITECTURE

        Commissioned in 2006 by the LVMH Group as a contemporary art and performance space, The Fondation Loius Vuitton Building is a ‘Masterpiece”. Designed to look like a sailboat, Frank Gehry took his inspiration from the lightness of late 19th-century glass and garden architecture.

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        The building is constructed from 3600 glass panels that make up the sails, 19000 fibre-reinforced concrete that gives the ‘iceberg’ (wall clad in white Ductal panels) its flawless whiteness. The support structure for the glass sails is made from a network of steel and glue-laminated larch timber beams.

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        The entrance with the enormous shining “LV” brooch.

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        The Lobby

        ART

        The museum houses a permanent collection of modern and contemporary art belonging to the Foundation.
        Eleven galleries provide 3,850 square meters (41,441 square feet) of exhibition space to house temporary shows and a permanent collection, which include works borrowed from Arnault’s personal collection. There’s also an auditorium that seats 350 – 1000.

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        Top Left: From the series The Theater of Disappearance, 2018 by Adrián Villar Rojas
        Bottom: The Octopus Eats Its Own leg, 2017 by Takashi Murakami
        Top Right: L’avalanche, 2006 by François Morellet
        Centre: “a.k.a Gero Tan : Noah’s Ark”, 2016 by Takashi Murakami
        Bottom Right: Water Cast 6, 2015 by Matthew Barney

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        Inside the horizon, 2013 – Olafur Eliasson

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        Felix the Cat, 2013 by Mark Leckey

        FOOD

        There’s a restaurant on-site Le Frank which is noted for its sophisticated mix of French and international cuisine. The restaurant is overseen by Michelin-starred chef Jean-Louis Nomicos(had to google the guy).

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        I settled for a starter salad as the main menu had no vegetarian option. A bit of a disappointment if you have to ask me. The highlight was definitely the dessert, it tasted as good as it looked.

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        Romaine lettuce and lightly smoked corn, pomegranate and avocado starter

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        “Avalanche” dessert (My highlight) 

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        “Avalanche” – intense vanilla velvet, strawberries and pistachio

        A splendid way to end an enlighting afternoon at the museum.

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        The museum is unfortunately still closed as the world still navigates the Global Pandemic, they are scheduled to open on the 23rd September.

        Location:
        Fondation Louis Vuitton
        8, Avenue du Mahatma Gandhi
        Bois de Boulogne
        75116 – Paris


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        Weekend in Paris – ‘Joie de vivre’ (The joy of living)

        If there’s one thing that I’m going to miss this year, is the ability to travel overseas. The impact of the Global Pandemic on how we travel will be life-changing. Some European countries have started welcoming tourism but the reality (and I speak for myself) it’s going to take some time for us to travel. Covid-19 is still such a reality, the world is now just learning to navigate around it.

        I continue to be grateful that my curious nature afforded me the opportunity to travel before the world went on lock-down and in the process created memories that last a lifetime, which I now get to share on my blog.

        Today’s throwback, I get to reminisce about a weekend I spent in Paris celebrating my milestone birthday. I have never been big on having birthday parties but I have always been big on experiences and the simple joy of living for the moments that take your breath away. 

        I went with Paris because I saw in the news that the Eiffel Tower had re-opened and the Musée du Louvre will be opening on the 6th July and I had a sudden sense of Nostalgia.

        Whether it’s your first, second or third visit, Paris never fails to amaze – the mixture of architecture, art, cafés, fashion and rich history, there’s a never-ending list of things to do, see and eat.

        I have fond memories from our first girls trip to Europe, Paris was one of the cities we visited (besides dragging our luggage through the subway, getting lost for half the morning in the rain trying to find our hotel and quickly learning the basic phrase ‘salut, parlez vous anglaise?’ just so we can get help) the trip was such an epic adventure. We did all the typical touristy things, shopped and ate a LOT of bread. I have a weakness for bread but Paris takes it to a whole nother level. By day 2 of the trip, I was not interested in eating any type of bread. 

        Friday

        I landed in the City of Lights, well prepared and with a bit of travel experience this time around. Getting to the hotel did not take the entire morning, I had a semi-planned weekend itinerary and wanted to just immerse myself in Parisian culture. 

        Eiffel Tower Summit

        I decided to re-visit the Eiffel Tower the first attempt was a complete disaster. We had bought tickets to reach the summit but the lines were so long. At some point while we were being ushered, it felt like we were cattle being herded into a kraal. What made it even worse was the weather, it just got soooo windy (Cape Town type wind). By the time we reached the 2nd floor, we had lost interest, called it quits and never reached the top floor. 

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        This time around, I went with a guided pre-booked tour. The experience was great, from the meet and greet to the actual summit, the tour worked so well. There was a bit of history on how the tower was built. We went up starting on the 1st floor, then 2nd and eventually the Summit. The views of the city are simply spectacular. 

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        Views of Paris from the Eiffel Tower

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        Views of Paris from the Eiffel Tower

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        Views of Paris from the Eiffel Tower

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        Views of Paris from the Eiffel Tower

        Saturday

        My morning ritual when I travel is getting up early and going for a morning walk or run. You get to genuinely appreciate a place in its empty state. 

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        After my run, I kicked off the day with a typical French breakfast – freshly squeezed juice, strong coffee, pain au chocolate (chocolate bread) or croissant. The one thing that Paris has an abundance off, is street cafes.

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        I walked along the banks of the river Seine, I found that the Seine is a great way to explore the city. If walking is a challenge, they have river cruises which are a great way to see Paris. Along the banks, you will find what they call Les Bouquinistes – booksellers of used, antiquarian books and art. Great place to buy a souvenir.

        Along the walk, I passed Notre-Dame, the most famous of the Gothic cathedrals of the Middle Ages. Its currently closed for restorations after it caught fire some time back. 

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        Les Bouquinistes                    Image Cred: @ParisAMDParis (Twitter)

        “Everywhere is a walking distance, if you have time” – Steven Wright

        When you walk, you really do get to experience Paris. Some of the sights that I saw while walking –  Ponte Neuf (Oldest bridge in Paris) and Ponte de Arts (was once famous for the Love padlocks that were later banned and removed as they started to damage the bridge) Musee de Louvre, Place de la Concorde and Grand Palais.

        I ended up on The Avenue des Champs-Élysées, one of the world’s most famous commercial streets that connect the Arc de Triomphe with the Place de la Concorde.    Arc de Triomphe is the most monumental of all triumphal arches.

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        Champs-Élysées

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        Arc de Triompe

        The street is a shoppers paradise, from French brands, to Luxury brands and affordable ready to wear brands. I’m not much of a shopper but I particularly liked the Abercrombie & Fitch store, felt like I was entering a Palace. 

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        If you are foodie, you are spoilt for choice from fast-food to French bistros to Michelin-starred restaurants there’s something for everyone. They say a trip to Paris is not complete without having a genuine Macaroon – the quintessential French cookie. Stopped at Le 86 Champs which brings together three things for which France is most revered: food, fragrance and the pleasure principle.

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        Sunday

        Sundays are for Art + Architecture + Food.

        Firsts stop was Musée du Louvre – the world’s largest art museum and a historic monument. We all know that the highlight for ‘us’ tourist is the Mona Lisa by Leonardo Da Vinci. If time allows, I highly recommend spending time exploring the museum, there are so many other great works of art.

        The Carters (Beyonce and Jay-Z) music video “APES**T was shot at the Louvre and shows some of the popular artworks. 

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        Top left : The Winged Victory of Samothrace. Bottom left: Venus de Milo (Image cred @TheLouvre) Top right: The Mona Lisa. Centre: 12-ton Great Sphinx of Tanis, with a lion’s body and a human head (Image cred @TheLouvre). Bottom Right: The Raft of the Medusa

        The Louis Vuitton Foundation Museum

        One word sums up this building  ‘Masterpiece’ if you love architect, this place is a must see. The museum houses a permanent collection of modern and contemporary art belonging to the Foundation.

        My next blog post will be dedicated to my experience at the museum. Including it on this post will not do it justice. I spent a couple of hours here and got to experience Architecture + Art + Food all in one place. Truly a Splendid Experience!!

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      “Fill your life with experiences, not things. Have stories to tell, not stuff to show.

      My love for travelling was ignited by my parents, they opened our eyes to the world of travel and encouraged us to explore the world.

      A lover of all things Splendid. I love travelling, I love discovering new places and experiencing how other cultures live. Amazing memories are created through experiences, no matter how small or big.

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