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A place where I will share my personal anecdotes from my travel adventures and my vegetarian culinary experiences. A space where I will catalogue all things Splendid.
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Osaka: Where the City’s Heart Is in Its Food

Chapter 2: Osaka
‘The vibrant culinary capital of Japan – The nation’s kitchen – bright, loud, appetite-first.’
Osaka is globally celebrated for its relaxed vibe, vibrant nightlife, and immersive street food culture centered around the philosophy of kuidaore (‘eat until you drop’)
What we did



Where we ate
I can officially conclude that I had the best vegetarian dining experience in Osaka. It makes perfect sense why Osaka is known as the ‘Kitchen of the Nation’. Every restaurants we ate at made an extra effort to accommodate me and they didn’t disappoint.
- La Veduta

I low key think my family were Italians in their past lives. Gosh do we love a good Italian meal and this restaurant didn’t disappoint. The food ethos is rooted in Italian tradition with Japanese seasonality. It truly was a memorable dining experience.
La Veduta is located at the St Regis Hotel in Osaka.
- Jiang Nan Chun

Jiang Nan Chun is a signature Chinese restaurant serving Cantonese cuisine. The restaurant on the 37th floor of Four Seasons Hotel Osaka. The food was great.
- Teppanyaki WAJO

Teppanyaki WAJO offers innovative and distinctive teppanyaki cuisine. The Chef blends high-end French culinary techniques with premium Japanese ingredients.
The dining experience centres on high-end curated set menus where seasonal ingredients from the Kansai region are prepared directly on an iron griddle.
This was splendid and the vegetarian menu was flavoursome.
- Splendido

Splendido is an Italian restaurant located at the Ritz Carlton in Osaka. It offers traditional regional dishes with a modern twist – they have pastas, charcuterie, and wood-fired pizzas. Dinner was a splendid experience.
Where we stayed
I loved this hotel. Its modern understated elegance with a dedicated modern ryokan experience featuring traditional tatami mats and shoji screens within a contemporary layout.

What sold this hotel for me was the coffee shop in the lobby, convenience is everything when you are travelling.
Key Hotel Highlights
Location:
- Located in the historic Dojima neighborhood near the scenic river, a few minutes from Umeda Station, it provides easy access to premier commercial, shopping, dining and entertainment places, as well as nearby cities like Kyoto and Nara.
Dining:
- Jiang Nan Chun, a signature Chinese restaurant that served Cantonese cuisine.
- Sushi L’Abysse, a contemporary sushi restaurant blending French and Japanese techniques.
- Jardin, a French bistro that has all day dining.
- Farine, the coffee shop in the lobby that has serves fresh baked goods.
- Bar Bota a cocktail bar on the 37th floor with beautiful city views.
Wellness & Gym:
- A dedicated spa floor with a 16-metre indoor pool,
traditional Japanese ofuro baths, saunas, and a 24-hour fitness center.
The overall verdict
Osaka was a city that surprised me in the best possible way. It felt more relaxed and playful than Tokyo, but still had that unmistakable energy that makes Japan so captivating.
And then there was the food. Osaka certainly lived up to its reputation as ‘Japan’s Kitchen.’ As a vegetarian, I had some of my best dining experiences here. Restaurants went out of their way to accommodate me, and unlike some destinations where vegetarian options can feel like an afterthought, the meals were memorable in their own right.
Beyond the food, Osaka had a warmth and vibrancy that I loved.
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August Reads: Love, Drama & Everything In Between!

1. Wisani and the Bafokeng Brothers – Thandi Moagi
- Cliffhanger
- 4 Stars
“You don’t love him – you love the danger.”
Wisani and the Bafokeng Brother follows Wisani, a struggling Wits sociology student from Soweto who carries a burden that resonates with so many people who come from the township – having to be responsible for the family’s income.
She crosses paths with a dangerous underworld family while doing research for her degree. She meets Mohapi and falls deeply, even with the red flags she picked up.
Someone needs to do a study on why a woman will see red flags in a man and still go all in and fall deeply.
“…a beautiful mistake, I’m willing to make.”
Thandi did a brilliant job at making one understand why girls fall for bad boys. The way Mohapi shows up for Wisani, I even melted. Thandi did the most with the Bafokeng brothers characters.
The storytelling is gripping. I was transported and got lost in Wisani and Bafokengs Brothers world. The writing is rich, I felt the tension and emotion between Wisani and Mohapi and the brothers.
Thandi Moagi reminded me why I love reading South African romantic fiction – the settings feel familiar, the characters are relatable, and there’s something special about seeing our stories come to life on the page.
I can’t wait to get my hands on the next book!
2. Yesteryear – Caro Claire Burke
- Twisted
- 4 Stars
“What did I just read?!?” was my initial reaction after I finished reading Yesteryear.
- Did I enjoy reading the books? YES!
- Did I think the premise of the book was crazy? YES!
Natalie is a social media influencer who promotes traditional gender roles, Christian teachings, and farm life. She lives on Yesteryear Ranch with her husband and children.
One day, Natalie wakes up in what seems like the year 1855, where she recognizes no one and must learn to live without modern society.
This book…its witty, its thought provoking, it left me in wonder…
What I want to ask Caro Claire Burke is how she even thought of bringing to life Natalie Heller Mills character – Natalie is not normal, she’s unhinged.
“My name is Natalie Heller Mills, and I was perfect at being alive.”
3. Our Perfect Storm – Carley Fortune
- Ordinary
- 3.5 Stars
I was so looking forward to reading Our Perfect Storm but sadly, this book did not land with me, it was just ordinary.
A friends-to-lovers story trope with all the misunderstandings, unresolved feelings, missed opportunities between Frankie and George.
As I was reading the 1st chapter, I already knew that Frankie’s relationship with George was a problem. The girl is getting married to Nate but is more concerned about George showing up, she acts like a petulant child and her closest friends have to keep reminding her to smile. Granted she has a special childhood bond with George but her behaviour just put me off.
There were some good moments in the book, George was a likeable character. However the overall direction of the plot felt disjointed at times. It was missing the Carley Fortune depth to how one connects with the characters.
Carley still does a stellar job at making you fall in love with a place without being there. Tofino seems like a magical place one must visit.
One Golden Summer and Every Summer After are still my favourite Carley Fortune books.
4. Divine Arrangements – Takalani M
- Pleasant
- 3 Stars
Divine Arrangements was a pleasant read. I started it on Friday afternoon and was done by Sunday morning. The story was simple and easy to follow with moments of drama – relationship and family drama.
The story opens the day before Rendani’s and Aaron’s wedding, and already there’s chaos. Aaron, her fiance, wants to call off the wedding. On the day of the wedding, Aaron seems tense at the altar and pulls a runaway bride stunt on Rendani.
Rendani moves back home to Venda for a fresh start. She ends up living with her grandmother – by far my favourite character in the book. I loved her way of life and the knowledge she imparted to Rendani.
“Waking up everyday and knowing you can live off your own land? That is wealth.”
As Rendani starts building her life, she meets Fhumulani Makungo, he’s divorced and has questionable views about marriage.
The two fall in love. As they are about to embark on their new journey, Rendani’s fathers business takes a terrible turn which unfortunately is linked to Rendani. She is then forced to choose family over love.
With all the twists, turns, drama…love eventually wins.
5. A Love That Heals – Catherine Phiri
- Easygoing
- 2.5 Stars
I read it and finished it. The style didn’t quite resonate with me, though I can see its appeal.
A Love That Heals is a love story about healing, faith, trust and forgiveness. The story follows Thandaza, a girl from Polokwane who moves to Johannesburg looking for greener pastures for her and her adoptive Gogo who she loves dearly.
She meets Steven, a restaurateur who falls in love at first sight and adores her.
As the two start spending time together, they grow together in love with Thandaza playing an important role in helping Steven deal and heal with his family dynamics.
A well-meaning South African romance with a wholesome message. It just lacked the emotional depth between the characters that I usually look for in romance novels.
There’s nothing quite like getting lost in a good story and August gave me a few worth remembering.
- Cliffhanger
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Japan – A Wonder!

As much as I would like to take credit for some of my splendid travel adventures, my sister is the ideas person and the planner of all our trips with the kids (two who are now adults and the laat lammetjie is a teenager now). They grow so quickly.
How I ended up travelling to Japan for 21 days in a moon boot after being home bound for almost 8 weeks from a raptured achilles injury that needed surgery and had me in a cast for 6 weeks, was never on my bingo cards. And then the WhatsApp came on one of the days I was feeling sorry for myself. (Thank you Universe!)

And thats how I ended up travelling to Japan as an assistant passenger in Moon Boot with a crutch. I guess there’s a first time for everything!
My sister, the ever so organised, created a Japan Travel Look Book and we got a glimpse of what was in store for us. The itinerary was well curated – 21 days, 4 cities, 30 landmarks. Each city was a chapter in the look book.
For the next four weeks, I will use the Japan Travel Look Book as my creative inspiration to blog about the trip – 4 Cities, 4 Chapters.
Four Cities. Endless neon, ancient shrines, mountain shrines wrapped in cedar, and quiet gardens between it all.
From Tokyo’s kinetic sprawl to Miyajima’s floating torii, this is a slow reading of Japan in high summer.
Chapter 1: Tokyo
Neon, shrines, and the pulse of a megacity.


What we Did
Tokyo is a vibrant populous city of Japan, blending ultra-modern neon skyscrapers with ancient, peaceful temples.





Where we Ate

The above picture summed up my dining experience in Japan.
We tried most of Japan’s culinary experiences – from street food to restaurants to Michelin star dining. The carnivores in my family had an enjoyable culinary experience.
Wagyu beef is big in Japan, hotel restaurants, standard restaurants and street food, all specialise in wagyu. A dream food destination for meat eaters. They also eat a lot of fish. Like some of my fellow SAns, they too think chicken and fish are vegetarian. I had to double check all my meals that they don’t add any fish or chicken broth.
In most places they tried to accommodate my dietary requirements but unfortunately the food was bland. (Imagine eating 2 minute noodles without any seasoning.)
1. Paris Yugao


- This was amongst the best vegetarian meals I had in Tokyo. The meal itself was a simple meat free pattie but the star of the meal had to be the vegetables. The asparagus and potatoes were delectable. The garlic fried rice was just as delicious.
- The entire experience of watching the chef cook a meal in an intimate setting was by far a Splendid Experience.
2. Hirozen

- According to google translate the signage translates to to high-end Japanese restaurant specialising in in traditional Japanese cuisine ( Kōkyū Washokudokoro). There was nothing high-end about this restaurant in my opinion. The main selling point is the experience of eating in a traditional Japanese setting.
- Again, my meal was lacking in flavour. Even though the noodles were drowning in sauce, they tasted bland. The tempura vegetables also lacked flavour, and I had to dip them in soy sauce just to get the taste right.

3. Kaitan Sushi – Ginza


- After an early start site seeing, Kaitan Sushi was a perfect place for a late lunch break.
- They had the standard vegetarian sushi – avo & cucumber maki and the vegetarian fashion sandwich. They did have something called the tamago nigiri sushi, now that was delicious, one of the best sushi’s I’ve had. I also had a Beancurd nigiri roll. Again, I had to make sure they dont use and fish stock to season the tofu.
- The ginger ale was refreshingly tasty.
4. Vegan Izikaya Masaka

- The excitement in my life when I discovered a Vegan Izikaya at a basement of Parco in Shibuya on our last day in Tokyo.
- I decided to sample a few dishes. I tried – Broccoli tempura, Gyoza, Masaka Fried Maitake and The mushroom liver sashimi
- The brocolli tempura and the Masaka fried maitake were by far my favourite dishes. Both had rich flavours and tasted really good.
- The gyoza tasted ok and the worst dish was the mushroom liver sashimi, its tasted awful.
Where we Stayed
Our holiday started in Tokyo and ended in Tokyo. We stayed at the Shangri-La and the Four Seasons – Otemachi.
1. Shangri-La

Image cred @Michelin Guide 
The Shangri La is conveniently located right next to Tokyo Station in Chiyoda, making the location ideal as we would be taking a train to Osaka. The hotel blends traditional Asian hospitality with ultra-modern design, surrounded by skyscrapers and offering views of Tokyo Imperial Palace and the Tokyo Skytree.
The chandeliers are simply magnificent.
Spacious rooms with floor-to-ceiling windows offering majestic views of the city.
Key Hotel Highlights
- Located right beside Tokyo Station
- They offer a complimentary meet-and-greet platform escort service.
- Signature Dining
- There’s an Italian restaurant called Piacere and a Japanese restaurant called Nadaman – the food and service at the Japanese restaurant were not the best.
- SPA and Fitness Centre
2. Four Seasons – Otemachi

Image Cred @The Luxury Traveller The Four Seasons is location adjacent to the Imperial Palace, in the Otemachi district. Its a modern hotel with understated elegance that focuses on minimalist design incorporating traditional elements of nature with sweeping skyline views.
Comfortable spacious rooms, spa-style bathrooms and premium amenities.
Key Hotel Highlights
- The hotel has four restaurants
- EST
- Is a Michelin-starred French restaurant.
- Pigneto
- Is an Italian restaurant. I had one of the best Pizza’s here.
- The Lounge
- Is where the hotel’s afternoon tea is served. I had the tea, cake and read my book at the Lounge. This was my #MomentInBetween
- Virtù
- A cocktail bar with French-Japanese fusion cocktails, luscious wine and bar snacks.
- EST
- SPA and Fitness Centre
The overall verdict
Tokyo is a beautiful and sometimes overwhelming contrast of high-speed energy and deep cultural tranquillity – one moment, you’re caught in the organised chaos of Shibuya Crossing and the next, you’re walking along the quiet, forested paths of Meiji Jingu Shrine.
Still, that contrast is part of what makes Tokyo so fascinating. It’s a city that never stops moving, yet somehow always remembers where it came from.
Tokyo markets its experiences incredibly well and sets high expectations. At times, though, I found that the reality didn’t quite live up to the hype and there were moments that left us underwhelmed.
It was still a splendid experience and a city I see myself visiting in transit thou and not as a main location.
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Unforgettable Stories, Unexpected Twists and a Few New Favourites – July Reads!

1. The Correspondent – Virginia Evans
- Cathartic
- 5 Stars
A lot has been written and said about The Correspondent, and yes, it’s worth all the hype – I couldn’t put it down.
The story centers around Sybil Van Antwerp, she’s in her 70s, divorced, and living alone. The story unfolds beautifully through letters she writes to her family, friends, and even strangers. These letters are filled with humor, regret, guilt, love, and forgiveness, but they also contain moments that leave you with a lingering sense of melancholy.
Virginia Evans has written a modern classic. Reading the letters filled me with nostalgia, taking me back to my boarding school days when we used to write letters ourselves. I also loved the way books are shared between Sybil and some of the other characters. Needless to say, my TBR list continues to grow.
I’m already looking forward to the movie adaptation, with Jane Fonda cast as Sybil. They couldn’t have chosen a better person for the role.
2. Into The Blue – Emma Brodie
- Tumultuous
- 4.5 Stars
A beautiful, messy, emotional love story.
“Your scene partner is your life.”
That quote perfectly sums up the relationship between AJ and Noah, who meet by chance while working at a video rental store in Massachusetts.
AJ Graves is ambitious and determined. She dreams of becoming a writer for Saturday Night Live (SNL). Noah Drew comes from a famous acting family. He’s charming, talented, and complicated. They are initially drawn to each other by their shared love of sci-fi shows and theatre. What begins as an unlikely friendship grows into a tumultuous relationship that spans decades.
“Time is of the essence, so you should never waste it!”
Emma Brodie truly made the most of this story. I felt every emotion, every moment of tension, and every ounce of yearning between AJ and Noah. She also masterfully explores their complex family relationships, adding even more depth to their journey.
The writing is beautiful, and the story is deeply heartfelt. This is one of those books I simply couldn’t put down.
Even after I turned the final page, AJ and Noah stayed with me long after I had finished the book.
3. The Midnight Library – Matt Haig
- Illuminating
- 4 Stars
In The Midnight Library, we meet Nora Seed, who is going through an incredibly difficult time. Besides being deeply unhappy, she’s estranged from her family, and just when she thinks things can’t get any worse, she loses her job. Feeling that she has nothing left to live for, Nora decides to end her life.
But life has other plans. She doesn’t die. Instead, she finds herself in the Midnight Library, where she meets Mrs. Elm, her former school librarian. Mrs. Elm explains why Nora is there and reveals that each book in the library represents an alternate life she could have lived based on the choices she might have made.
“Every life contains many millions of decisions. Some big, some small. But every time one decision is taken over another, the outcomes differ. An irreversible variation occurs, which in turn leads to further variations.”
The Midnight Library is filled with thought-provoking moments and valuable lessons about life, choices, regret, and learning to truly live. Another great read.
4. The Missed Connections – Tia Williams
- Melodramatic
- 3.5 Stars
This is my third Tia Williams book. I’ve read A Love Song for Ricki Wilde and Seven Days in June. After reading The Missed Connection, Seven Days in June is still my favourite.
I started reading The Missed Connection on a plane. There wasn’t a hot Italian man sitting next to me, but the book kept me great company throughout the flight.
In The Missed Connection, we meet Sasha Cruz, a casting director who is flying to Paris for a work assignment. On the flight, she meets a handsome Italian man in Seat F. They share an undeniable connection, and Sasha can’t help but wonder if she’s just met the love of her life.
When the plane lands, they don’t exchange numbers. Instead, Sasha is left trying to track down the mysterious Seat F – her missed connection.
To help with the search, Sasha hires her former private investigator, Wesley Dane – the two share a complicated past. As they work together to find Seat F, long-buried feelings and new feelings begin to resurface.
I was Team Wes from the moment he appeared. I found the Italian man a little too smooth for my liking. (That guy was a walking red flag)
The Missed Connection was thoroughly entertaining – a delightful read if you’re looking for a light, feel-good rom-com with a bit of drama. This would make for a good rom com movie.
5. It’s Complicated – Nivashni Nair Sukdhev
- Lighthearted
- 3.5 Stars
It’s Complicated is the second book in the Rally Series and you can read it as a stand alone. The fact that I read Pillow Talk it made it such a delight when characters from Pillow Talk became part of the story.
Kaavi Archary, a former international model settles for a simple life in Rally – she’s made friends and has acclimatised to an easy life. The only problem is that Kaavi’s ‘simple life’ is far from simple, it’s actually ‘complicated’ – she is estranged from husband Neel who has now tracked her down to finally end things. The only other problem is that he still feels they have unresolved issues. The other complication in Kaavi’s life is her relationship with her parents which she can no longer run away from.
It’s Complicated is an easy, light, heartfelt and at times heartbreaking read. It delivers on the second-chance romance trope. I did find the cat and mouse game that Kaavi and Neel were playing about the divorce towards the end of the book a little frustrating. Even in fiction books, it grates my carrot when people who love each other, never say how they feel. Nivashni writes beautifully and I loved getting to imagine Rally again.
- Cathartic
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June Reading Wrap-Up

1. The Names – Florence Knapp
- Heartwrenching
- 4 Stars
Do our names affect the person we become and shape who we are? A question to ponder and the overarching concept of The Names.
The book is profoundly thought-provoking, beautifully written, and deeply engaging. I found myself pausing several times to process some of its most intense moments.
The story follows Cora – a wife and mother who’s facing a conundrum on a name she should give her newborn son. Cora has three names; her daughters favourite, her favourite and her husband’s favorite. Three names, three versions of a life told over a 7 years interval, all with poignant moments.
‘Because some people – like Gordon’s father – travel through life believing themselves so far beyond improvement, they come to think their children, and their children’s children, should all be made in their name. Because sometimes their need to please previous generations is greater than their need to love future ones.‘
Cora’s life is not all rosy, she’s in an abusive marriage and Florence Knapp takes us on a whirlwind journey where we see how each chosen name shapes the future of their son and the impact it has on his close relationships. Cora and her children bring a fascinating dynamic to each version of the story. My heart ached for them.
The Names is without doubt worth the hype and on my list of favourite reads for the year.
2. Go Gentle – Maria Semple
- Disjointed
- 3.5 stars
The book felt a bit disjointed for me but surprisingly I couldn’t put it down.
There are three plots in the story – the first plot, Adora, who’s a philosopher working for a wealthy family in New York and has a fragile relationship with her daughter. Adora trying to create a “coven” of older women living on the same floor of an apartment building and supporting each other as they grow older together, the second plot, delves into Adora past and what she endured while trying to make a life in LA and the NDA that silenced her and the third plot the book becomes a thriller with arms deal and international terrorists.
This book is wild in so many ways. It being on Oprah’s Book Club List pick for April, it got a lot of press but the book is not for everyone.
I still haven’t decided what I think of the author. I read a few review that her book, Where Did You Go Bernadette, was adapted into a movie, which I haven’t seen. The book is on my TBR list. Ill make a decision on whether or not to keep the author on my list.
3. Pillow Talk – Nivashni Nair Sukdhev
- Light-hearted
- 3.5 Stars
I needed to read a light-hearted rom-com after reading The Names which sent me on a tailspin.
Pillow Talk is exactly what you expect in a rom-com where childhood friends who’ve always liked each other but never spoke of it, decide to embark on a no-string attached relationship.
The story follows Shona, a bridal designer who has been working for family’s tailor business decided to break away and do her own thing. Then there’s Sen, Shona’s childhood friend who’s a lawyer and her friend with benefits.
Their relationship is tender. Their no strings attached situationship gets complicated when unresolved issues from the past come to light. We witness them navigating life, Shona dealing with her broken relationship with her family and feeling some kind of way for Sen.
‘Shona felt her heart sink but quickly remembered that they couldn’t have moments like this. They were in a no-strings relationship. They shouldn’t be flirting with each other in what was perhaps the most romantic setting she had ever been to.’
Sen is trying to be more of an available friend to Shona, who is completely closed off leaving Sen frustrated at times.
Their no string attached relationship is tested but they eventually find their way around the life challenged they face.
I thoroughly enjoyed and cant wait to read, Its Complicated a follow up to Pillow Talk.
4. Good Things Keep Happening to Me – Puseletso Tsotetsi
- Fluffy
- 3 Stars
I really enjoyed reading this book. I especially loved the South Africanisms throughout—it made the story feel authentic and totally relatable.
Didi, a single mother with a messy past with complicated entanglements, meets Thato, a doctor, carrying his own emotional baggage, which he keeps locked in his heart. They fall for each other – hard. But as their relationship deepens, things slowly begin to unravel.
‘People tend to keep information away from their new partners intentionally, whether to protect themselves or because they’re afraid of being judged for the poor choices they made when they were younger.’
There are plenty of make-or-break moments throughout their relationship. At times, I found Didi’s reasoning and decision-making a little immature and frustrating. Thato, on the other hand, approached situations with a much calmer, more level-headed perspective.
There’s a saying, ‘With age comes wisdom,’ and you really see that play out in this book. Didi is 28, while Thato is 42, and the difference in their life experience is reflected in how they handle challenges.
This is the perfect book to pick up when you’re looking for an easy, light read with relatable characters and a distinctly South African feel.
5. Strangers – Belle Burden
- Compelling
- 3 Stars
I was really looking forward to reading this book after all the hype, but sadly, it fell flat for me.
Belle’s story is compelling, and what her husband puts her through is horrendous. I can see why the book did well – the story will be relatable for many women. One moment you’re happily married, living your best life, and then, seemingly overnight, everything changes.
One thing the book highlights is the difference between how some men and some women approach relationships. Many women give so much of themselves when they fall in love and get married. Belle signs a prenup, stops working, and hands over control of the finances – choices that many women make out of trust and commitment. Meanwhile, James ultimately puts his own needs first, abandoning both Belle and their marriage. Leaving her with so many unanswered questions.
Overall, it was an okay read. A compelling read and flowed well. It kept me turning the pages, but it never really wowed me. It’s not a book I would recommend outright.
- Heartwrenching
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Experience ‘La Dolce Vita’ at Babylonstoren: An Italian Feast


We’ve all heard the Italian phrase ‘La Dolce Vita,’ which translates to ‘the Sweet Life.’ The phrase represents a philosophy of savouring everyday pleasures, embracing a lifestyle of leisure, and enjoying the finer things in life.
What a treat it was discovering the Italian-inspired feast of La Dolce Vita at the Old Bakery at Babylonstoren.

The four-course set menu starts with a selection of antipasti and salad offering, followed by homemade pasta then moreish wood-fired pizza. The meal is then rounded off with a delicious dolce.

The food was unbelievably tasty. Each course was beautifully prepared and full of authentic Italian flavour.
The atmosphere was electric and lively.
The staff were professional and friendly making me feel right at home.
It was a truly splendid dining experience that captures the essence of La Dolce Vita.
The Italian evenings are held on Monday, Tuesdays, and Fridays. Dinner is served from 6pm and Booking is essential.
Email enquiries@babylonstoren.com
Book online at www.babylonstoren.com/bakery
Phone +27 (0)21 863 3852.
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Beyond My TBR: The Books That Defined My May

I started May with a list of books from my TBR that I wanted to read, but that all changed after attending the Franschhoek Literary Festival and the Kingsmead Book Fair, where I was introduced to some incredible authors whose books have just been included on TBR list.
1. The Dogs of Vivo – Sven Axelrad
- Mystical
- 4 stars
Goodness, this book had me reading past my 10pm bedtime and I read it in two days on a week night with month end deadlines. That should tell you just how much I enjoyed reading it. The story is hearty, witty, nostalgic and mystical.
The story takes place in a fictional town called Vivo where three friends, all artists, dream of becoming famous. Artuto (Art) is an inspiring writer, Maggie wants to become a singer and Felix an artist. They spend nights at the local bar talking about their aspirations and other things that people in their twenties get up to.
‘Success requires sacrifice’
‘People who “make it” always say that these years, where we are now, are the good years’
Against the backdrop of Vivo’s enchanting streets, hope resonates through every corner as its characters balance the uncertainties of adulthood with the enduring spirit of youth. Then one day, a mysterious stranger arrives in town who changes the town’s dynamic. Maggie, Art and Felix find themselves making decisions that ultimately impact their friendship.
The supporting characters (dogs included) all play a pivotal role in how the story unfolds with some characters leaving a special place in my heart.
This is a story about friendship, love, choices and death. It examines the level one will take to achieve their dreams.
Svens style of writing and story telling is quirky and delightful. The Dogs of Vivo is without a doubt on my Top 12 list of books for 2026.
2. Start with yourself – Emma Grede
- Informative
- 4 stars
I had given this book 3.5 stars then upgraded it to 4 stars because I absolutely admire Emma and what she has been able to accomplish.
In her words, Start With Yourself ‘is a no-BS guide for anyone who wants to create meaningful success on their own terms.’ It provides a practical framework for unlocking success and achieving success by reframing thoughts, challenging the status quo and taking control of your life, both personal and professional.
The chapters that stood out to me were Chapter 2: Money and Chapter 5: Building a Brand & Business. In the money chapter, she writes about being comfortable and able to talk about money. It also encourages readers to be brave to say what you want and go after it – unashamedly.
‘As women, we have to put money at the centre of our plans.’
‘You can do deeply meaningful and impactful work and care about money. You can talk a lot about money and other things two.‘
“The purpose of creating a business is to make money. When you make money, you can pay people well, give good bonuses, you can do community work, you can give back to NPOs.”
As an entrepreneur, I’ve always found conversations about money challenging. I often hesitate to charge my rate because I get worried that clients will think I’m expensive. I always add a ‘Negotiable’ disclaimer.
In the Building A Brand & Business chapter, I loved reading about the behind the scenes details she shares about building her empire and becoming the woman that she is today.
What struck a cord is when she writes about how Passion alone is no longer enough and goes deeper in what other traits are needed to succeed – Endurance, Resilience, Consistency, Focus and the Desire to listen and learn.
‘Passion is something, but it won’t take you that far. You can’t manifest your way to a great business. You need to have a business case. You need a customer. And a massive amount of grit.‘
I liked that she talks about failure and quotes Henry Ford, ‘Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.’
Failing is part of the process and failure should be used as a teachable moment.
‘Use failure as an opportunity to grow and get bigger, better, stronger and smarter.’
While seasoned entrepreneurs and business leaders may find this book to be a reaffirmation of lessons already learned, it’s still a great read. For aspiring entrepreneurs, however, it’s an invaluable roadmap filled with honest lessons and practical wisdom. Emma anecdotes are bold, candid, and unapologetically authentic.
3. Because I love you – Joy Watson
- Heartfelt
- 3.5 Stars
Although this book wasn’t originally on my list of must-reads, hearing Joy Watson speak at a panel discussion during the Kingsmead Book Fair changed that.
In Because I Love You, Joy tells the story of three strong, independent women – Zara, Mira, and Thuli – who find themselves in relationships that initially seem ideal. Their partners are charming, attentive, and appear to say and do all the right things. However, as time passes, cracks begin to appear and subtle red flags emerge. Despite the warning signs, the women remain committed to making their relationships work, even when doing so comes at the expense of their emotional well-being.
Through the experiences of these three women, Joy shines a light on what happens when ‘love begins to harm more than it nourishes and sustains.’ The novel encourages readers to recognise the patterns and behaviours that can cause women to lose themselves in relationships, while highlighting the importance of acknowledging red flags before they become impossible to ignore.
Her honest reflections on writing the book and the personal journey that followed the end of her marriage made me eager to read it. What I appreciated most about the book was thou the stories are real and lightly fictionalised to protect the identity of these women, Joy portrays the gradual nature of emotional harm, showing how easy it can be to overlook red flags when love and hope are involved.
‘Perhaps this was hope refusing to die. Perhaps it was the end, plain and final. Or perhaps it was only the beginning of the end – that long unravelling where you can’t yet see the finish but already know its coming.’
4. We inherit the fire – Kagiso Lesego Molope
- Compelling
- 3 Stars
I really really really wanted to love this book but it was a struggle to get into it. I found it hard to establish which character were narrating, but once I found the rhythm of the storytelling, it was a compelling read.
We Inherit the Fire is set during the final years of apartheid and is told through the perspectives of Kelelo, a young girl trying to find her place in a changing South Africa, and her mother, Kewame, a former freedom fighter. At the heart of the novel is the complex and often challenging relationship between mother and daughter.
Beautifully interwoven throughout the story are the relationships Kelelo and Kewame have with their extended family, with four generations of women playing roles in the narrative. The novel also explores the strained relationship between Kewame and her husband, adding further depth to the family’s dynamics.
We seldom encounter stories that focus on those who fought against apartheid from within the country, the trauma they endured at the hands of the regime, and the lasting impact that trauma has on their lives and relationships. We Inherit the Fire ultimately tells that story with nuance and compassion.
What stayed with me after I finished the book was its exploration of intergenerational trauma and the way political struggles continue to shape family relationships decades later.
May books took me on very different journey – from fiction that explored the complexities of family, love, and belonging to nonfiction that challenged me to rethink my own approach to work and self-worth, each book left a lasting impression in its own way.
TS!
- Mystical
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Three days of literature, dialogue and discovery – Franschhoek Literacy Festival (FLF)
“We come together not simply to celebrate books, but to celebrate what makes them possible; conversation, challenge, curiosity, and the courage to see the world differently.”

This past weekend, I attended the Franschhoek Literacy Festival (FLF). Leading to the festival, I knew I wanted to make the most of my weekend at FLF and Franschhoek. Once I booked the sessions I wanted to attend, I carefully curated my itinerary – what a treat it was being in Franschoek.
As a first-timer at the festival, I wanted a good balance between the sessions and soaking up the atmosphere of Franschhoek. As a coffeeholic, I found some gems to hang out at between my sessions – #TheMomentsInBetween.

The Sessions My itinerary for the 3 Days:-
Day 1:
Morning Session: Breaking the Form: Experimental Fiction with Rémy Ngamije and Dawn Garissch, facilitated by Letlhogonolo Mokgoroane.- MomentsInBetween: Coffee and Croissant at Smitten@ The Yard
Afternoon Session: Hot Type: Romance Writing Workshop with Sarah Bullen.
Dinner: The Bakery – BabylonstorenDay 2:
Morning Coffee: Get Lost Coffee
Morning Session: Pitch Perfect Workshop with Anjali Singh.- MomentInBetween: Lunch at La Cotte Restaurant
Afternoon Session: Booktok 101 – TikTok Workshop with Afsana Khan.
Day 3:
Morning Coffee: @ Motherdough Morning Session: Becoming Nozipho Tshabala
#TheMomentsInBetween My Take away from FLF
The sessions were informative and educational with some nuggets and important information to ponder.
The sessions I attended, the authors and facilitators were engaging and well versed. There were some deep, enlightening conversations that left one with some Food for Thought.
My overall experience
The trip from Johannesburg to Franschhoek was worth it and FLF is now on my list of events to attend. It’s a good excuse for a Sho’t Left to Franschhoek.I left the festival feeling inspired, stimulated and motivated to continue to pursue this writing journey I have embarked on. In good time, it will all come to light.
@thulisibeko_books
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Between the Pages – April Reading.

1. This Book Made Me Think Of You – Libby Page
- Moving
- 4.5 Stars
‘The real magic of books is when turning the final page doesn’t mean an ending but a beginning – a beginning that only you can write’
I honestly didn’t want this book to end, I enjoyed reading it so much. I was hooked from the moment I started reading.
‘The right book in the hands of the right person at exactly the right moment can change their life forever.’
The story is about Tilly Nightgale’s journey, as she learns to live again after the devastating loss of her husband, Joe. Before he dies, Joe leaves her a deeply personal gift at a local bookstore, Book Lane, owned by Alfie. The gift is twelve carefully-curated books, one for each month, each intended to guide her through the long, aching first year of grief without him. Each book comes with a personal note from Joe explaining why he chose that particular story for her, as if he’s still speaking to her from beyond the page. It completely melted my heart – Libby Page writes with such warmth and insight that it feels almost like a gift in itself.
For the next twelve months, Tilly goes on an adventure. Even with Joe having passed on, you feel his love and adoration for Lilly through this heartfelt gesture.‘Bookshops aren’t just book shops. They are places for book lovers to come together, like minded souls meeting among the stacks’
Her monthly visits to the book store lead to a friendship with Alfie. As time passes, feelings develop between Tilly and Alfie.
‘I think, maybe we don’t get just one love of our lives. Maybe we all have room in our hearts for more than one story’
Libby Page did wonders with this book, the book is tender, emotional and pure. I particularly loved the way she tackles grief and the many ways people deal with it. I particular loved the fact that the book had so many book references, some I have read and some that I have added to my reading book list.
This Book Made Me Think Of You is without a shadow of a doubt on my Top 12 favourite book for 2026.
2. Kin – Tayari Jones
- Riveting
- 4 Stars
There’s a poignant quote by Dr. Maya Angelou that says ‘Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.’ The quote resonated with me as I was reading Kin and the relationship between Vernice and Annie.
Set in the 1950s/60s, in the Jim Crow south, Vernice (Niecy) and Annie story begins in Honeysuckle, Louisiana. Both motherless, Niecy mother was killed by her father who then took his life, she is raised by her aunt. Annie was abandoned at birth by her mother and never knew her father, she is raised by her grandmother. The two are raised as ‘cradle friends’ forming an unbreakable bond that has its own complexities.
As they get older, their paths diverge, Annie escapes Honeysuckle, following an unstable path searching for her mother and Niecy goes to Spelman College where her eyes and her world opens up. The friends maintain their relationship through letters where their different life circumstances and choices are laid bare.Tayari Jones does a great job of showing the complexities of being a woman in the American South. The story is centered on women – their choices, sacrifices, and connections. The story also explores race, class, culture, gender and sexuality.
Not an easy read but Kin is deeply moving, riveting and the story is told beautifully. It raises profound questions about the true meaning of family; ‘Family is not always Blood’, true ‘family’ bonds are defined by love, loyalty, acceptance, and support.
3. Lost Lambs
- Outrageous
- 4 Stars
The Flynn family are so dysfunctionally entertaining. I loved each and every family member with their outrageous views and take on life.
A bit about the Flynn family; there’s Catherine and Bud, the parents with marital problems, who are struggling to connect, they decide to have an open marriage. Their three daughters are each dealing with their own personal challenges. The eldest seventeen year old daughter, Abigail is dating an older man nicknamed War Crime Wes; the middle child, Louise has an online friend who influences her into terrorism acts; and then there’s the youngest daughter Harper, smart but a law unto herself. She believes the town is under surveillance and she uncovers her dad’s boss’s shady business dealings.
The story is as chaotic as the characters – there is some conspiracy and criminality involved and the people in the story are navigating life, some with their own weird and outrageous views on life.
The ending was stellar, a reminder that even in the midst of what seems like dysfunction, disarray and turmoil, there is love and unity.Madeline Cash’s writing is uniquely funny, witty, well-paced and well-written. It had me hooked from the start.
4. Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow – Gabrielle Zevin
- Nostalgic
- 4 Stars
This book was recommended to me by a good friend, there were raving reviews about it and she thought I would enjoy it. She was not wrong. I loved it. Having grown up in the eighties, playing video games, I relished the journey this book took me on – the gaming / arcade era. I was obsessed with playing Double Dragon, Pac Man, Galaxia, Tekken…the list is endless.
The book opens with an encounter at a train station between childhood friends Sam Masur – now studying maths at Harvard – and Sadie Green, who’s at MIT studying video game design. They reunite and before long, they’re are working on creating a video game together.
‘It’s more than romantic. it’s better than romance. It’s friendship.’
At the centre of this book is a rare friendship between Sam and Sadie. The story takes us back to their first meeting in hospital, where Sam had become reclusive, dealing with the aftermath of badly injured foot and quietly carrying the weight of loss. Their love for gaming forms the foundation of their friendship. It becomes the thing that binds them, giving them a shared language when words fail. It’s the kind of friendship that feels unbreakable – until it isn’t, until a misunderstanding build up to the point where one of them shuts the other out completely. In todays terms, the one friend blocked the other.
Post their reunion, they begin working on the creating the game, this journey brings them together as well as tears them apart. Sam’s roommate, Marx, joins them as a business partner. The trio experience moments of great success, painful failure, upheaval, heartbreak and loss. I found myself attached to this trio, their journey pulled me in because it shows how complex relationship can get and it also shows how success can bring people closer, but also quietly drive them apart.
Gabrielle has done a stellar job, in my opinion, of gently weaving together Sam’s struggle with his disability and Sadie’s experience of sexism in the video game industry and in life more broadly in the story. What stayed with me most is how the book offers such a thoughtful glimpse into how friendships evolve over time in ways that feel both subtle and painfully real.
A nostalgic read and all characters were intriguing and some memorable.
5. In Her Defence – Phillipa Malicka
- Anticlimatic
- 3 Stars
I had high expectations for this book, given its many recommendations from Reese Witherspoon’s book club, but I was ultimately underwhelmed – for one thing, it did not feel like a thriller to me. There were moments that left me gasping, but not in a way typical of a thriller – there was little suspense and no major plot twists. Instead, it relied more on coincidences, unpredictable questionable characters, and occasional high-stakes moments.
The book opens at the start of a trial where a beloved TV star and national treasure Anna Finbow has taken her daughter Mary’s therapist, Jean Guest to court. Anna is accusing Jean of brainwashing her daughter for her own financial gain.
The story is told by Gus (Augusta,) a former employee of Anna, who also has a vested interest in the outcome of the case. As the story unfolds the timeline alternates between the trial and Rome, where Gus, Mary and Jean have a connection and the details of their connection comes to light.
The premise of the book seemed interesting and sadly it did not deliver. It was still a good read but not one I would rant and rave about.
TS!
- Moving
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Wrapped in Stories: February & March Reads
‘Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.’



4 Stars
1. The Eights – Joanna Miller
- Delightful
A delightful read that follows an unlikely friendship between four women who attend Oxford University in 1920, the first year that women were formally allowed to receive degrees.
Known as ‘the Eight’ because they occupy four rooms along Corridor Eight at St Hugh’s College, Oxford; Beatrice Sparks, Theodora Greenwood, Marianne Grey and Ottoline Wallace-Kerr hail from different walks of life each shaped by trauma, pressure, and hardship. They carry secrets they find hard to open up about and yet they are united by a shared determination to earn their degrees.
Over the course of their first year, the four women navigate life at Oxford helping each other in different ways challenging the status quo and fighting for their rights in man’s world where they are not wanted.‘Ubi cordia, ibi victoria, Where there is unity, there is victory.’
Joan Miller has done a stellar job at bringing in historical details throught the book, I particularly liked how at the beginning of the chapters, she had real newspaper snippets or a set of university rules and regulations which highlighted the different ways male and female students were treated.
A book like The Eight is a stark reminder that women have had to fight relentlessly just to be treated as equals and that fight is far from over. While meaningful progress has been made and many women today have secured a ‘seat at the table,’ equality remains far from complete. The story resonates not just as a reflection of the past, but as a mirror of the ongoing struggles women navigate in the present day.I loved this book and I enjoyed reading it.
2. The Nightingale – Kristin Hannah
- Heartwrenching
I was shattered after reading The Nightingale. A poignantly beautiful novel that tells the story of what it was like to be a woman during World War II, when women’s stories were all too often forgotten or overlooked.
‘Men tell stories. Women get on with it. For us it was a shadow war. There were no parades for us when it was over, no medals or mentions in history books. We did what we had to during the war, and when it was over, we picked up the pieces and started our lives over.’
The story is told from a perspective of two sisters, Isabelle, an impetuous teenager who’s searching for purpose. And Vivian, a wife, mother and teacher who lives a life guided by rules. Both are shaped by the same absence: a mother gone too soon, and a father who left them behind at boarding school, turning childhood into something colder, more contained.
The sisters have a complex delicate relationship and when the war starts they each embark on their own dangerous paths towards survival. Isabella joins the French Resistance, risking her life to help downed airmen escape Nazi territory. Vivian risks her life helping orphaned jewish children. She endures her own tragedy at the hands of the German officers who stay at with her.‘In love we find out who we want to be. In war we find out who we are.’
There are love stories woven into the book, but I like that they don’t overshadow the story of these brave women that Kristin Hannah is telling.An unforgettable and heartwrenching story that celebrates the incredible strength, the unspoken acts of bravery and resilience of women. This is a modern classic masterpiece, the characters and the story stayed in my heart. I’m so looking forward to the movie adaptation.
3. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Gail Hofmeyer
- Magnificent
I loved seeing the world through Eleanor’s perspective. She’s the type of person I would enjoy spending time with. Her character makes you ponder human behaviour.
Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is an entertaining read but baked in pain. Eleanor is a thirty year old with no friends, she lives alone and has worked the same job for nine years. She is completely fine with her life.‘Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.’
Her life changes when she meets Raymond from IT, an easy going colleague with questionable hygiene. Its through this unlikely friendship that we get to see the painful life that Eleanor has lived and how her friendship with Raymond makes her a better understand human interactions.
‘Time only blunts the pain of loss. It doesn’t erase it.’
The book is magnificently funny, entertaining, heartwarming, heartbreaking and tragic. I loved the way Gail Honeyman wrote the story, Eleanor’s character is memorable and witty.
‘The past had been hiding from me – or I’d hidden from it – and yet there it was, still, lurking in darkness. It was time to let in a little light.’


3.5 Stars
4. Sounds like love – Ashley Poston
- Dreamy
I was so looking forward to reading this book after having read Ashley Poston, The Seven Year Slip. But if I’m honest, it didn’t land as brilliantly. I struggled with the premise of the main characters reading each other’s thoughts, I found it distracting but their story still made the book captivating.
‘Sometimes the dreams you come with aren’t the dreams you leave with, and sometimes you just don’t leave at all.’
The story opens at a music concert where we meet Joni Lark, a songwriter who is struggling with writers block and coming to terms with her mother’s illness. She meets Sebestian Fell, a former boy-band star hiding in the shadow of his famous father. The two but heads, Joni thinks Sebestian is full of himself. But when a kiss cam locks onto them, they play along…the kiss leaves them with questions. Joni then leaves the concert unannounced and heads back home to Vienna Shores with the hope of finding some inspiration.She reunites with her family and best friend, Gigi. She also has to face some very harsh realities – her mothers illness and the fact that her parents have taken a decision to close their music venue the Revelry that has been in the family for years. While figuring out her life, she starts to hear a melody and a man’s voice in her head.
The story was told beautifully, I loved how the romance played out and how these two character found each other through music. The cameo appearance of my favourite people from The Seven Year Slip, was nicely done. It took me back to how much I loved their story.Even with all the unfortunate life challenges in the book, the one thing that Ashley Poston does is tell a heartwarming story that leaves one feeling completely satisfied.
‘We just want to live everyday as full as we can, because the only thing that makes grief worse is regret. And I don’t want anyone to regret anything…’
5. Some Bright Nowhere – Ann Packer
- Heartbreaking
This book is heavy, heartbreaking and complex. Eliot and Claire have been married for nearly four decades, with two two adult children and two grandchildren. Eliot’s wife Claire was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago and has been undergoing chemo. Throughout Claire’s illness, Eliot has selflessly transitioned into the role of caregiver. Claire has reached the stage where she will be stopping treatment and preparing for the inevitable.
As Eliot plans to spend his last days with Claire, she makes a request that sets his world spinning. My heart broke for Eliot having to endure and support his wife’s unexpected dying wish. What was meant to be a time of processing the inevitable, their marriage is tested. There were moments when I disliked Claire’s character and then I had moments where I put myself in her shoes, one can never comprehend what goes on a person’s mind when death doors are knocking. It’s easy to judge from the outside.
Some Bright Nowhere explores the emotional reality of someone facing death and the quiet, complicated emotions of those who support someone through it.
I loved how Ann Packer told the story from Eliot’s perspective. She focuses on his relationship dynamics – his relationship with Claire, his children, Claire’s friends and his friends.
This book is a heavy but a riveting read.

3 Stars
6. Bosadi – Kopano Matlwa
- Heavy
A touching story that is told through Naledi’s and Aunty (Naledi’s Zimbabwean domestic worker) perspective.
‘Neither in life nor death is there justice for a woman.’
Bosadi tells the story of Naledi, whose life is confined in an abusive marriage and as to carry the family as the bread winner. Aunty whose privy to the fights carries her own pain – these two women form a complex protective relationship.
The book is set during Covid during a time when there was a rise in silent war – the ‘Shadow Pandemic’. (A surge in violence against women and girls, primarily intimate partner violence, that intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic.) Fast forward to November 2025, GBV (Gender Based Violence) is declared a national disaster.
The book was captivating, the story premise topical and important in the context of South Africa. The book itself was a quick, easy read, I read it in one sitting. Unfortunately the writing style did not work for me.
7. Coconut – Kopano Matlwa
- Intriguing
Having read her latest novel, Bosadi, I had mixed feelings about her writing style and wanted to read another book of hers before forming an opinion. I decided to get Coconut, her debut novel.
The premise of the book seemed interesting: a story of two Black girls who grow up in white suburbs and struggle with their identity. There’s Ofilwe, who grows up in a privileged world and is eager to fit in and be accepted in her white society, and Fikile, who comes from a township and is desperate to leave her past behind. Through these two stories, the reader gets a glimpse into the hardships of Black South Africans. The book touches on Blackness, racial identity, and self-worth in South Africa, although at times it feels like it only scratches the surface.
Kopano’s writing has depth and insight. That said, I had the same issue here as I did with Bosadi. Her storytelling style made it a bit hard for me to fully get into the book.
Having grown up in the Coconut era, there were moments of nostalgia with the book highlighting the challenges faced by people of colour who had to integrate within a society that made them feel less than and inferior.
Its an easy read.

2.5 Stars
8. Home Bodies – Tembe Denton-Hurst
- Dreary
I really wanted to give Home Bodies a higher rating, but I struggled to get into this book. The story follows Mickey, a Black woman working in media, she struggles to connect with her white boss. She’s seen as difficult to work with and is eventually replaced by another Black woman, which leaves her feeling pretty hard done by. While she’s dealing with all of that at work, her relationship at home is also being put to the test.
The first part of the book, set in New York, is engaging and full of promise. Watching Mickey navigate her life, career, and relationships really pulled me in. But once she moves back home to Maryland, things start to drag. The story loses momentum and becomes quite slow and I found myself losing interest and just wanting to get to the end.
I also felt like Tembe Denton-Hurst could have gone deeper into Mickey’s work struggles. That aspect felt especially relatable – so many people of colour working in white-dominated industries deal with these kinds of challenges every day and it would’ve been great to see that explored more fully.
Overall, the book has a really strong premise. It touches on race, identity, and workplace dynamics in a way that could have been incredibly powerful. Unfortunately, the execution didn’t quite live up to that potential, which was a bit disappointing.
TS!
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‘Life is better with a Little Italian’ – Pink Mama’s

Pink Mama’s is housed within a beautifully restored home, its painted a signature soft pink. The indoor dining area opens onto a terrace overlooking the Padel courts.
Pink Mama’s has that easy-going Italian charm where you instantly feel at home.

The menu leans into classic Italian comfort food and us vegetarians have options to choose from. The Truffle & Porcini Arancini was a win. I tried the pistachio pesto & ricotta pasta but that didn’t quite land for me. I had a more pleasurable dining experience by ordering a combination of vegetarian dishes from their antipasti.

Overall, Pink Mama’s is the kind of spot you settle into, be it for long, lazy Friday lunches or brunch with friends or family or dinner date night or dinner with friends, it just works.
Pink Mama’s is the type of place one keeps going back to.
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January Book Review

- Heart the Lover – Lily King
- 5 Stars
…‘Love is crushing. Love is something you let yourself feel at your own peril, despite your better sense’…
I read this book on a Saturday, and I couldn’t put it down, it was that good. A deeply moving story with an intricate throuple.
The story follows a young woman nicknamed Daisy, later known as Jordan – a name given to her by Sam and Yash, her classmates in a literature course. The novel follows Jordan’s life from her senior year of college to adulthood, where she is married with children.
During her college years, Jordan spends most of her time with Sam and Yash, sharing long discussions about literature and bonding over card games. Friendships evolve into romance, introducing emotional complexity and difficult choices. These decisions, deeply influenced by questions of faith and life’s complexities, shape the course of their futures.
As the story shifts to a married Jordan, the impact of those formative years becomes clear. The choices made in college echo forward, altering their lives in ways that cannot be undone. When long-buried secrets resurface amid a terminal illness, Jordan, Yash and Sam are forced to confront the lasting consequences of their past.
Heart the Lover ripped my heart in half and left me shattered. This was my first Lily King book, and I loved her writing style; this story is told from a narrator’s perspective. The characters were memorable and the story telling gripped me from the first chapter. I fully understand the hype around this book and why it became a favourite for so many readers in 2025.
2. Before We Were Strangers – Renee Carlino
- 5 Stars

‘We were victims of bad timing. But here we are again.’
As I read Matthias and Graceland’s story, my heart ached for them in the best possible way, and I found myself cheering for them. Their bond felt like a once‑in‑a‑million kind of love, destined to endure every challenge and hardship that was thrown their way.
Matt and Grace meet in college on their first day at Senior College and become ‘Fast Friends’ – they become inseparable. Matt is an aspiring photographer, while Grace is a music major. Their bond is magnetic; they inspire and nurture each other’s creative gifts, and over time their friendship deepens into love, both believing it will last forever.
But when they’re each offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Matt accepts his without any hesitation, while Grace has her reservations. As they navigate the next phase of their lives, things fall apart – everything begins to unravel, there’s communication breakdown – time passes and life goes on.
3. Twice – Mitch Albom
- 4 Stars

‘You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.’
Twice is packed with so many meaningful moments, I could not put it down.
The book begins with Alfie (Alfred) Logan in Nassau, being interrogated by a detective for allegedly cheating and winning millions at a casino roulette wheel. During the interrogation, he reads from a notebook and relays the intriguing story of his life – spanning his time in Africa and America. We also discover that Alfie has a unique ability to go back and do things a second time, altering the outcome for better or worse. His love story pulls you in; it’s earnest, compelling, and filled with valuable lessons along the way.
When I was reading this book, I had a few moments of reflection and wondered; if I had the ability to go back, what moments would I choose to do twice? For me, there are two pivotal moments, and both involve using the time I had with people who were once dear to the fullest.
This is the third Mitch Albom book I’ve read. The first was Tuesdays with Morrie, which I discovered while navigating life with a terminally ill sibling. That book became the therapy I needed. Twice was just as profound for me, and it served as a powerful reminder to cherish the time we have with the people we love- real life has no do-overs.
4. The First Time I Saw Him – Laura Dave
- 3.5 Stars

The First Time I Saw Him is the sequel to The Last Thing He Told Me, it was selected as one of Reese’s Book Club picks for January and the novel generated significant interest, following the release of the Apple TV series trailer which will air on the 20th February 2026.
The book is a continuation of the story from Last Thing He Told Me. Although I haven’t read the original, I watched the TV series and found it gripping. Naturally, I was intrigued by The First Time I Saw Him and wanted to read it before the start of the TV series.
The story starts five years after Owen’s disappearance and focuses on Hannah and her stepdaughter Bailey, now living in Southern California. When Owen is spotted, Hannah quickly understands that their safety is at risk, and life begins to unravel for them. Hannah mission is to keep Bailey safe. The story delves into the past, I enjoyed getting to know all the other characters and the intricacies of their connections. The one theme that stood out for me in this book, is family and the lengths people go to protect their loved ones.
The book is fast paced and easy to get into. I’m still on the fence on whether reading the book before the TV series will have an impact. I guess I’ll have the answer once I’ve watched the TV series.
5. An Almost Perfect Summer – Jill Mansel
- 3.5 Stars

I’m a sucker for books set in small towns, I enjoy the escape and picturing the setting and getting lost in it. This book was fun to read from that perspective but felt the multiple characters that get introduced make it hard to stay engaged.
The story opens with Nella and Nick bickering over the last bunch of roses at a farm shop. Nick is a charming and attractive man who manages luxury holiday homes in a Cotswolds village, while Nella is a highly organized local whose life is abruptly disrupted when she loses her job due to circumstances beyond her control. From there, the novel unfolds through a series of events that gradually draw the two characters together.
Following her redundancy, Nick offers Nella a position at the retreat. Although there is an undeniable spark between them, Nella is determined to resist her growing feelings. As she begins working at the retreat, the reader is introduced to a range of intriguing characters, each with their own storyline. These narratives are thoughtfully interwoven, adding depth and variety to Nick and Nella’s developing relationship.
My only criticism is that I would have liked to see more development in Nick and Nella’s romance. That said, the novel remains thoroughly enjoyable, light-hearted, and entertaining.
6. The Beginning of Everything – Jackie Frase
- 3 Stars

Even though I found the premise of the story in the beginning slightly unrealistic, I enjoyed the unfolding story of Jess and Gethin’s relationship. Jess has escaped a bad relationship and is homeless. She finds shelter and becomes a squatter. Gethin, the owner of the house, a kindhearted man, finds Jess in his home and lets her stay. Jess and Gethin get to know each other, and they become friends who develop feelings for each other.
I was proud of Jess for her bravery for leaving her abusive relationship. Gethin’s patience and kindness towards Jess was commendable.
This is a character-driven story, easy to read and get into. The pacing was good. If the premise wasn’t so unrealistic, I would have given the book 4 stars.
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Exploring Joburg’s Culinary Delights at Mila Restaurant
Food tells a story that imprints memories.

One thing about Joburgers — myself included — is that we truly appreciate the good life, and this was clear the day we headed out for a late lunch at Mila Restaurant at LXX in Sandton. From the moment we arrived, we stepped into an unhurried yet vibrant atmosphere, with patrons enjoying business lunches and others catching up with friends. My friend and I had recently revived our Ladies Who Lunch catch-up, and this outing felt like the perfect way to settle back into it.
The restaurant’s aesthetic exudes understated luxury—warm, elegant, refined, and welcoming.

Image Cred @Mila Restaurant 
Image Cred @Mila Restaurant As a non‑drinking vegetarian foodie, I’ve learnt to manage my expectations when it comes to mocktails. All too often, they’re served in plain glass tumblers that feel more like an afterthought than a crafted drink. So when my mocktail arrived beautifully presented and photo ready, I was pleasantly surprised. In that moment, I knew we were off to a very good start.


The food…shew…where does one even begin? It was that good. I ordered a selection of vegetarian dishes, and honestly, I savoured every single one. The Zucchini Keftedes was without a doubt my favourite meal.
The dessert was just as delicious and beautifully presented.

Left Image – Dakos Burrata; Top Image – Halloumi Ricotta Ravioli; Right Image – Zucchini Keftedes 
Dessert
Top Image – Hazelnut Tart; Bottom Image – Kafethaki Vanilla BruleOut of 10, I would rate our overall experience 9.
- Food gets a 9.
- Restaurant aesthetics and ambience gets a 9.
- Price gets a 7, the food is on the pricey side but on all fairness, eating out has become a tad pricey.
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2025 Reading!
“Something magical can happen when we read a good book.”
Books have a unique power to take us to places we may never physically go – they offer an escape. The stories allow our imagination to travel freely, introducing us to new ideas, perspectives and igniting our imagination.
Two years ago, I started being intentional with limiting my screen time. I then set a target to read at least 1 book a month. Fast forward to 2025 and I have managed to read 60 books. Fiction being the books I read most.
2025 books I read! What makes a book great in my view is when the story and the characters stay embedded in my heart and mind long after I have read the book. I will share brief review of the books that gave me that feeling. These books I couldn’t put down. In some instances, I found myself reading through the night.
I have picked 12 books for the number of months, this was a real daunting task but I managed.
The book review will focus on 3 things;
o Is the story enjoyable?
o Are the characters memorable?
o Is it a book that I can re-read?
Each book will be graded out of 5.
2025 Top 12 Reads! - The Wish – Nicholas Spark
• 5 stars- The story opens in 2019, where we meet Maggie, a renowned New York–based photographer who owns a gallery. Her life takes an unexpected turn when she meets Mark, who soon begins working at the gallery. As Maggie and Mark grow closer, Maggie reflects on her past, taking us on an emotional journey of her past. The story shifts to 1996, when a young Maggie is sent away to live with her aunt. There, she meets Bryce, a warm-hearted boy wise beyond his years. A deep friendship forms between them, and it’s Bryce who introduces Maggie to photography. He becomes a vital source of support during a formative time in her life.
- The Wish is a complex story that addresses important societal issues and life challenges.
- Maggie as a character stayed with me for days, weeks and months after reading. I loved the setting and the story. This book, I couldn’t put down.
- Cant Get Enough – Kennedy Ryan
• 5 stars- After reading This Could Be Us and Before I Let Go, this book was one of my most anticipated reads for the year and it didn’t disappoint.
- Hendrix is a successful businesswoman and has phenomenal friends. She’s facing a few life challenges, her toughest being caring for her aging mother. She meets Maverick Bell, a tech billionaire whose chasing the next big thing in his life. Sparks fly. There’s instant attraction but Maverick is in an entanglement, which complicates their instant connection.
- As destiny would have it, his relationship comes to an amicable ending. This gives Maverick an opportunity to pursue Hendrix. The romance between them is shown beautifully – its smart, its uplifting, its loving wholeheartedly and supportive.
- What brings them together is a shared experience of having a family member who had or has Alzheimer’s.
- I love how Kennedy Ryan always builds awareness for a variety of topics in her books. I also enjoyed reading about black love shown in a positive light.
- Atmosphere – Taylor Jenkins Reid
• 5 stars- The story follows Joan Goodwood who gets selected for the NASA’s space shuttle programme in the 80ties. In the book, you get to relive Joan’s past and present while in the programme. You also meet the other canditates/ characters who are part of the programme and have an impact in her life in some shape or form.
- This is a voyage of discovery for Joan, not just in space but also her self-discovery. The story is fast-paced, gripping and heartbreaking.
- A beautiful tribute to the women who broke boundaries in the 80ties when women were only just being accepted into space programs.
- The story and the characters stayed with me for a long time after reading this book.
- We all want impossible things – Catherine Newman
• 5 stars- A book about two imperfect best friends since childhood, Ashley and Edith, who have been through everything together. As adults they are navigating a difficult time in their lives – Edith has terminal cancer.
- While the book is heavy and sad in places, it also celebrates friendship, relationships and love.
- We All Want Impossible Things reminded me of a quote that says ‘The only certainty in life is death.’ As much as the story is about the inevitable, the story is just as much about living. It is a story of full of life and laughter.
- Seven days in June – Tia Williams
• 4.5 stars- This story is not a simple love story; its romantic, it’s compelling and layered in past traumas and survival.
- It follows two writes, Eva, a single mom and Shane, a successful bad boy of the literary world. They have a romantic past. When they reconnect after fifteen years, they have chemistry; it’s steamy, its messy, its complicated as they have to confront their past.
- I loved this book. I’m a sucker for second-chance romance and Tia Williams delivered with the portrayal of the characters and their flaws in this book.
- Love Marry Kill – Zukiswa Wanner
• 4 stars- Two couples, one steamy love affair and a hitman. ‘Till death do us part’ means different things to people. This book is an emotionally layered love story with twist and turns. This book is a page-turner, which dives into the messiness of infidelity and the length people will go to keep what’s theirs.
- A great read.
- Fabrics of love – Lebo Mazibuko
• 4 stars- Fabrics of Love needs to made into a Limited Series – goodness this was such a pleasant read. Growing up in Soweto, the character, the setting was so relatable.
- The story follows the lives of the Ntoi family, with a particular focus on its women. At the heart of it is Buang, the formidable matriarch who works tirelessly to keep the family together – she’s a fierce protector, she is resilient and sadly has been hardened by her past. Then there’s Prettygirl, the vibrant life of a party – a familiar township character full of charm and energy. Her sister Rosemary is book-smart, focused, and disciplined; she is driven by ambition and purpose. Then there’s their cousin Moipone, a quiet and timid young woman who carries unseen scars from her childhood.
- Through the eyes of these women, the story explores their journeys as they chase their dreams while confronting culture, family secrets, love, relationships and the weight of past trauma.
- A multi layered captivating book. I loved how Lebo Mazibuko brought to light the vibrancy of Meadowlands (Soweto).
- One Golden Summer – Carley Fortune
• 4 stars- I stumbled upon this on Instagram, there was a lot of hype around it, and my curiosity was immediately sparked. I then had to read the 1st book, Every Summer After.
- Carley Fortune has a gift for painting the picture of a magical summer. As much as I loved Percy and Sam’s story in Every Summer After, I connected even more deeply with Charlie and Alice’s journey. This is a story steeped in nostalgia – One picture. Three teens. A yellow boat. Its where past summers collide with present-day choices, and a beautiful friendship slowly unfolds into a deeply emotional summer romance.
- Charlie is charming and self-assured. Alice gives more than she receives, she puts everyone before herself. Charlie helps Alice step out of her shell and Alice helps Charlie deal with his deep regret. They complement each other in so many ways and have the most hilarious banter. Their chemistry felt natural and warm.
- Overall, this was a fun, emotionally rich read, one that truly captures the magic of the lake. As the story reminds us, ‘Good things happen at the lake.’
- Things we left behind – Lucy Score
• 4 stars- This is the third and final book in the Knockemout series. Sloan and Lucian were my most anticipated couple in the series and Lucy Score didn’t disappoint.
- I absolutely loved Sloan and Lucian’s relationship, especially their sharp, entertaining banter. As adults, they may claim to loathe each other, but neither can deny the sparks between them. Their history adds so much depth to the story – from childhood friends, to sworn enemies after an incident that shattered their bond, and finally to lovers.
- Sloan is feisty, witty, and warm-hearted, with dreams of a traditional happy ending – a loving husband and children. Lucian, on the other hand, has become powerful and wealthy, capable of making anything happen, except committing to the idea of family, which he firmly resists.
- I love how Lucian would do anything for Sloane even when he insistent that he didn’t like her. It warmed my heart that they got their happy ending.
- While I didn’t particularly enjoy the crime subplot, it was expected, as it featured heavily in Things We Never Got Over and Things We Hide from the Light. Still, it was a joy to return to Knockemout. I have a soft spot for small-town settings – even fictional ones, as they stretch the imagination and transport you to places you may never otherwise experience.
- Tell me everything – Elizabeth Strout
• 4 stars- It follows a friendship between 90 year old Olive Kitteridge, Bob Burgess whose the central character, a lawyer and acclaimed writer Lucy Barton.
- Through quiet, intimate conversations, Lucy and Bob reflect on their lives and what might have been, while Olive and Lucy share stories about people they have known.
- The true allure of this book lies in its richly drawn characters and their complex inner lives—because human beings themselves are deeply complex. Woven through the narrative is a mystery that gradually unfolds, drawing in characters who carry their own layers of history and emotional depth.
- This book is beautifully written. Although I haven’t read the previous novels in the series, I found it easy to follow and completely captivating from start to finish.
- What a way to go – Bella Mackie
• 3.5 stars- A murder mystery with a humour all in one.
Anthony Wistern is a wealthy, charming, philander with a dysfunctional family set to inherit his fortune. Upon his untimely death, each of them becomes potential suspects. - The characters are self absorbed and not really likeable but they make a good story.
- A murder mystery with a humour all in one.
- The love we found – Jill Santos
• 3.5 stars- A sequel to The Light We Lost, which I would highly recommend reading before starting this book. Ten years have passed, and a great deal of life has unfolded since the end of the first story.
- This sequel is rich with blended family dynamics, hidden truths, and the challenge of confronting the past while learning how to move forward. It explores the reality that people are imperfect and that life is often complicated and messy. The story continues with Lucy a single mother juggling the needs of her children, her life after Gabe and finding love again.
- The story is emotional, it’s moving and it’s well written.
I’m chuffed with what I have been able to accomplish with my reading.
I’m chuffed with what I was able to achieve this year. The goal has been set and I plan to continue in 2026.
- The Wish – Nicholas Spark
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‘Come up, Slow Down’ – Gstaad
“Fill your life with experiences and have stories to tell…”
It dawned on me while on-route to our family holiday with the teenagers, that our very first travel adventure as a family squad was when they were 8 and 6. I used to refer to them as ‘little people.’ Fast forward to today, the not so ‘little people’ are 18 and 16. We even have an an addition to the travel squad and he’s 9.Through the years we’ve been blessed to see the world, experience different cultures and have endless stories to tell from our travel adventures.
Our most recent and unfortunate tale has to be from our visit to Gstaad in Switzerland. When we arrived at this charming pristine alpine village for our ski holiday, the weather was warm with sporadic rain, the grass was green and no snow. There was a definite change in weather.
We had read reports about the lack of snow across the Alps, but seeing it and experiencing it, was a different story. The difference in weather from January 2020 to January 2023 was so visibly alarming. We were witnessing the impact that Global Warming was having on the winter season in Europe.
Snow was forecast during our stay in Gstaad, we just had to wait for it and hope for the best.


January 2020 vs January 2023 

January 2020 vs January 2023 Julie Andrews once described Gstaad as ‘the last paradise in a crazy world’ – this swiss village is special, with its picturesque chalets, snow-covered mountains, world-class shopping, an abundance of outdoor sports activities and discreet understated luxury.

With our limited time on the slopes, we managed to find a perfect blend of activities and still had splendid time in Gstaad.What we got up to
When one thinks of Switzerland, one imagines alluring lakes, picture perfect snow covered skiing resorts, cheese and the world renowned swiss chocolate. It made sense for one of our activities to be a visit to a chocolate factory.1.Maison Cailler , is a chocolate factory and museum offering factory tours, tastings, workshops & an interactive museum.
We started with The Chocolate Experience for Family, where you get to create your own 3D Cailler chocolate animal. You can either do the sheep of the fish. (For some strange reason, we kept on referring to the sheep as the cow, which was not well received by the Master Chocolatier, who swiftly corrected our faux pas) The activity really makes one appreciate what goes into making these 3D chocolates, so many layers and attention to detail is key.
We also got to visit the museum and learnt the history of how the Swiss became so famous for their chocolatiers, how chocolate came to Europe, and how the Swiss people refined the product. The tour also gives insights on how cocoa is sourced, farmed, used for chocolates and sold.
A fun place to bond with family, away from the cold weather.


2. Glacier 3000 – Home to the world’s first suspension bridge that spans the top of two mountain peaks, breathtaking scenery and an array of activities is what makes a visit to the Glacier memorable.

Peak Walk by Tissot – Image Cred @ https://www.glacier3000.ch/ We did the dog sled activity and my 9 year old nephew, ‘in his honest opinion’, felt the experience did not live up to his expectations. (Such a funny character that one) Our overall experience on the Glacier was remarkable but jeepers was it cold.
The thing about being on a glacier is that the weather can change without any warning. When the sun begins to set and the wind starts to blow, its a whole other story. The type of cold that freezes your face and makes it feel slightly numb. By this stage, we had all started to lose our personalities.

3. Gstaad New Year’s Music Festival 2022/23 – an international classical music festival in Switzerland which took place in beautiful locations in the Pays-d’Enhaut and Saanenland regions.
We got to watch the Dreams music concert by Pretty Yende with Vanessa García. It’s always such a treat when you visit a country and get to watch a fellow South African doing remarkable things on a global stage. Pretty has a unique gift and amazing talent.

We were scheduled to visit the Iglu-Dorf, but due to some family members missing the brief on what to wear, it turned out to be a bad idea. As we arrived at Saanersloch Gondola base to take a Gondola to Iglu-Dorf that sits 2,000m above sea level, it became visibly obvious that some family members were not dressed warm enough.The whole entire situation was awkwardly funny. We were ‘those people’ and yes we did stick out as a family. It was not our finest moment but funny as hell…a story we will forever tell…
The ride to the top of the mountain did not go to waste, we did manage to take some family pictures.


Iglu-Dorf seen from the Gondola 


Where we ate
On the nights we went out as a family for dinner, we had a few delightful experiences and one that was a complete miss.1. Cappuccino Grand Cafe – A chic, casual and cosmopolitan café, housed in a traditional chalet on the Promenade. A perfect spot for a cup of coffee or cocktail or a hearty breakfast, lunch or dinner, the menu has a variety of options. I had one of the best Almond Matcha Lattes.
Only criticism is that the service is at a snail pace – staff have different functions and this causes confusion when you need to place an order. This also leads to unnecessary delays from when you order to when you receive your drinks and food.


Image Cred @ cappuccino.com 2. LEONARD’s at Le Grand Bellevue Hotel was by far our best dining experience, great ambience and attentive service.
Some menu items have a 30 minute preparation time, but they were all worth the wait. The Le Grand Spaghettone and the Whole Roasted Chicken “Le Patte Noire” from Gruyères, were the winning meal.
The spaghetti was al dente and one of the best tomato base pastas I’ve eaten. I believe the chicken was also cooked to perfection and beautifully plated, a hit with the meat eaters. It’s not often we ALL have a great food experience.

Image Cred @ Le Grand Bellevue Hotel 
Image Cred @ Le Grand Bellevue Hotel 3. Chubut – An Argentinian restaurant at the Park Gstaad hotel. For meat lovers, this place has amazing options. Sadly for Vegetarians, the limited selection available was not the best. But overall great dining experience for the family.


Image Cred @ Park Gstaad 4. Bar Park Gstaad – a cozy bar that also has live entertainment. The menu is substantial with something for everyone. We had a lovely dinner and lunch at the bar. Their sushi was lovely.


5. The Lobby Bar at Gstaad Palace is an elegantly decorated Lobby bar. It has gorgeous views of the mountain. The food was a bit of a disappointment, my lentil salad was blend and missing flavours. I believe the chicken salad ordered by my sister was also not the best. The lobby has a vibe to it with very interesting characters.


Where we stayed



Hotel Lobby
Park Gstaad is situated right in the heart of Gstaad, close to the famous town Promenade. The hotel enjoys uninterrupted views over the majestic mountains of the Swiss Alps.
Mountain Balcony Views
The hotel offers chalet style cosy rooms with a modern touches. All rooms have balconies – half facing the mountains and half the forest and are suitable for families, couples and solo travellers.
The hotel has several restaurants and bars:-
a. Avenue Montagne and Lounge – Delivers contemporary cuisine in a cozy and contemporary setting.
b. Chubut Food & Fire – the Argentinian restaurant that ‘delicately seasoned meats and deliciously fragrant spices’
c. Bar – a cozy bar that offers the finest sushi and live entertainment.
d. Chalet Waldhuus – a cozy wooden chalet with delicious local specialties, a wide selection of fondues and raclettes are available.
e. The Cigar Lounge offers the finest Cuban cigars and cognacs.
f. The Caveau offers fresh oysters, caviar and champagne, alongside an extensive cocktail menu.Plenty of options for everyone.

Avenue Montagne Lounge
The hotel has a fitness centre and spa that offers an array of treatments. There’s an indoor and outdoor pool, jacuzzi area, sauna, steam room.


Park Gstaad is also home to its very own indoor golf simulator and a games room for kids.
The staff at the hotel are attentive, helpful and really warm people.
What I love about being in Gstaad is the natural beauty. While roaming through the town one feels like they are on a set of a holiday movie.





Being back here was magical, the snow eventually fell but sadly it was on our last day.


A Splendid Experience!
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“A delectable amalgamation” of cuisines – Séjour Restaurant
“I want my food to tell a story – yes it’s about feeding people but it’s more than that it’s about telling stories, evoking curiosity and creating conversation around a table. I love that food can do that.”Dining at Séjour is all about going on a culinary journey of discovery curated by Chef Freddie Dias’.

Restaurant Entrance There are two menu options to choose from. The first option, Pioneer – the tapas menu honours the effervescent City of Gold, pays tribute to the people who are constantly pushing boundaries and overcome great challenges.
The second option, Explorer – the modern fine dining menu that traverses the globe and pays homage to the curious souls.

The menu itself is cleverly presented and one can take it home as a memento.
Because my husband and I don’t like to be limited with option, we dabbled in both journeys and had one of the most memorable dining experience.
The menu 
Combination of the Pioneer and Explorer menu options 
Dessert Séjour is a splendid place to share food be it with a +1, family or friend, the experience stays with you.
TS!
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Abu Dhabi – aThrowBack
“We take photographs as a return ticket to a moment otherwise gone”
Pre-2020 travelling was effortless (no mask, no PCR test, no vaccine certificate) With all these Covid-19 variants, planning a trip has become an extreme sports. We are all yearning for things to somewhat go back to some form of ‘normality’
For now, some of us, will continue to look back at old photographs, they tell stories of a moment and time once lived. They have become the only constant is this uncertain world we are living in. Thanks to google gallery #throwback, I was recently reminded of a trip we took to Abu Dhabi in 2019. Looking through the photographs brought me so much joy. Our family trips had become a highlight.
The timing of these pictures from is actually unfortunate with the recent drone attack claimed by Yemen. I do hope it does not have any negative impact for future travel to Abu Dhabi. Just recently, it was named the safest city in the world by Numbeo Safety Index 2022.
Abu Dhabi is a fantastic holiday destination, there’s so much to see and do – iconic landmarks, cultural and historical attractions, action-packed theme parks, breathtaking natural landscape dunes. You can laze on the beach, sample numerous dining options and go shopping.

What we did
Our holiday was a great blend of indoor and outdoor activities. Thanks to our family holiday planner, my sister has our holidays on lock-down, she’s just gets it right.
- Warner Bros (WB) World Abu Dhabi – is the world’s first ever indoor theme park for WB and its such a joyful experience. When we entered, the theme song from Bugs Bunny was playing, there’s nothing quiet like a theme song from our childhood cartoons. WB World features blockbuster rides and attractions, themed restaurants, boutiques and live entertainment.

Bugs Bunny Statue at the Entrance The theme park combines six immersive lands:-
a. Warner Bros – which celebrates the golden age of Hollywood and acts as the portal to the rest of the park.
b. Plaza, Gotham City – this is batman’s hometown, you’ll also find The Riddler, The Joker, Catwoman, Harley Quinn and many more.
c. Metropolis – is home of Clark Kent/Superman and the Daily Planet. This land is also home to The Justice League.
d. Cartoon Junction – home to Bugs Bunny, Tom and Jerry, Scooby-Doo and more.
e. Bedrock – The home of the Flintstones.
f. Dynamite Gulch – You will find Wile E. Coyote and Road Runner on the Fast & Furry-ous roller coaster as well as Yosemite Sam, The Jetsons and Marvin The Martian.

Riddler Revolution Ride

Fast and Furry-out Roller Coaster Ride

The joker fun house – image cred timeoutabudhabi.com
- Ferrari World Abu Dhabi – home to the fastest roller coaster on the planet, the largest indoor theme park in the world, with over 20 rides and a hyper-realistic racing simulator. Whether you are a Ferrari fan or not, this theme park is a lot of fun. Where else can one tour a Ferrari factory, attempt an F1 tyre change challenge, do a driving experience, go karting, go on ample rides and wander through a gallery of ferrari cars.





- Yas Waterworld Abu Dhabi – waters greatest playground.
This water park is a combination of Valley of the Waves in Sun City, uShaka Marine World in Durban and what was once Shareworld (if you grew up in the eighties and lived in Soweto you will know what I’m talking about) but with more water activities, rides and a roller coaster.
The water park was perfect for a lazy day, we soaked up the sun, swam and kids went on rides.


- IMG World of Adventure is Dubai’s first mega theme park and the worlds largest theme park. If you know anything about Dubai, they don’t do small scale stuff. On one of the days, we drove to Dubai for a day (The drive from Abu Dhabi to Dubai is 1h23m)

(Photo by Aasiya Jagadeesh/ITP Images) The theme park has 4 zones – Cartoon Network, MARVEL, IMG Boulevard and The Lost Valley – Dinosaur adventure zone.
The park boasts an extensive range of thrilling rides, roller coasters that are one of a kind attractions based on popular Cartoon Network characters, iconic MARVEL super heroes and dinosaurs

Avenger World 
Hulk Ride 
The Predator at Lost Valley - Dune Bashing and Sandboarding
A travel to the Abu Dhabi in not complete without a visit to the actual desert. Some of the tours have a great mixture of desert experiences.
Our tour included – a 4×4 drive on sand dunes, a visit to a camel farm, a camel ride (from the day we arrived, this was on my youngest nephew’s to do list), sandboarding, falcon experience and dinner under the stars.


Camel Rides with the travel squad Our last full day was pool day but I decided to immerse myself in a bit of culture. Spent the morning at the Sheikh Zayed Grand Mosque and the afternoon at the Louvre Abu Dhabi.
a. Sheikh Zayed Grand Mosque is an architectural beauty, one of the largest in Abu Dhabi, it was built to embody Islam’s foremost message of peace, tolerance and welcome people of all beliefs.
Sheik Zayed Grand Mosque view from the road 
Sheik Zayed Grand Mosque view from inside 
It holds a Guinness World Record for the largest hand-woven carpet and also boasts one of the largest chandeliers in a mosque.


You need to see it to fully understand what a unique marvel this place is, a remarkable monument in its beauty and aura.
Conservative attire is a must, in order to gain entry and love the fact that they do provide Chador – traditional garment that covers full body and hair but open in the front.
Dressed in a Chador b. Louvre Abu Dhabi – “is a new cultural beacon, bringing different cultures together to shine fresh light on the shared stories of humanity.”
A collaboration between United Arab Emirates and France, Louvre Abu Dhabi presents a historical narrative of art that spans the entire history of civilization to the dazzling architecture that combines French design with Arabic heritage.


The uniqueness of the museum and its beautiful setting is a must see for art-lovers, collectors and the curious.

Fountain of Light – Ai Weiwei Germany, Berlin and China, Beijing 
Virgin and Child, France, Normandy | Illuminated Quran, Mamluk, Sultanate, Egypt 
Left Image: Portrait of a Woman called La Belle Ferronniere – Leonardo da Vinci, Italy Milan and Right Image: Virgin and Child – Giovanni Bellini Italy, Venice 
Jenny Holzer’s iconic wall Where we stayed
The story of our stay at Emirates Palace will go down as one of those believe it or not stories. When my sister was planning the trip, the hotel confirmed a rate that seemed to good not to miss. She then requested they send her a confirmation in writing.
Unfortunately for the hotel, the rate was indeed to good to be true and yes we lucked out due to that error. The hotel honoured their confirmation and we got to stay.

Hotel Exterior: Image cred: mandarinoriental.com/abu-dhabi/emirates-palace 
Image cred: mandarinoriental.com/abu-dhabi/emirates-palace Driving inside the property, we were in awe, the hotel has that palace feel you see in movies. Granted the hotel name does allude to the fact that it’s a palace, but then again, there are myriad of hotels with the word palace in the name and are far from being a palace.
The main palace building stretches over a kilometre from wing to wing, with its gardens stretching across 100 hectares. I actually managed to run 5kms inside the hotel property.

Chasing the Sun – Scenes from my morning run inside the hotel 
Scenes from my morning run The hotel interior is opulent, grand and evocative of Arabia’s rich décor – luxurious chandeliers hanging from ceilings, ornate tapestries, elaborate geometrical designs with gold dominating the theme.

Hotel Interior – The chandeliers and gold interior 
Hotel Interior 
Our Accommodation This place is magical, it has a private beach, as well as a private marina overlooking the natural bay, two temperature-controlled swimming pools, a lavish spa, a fitness centre, bars, restaurants and a Kids Club.

Hotels private beach – image cred: mandarinoriental.com 
Top Image: Pool, Bottom Left: Spa Entrance, Bottom Right: Gym Staying at this distinctive landmark was a whole new level of opulence and a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
One cannot deny the fact that Abu Dhabi has transformed itself into a iconic and thriving 21st-century city. It offers something for everyone regardless of age and interest.
A truly splendid experience!
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‘A Perfect Stay’– Royal Malewane
‘A perfect stay‘ simply describe our bush weekend stay at Royal Malewane Safari Lodge which is situated within the greater Kruger National park in the Thornybush Nature Reserve – the lodge redefines the concept of solitude.

“You ‘ll know the people that feed your soul…because you ‘ll feel good after spending time with them.”
I spent the weekend with the ‘aunty’ crew, the most amazing group of ladies – we laughed, we ate, we danced, they sang ballads till early hours of the morning. Not even a major storm that caused a black-out, could deter them from staying up late and having a jovial time.

The Aunty Crew Our itinerary was well put together by our hostess with the mostess, she’s a stickler for detail. We received information on what was planned for the weekend, what to pack and the weather forecast.
Our Itinerary: –
Friday
- Depart Joburg for Hoedspruit Limpopo
- Lunch at the Lodge
- Afternoon Game Drive
- Pajama Dinner Party
Saturday
- Early morning game drive
- Brunch
- SPA
- All White Dinner
Sunday
- Morning at leisure
- Brunch
- Depart Hoedspruit for Joburg
The Accommodation
Our home for the weekend was nothing but exceptional. The decor – classic safari style, furnished with rich antiques, african art paintings, cozy couches and persian rugs.
There were some questionable décor pieces but overall, beautifully curated and love the brave use of colours.




The rooms are uniquely decorated, the bathrooms are elegant, with inside and outdoor showers and Victorian-style bathtubs. The personalised welcome on the bathroom floor was super cool.


The lodge is surrounded by wilderness, with an outside pool that overlooks the bush where animals roam freely.

Elephants roaming outside our villa 
Outside pool overlooking the bush 
Entrance to our villa 
The courtyard by night Royal Malewane has two accommodation options:-
- Main Lodge which has six Luxury Suites, two Royal Suites (which each have two bedrooms), and Africa House, the six bedroom villa.
- The Farmstead has three Luxury Farm Suites, and The Farmhouse – a three and a half bedroom private villa.
The property can accommodate up to 32 guests. Africa House and the Farmstead guests have the exclusivity of having a full team on site (Chef, butler, housekeeper, ranger and tracker) which works well as these villas are seperate from the main lodge.
The Game Drive – ‘Unique Encounters’
Game viewing at Royal Malewane is tailored to the individual needs of the guests. Like most people going on safari spotting the Big 5 animals (lion, leopard, cape buffalo, elephant and black rhino) is a must.
Royal Malewane takes pride in ensuring that ‘the most experience and qualified guiding team in Africa’ accompany guests on their game drives.
On our Friday afternoon game drive, we spotted Mufasa (Lion) and learned that he had just eaten Pumba (Warthog) for breakfast and was struggling with a bad case of itis.

Comatosed Mufasa On route to go see the pride of Lions, we spotted a Giraffe, Rhino and an abundance of ‘fast food’, a term used to describe impalas. Our game drive was unfortunately cut short by thunderstorm that was brewing and we did not want to risk being outdoors with the Limpopo lighting.




Our Saturday morning game drive, we spotted buffalos, nyalas, hippos and wild dogs. Unfortunately for us, no leopards were spotted but both game drives were a delight.



The Food – ‘A sensory experience’
A personalized menu set the scene to the type of culinary experience we were in for.
Our lunches were light meals but substantial, with our dinners being extra special – a four or five course meal. A full breakfast buffet with fresh fruits, cereals, pastries and eggs to order.
Our special dietary requirements were catered for by the chef who ensured that we had a sublime dining experience.

Personalised Menu 
Lunch Setting 
Breakfast Setting overlooking the watering hole 
Dinner Setting at the Lodge The Spa – ‘Complete Harmony’
The spa is a perfect refuge, its peaceful and tranquil. We spent most of Saturday being treated by their in-house therapist. A range of treatments and massages are available.
The Spa includes a fully-equipped gym, a heated lap pool, steam room, hot and cold African baths.

The heated lap pool 

Spa treatment Room 
The gym Royal Malewane is a perfect balance of luxury and nature, a perfect setting for a weekend getaway be it with friends or family.
There’s bush weekend getaway and theres Royal Malewane bush weekend getaway, simply exquisite. What a splendid weekend and grateful to have been invited to celebrate the life and friendship.
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Tea Time at Hazendal Wine Estate
I took a journey into a centuries old Russian tradition at Hazendal ‘where heritage is celebrated through the introduction of contemporary architecture and design.’
Hazendal Wine Estate is a ‘unique winelands experience’ nestling in the Bottelary Hills, on Bottelary Road, in Stellenbosch.

Whether you’re in search of indulgence, adventure, or simply a spot of relaxation, there’s something for everyone.
The estate offers a variety of unique venues and experience, one such experience is the Russian Tea Ceremony which was the sole purpose of my visit.
The Russian Tea Ceremony celebrates the central role tea has played in Russian society since 1638. Russian people are known for not just drinking vodka but also tea, which is an important part of culture.

Tea for One How the Russian Tea Ceremony is presented at Hazendal:-
A specially sourced and imported black Russian tea blend is served from a steaming Samovar (ornate Russian tea urn)
- The Samovar is the central symbol of the Russian Tea Ceremony.

The Samovar The tea is then served using a traditional hand-painted porcelain tea sets from the Dulevo porcelain factory, one of the oldest and most famous porcelain producers in Russia.
Sweet and savoury Russian delights are served as part of the tea experience. The delights are eaten from the centre with the Olivier salad, then to the left of the plate going clockwise.
- You can choose between standard (meat), vegetarian or gluten free menu, they even have an option for kids.
The Vegetarian Menu
Baranki on Samovar – crisp tea biscuit on a Russian tea urn
Oladyi – crumpet with mushroom and herb ragout
Blinchik – thin crêpe with créme fraiche and spring onion
Spinach Piroshok – fried pastry filled with creamed spinach and feta cheese Cabbage Piroshok – fried pastry filled with braised cabbage and potato Olivier salad – Russian potato salad
Dark chocolate custard tart
Sharlotka inspiration – apple and phyllo rose pastry Pavlova – meringue with non-dairy cream and seasonal berries Russian chocolate salami
Zephyr – fruit meringueHazendal’s Russian Tea Ceremony stands out as an exotic and culturally enriching memorable experience. ‘radostnoye vremya (a joyful time)’
Booking Information:-
- The Russian Tea Ceremony is presented Tuesday to Sunday: 10:00 – 17:00 (last booking at 15:00)
- Bookings are essential and require a minimum of 24 hours’ notice. 50% pre-payment is required to secure the booking.
- The Russian Tea Ceremony is R395 per adult and R255 per child (12 years and under)
- Mid-week Special (Tuesday – Thursday) is R335 per adult and R216 per child (12 years and under)
The Estate

The Estate offers a variety of unique venues where all types of functions and events can be held.



Yet another Splendid Experience!

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